 When the narcissist ignores you do this when they're around other people Narcissists can be charming and charismatic But behind closed doors. They are disconnected They are inconsiderate of your needs They lack empathy They're unable to share your feelings or perspective The narcissist will ignore you when you need them the most Because they want supply They want your reaction It fuels them, but it's never enough They always want more Which is why everything always has to be about them and it's why they ignore your needs Because it gives them your reaction Which feeds their soul And it makes them think that they have won But those feelings of victory and triumph Only last for a short period of time Which is why they have to keep you coming back Which is another reason why they ignore you They love to see your persistency and determination They love to see you continuing firmly and obstinately In your opinion and course of action in spite of difficulty and opposition It gratifies them. It brings them amusement and enjoyment Which is why they specifically target people who are kind and given Because those are the easiest targets for them to destroy And if you confront them on it, they will blame shift They will gaslight They will do anything they can to avoid accountability Because they don't want to resolve the issue All they care about is supply Which is why they will ignore you to keep you coming back To keep you wanting to engage in meaningful conversations While they future fake, while they feed you false promises and lies To keep you holding on While they pretend to care about your needs But everything they do is just so that they can feel needed So that they can feel like they matter to someone So that they can feel like they have a useful purpose Which is a very twisted way of going about it But this is what they do They will tell you whatever they think you want to cure But it will never come into fruition Because they never took the steps to make it a reality They lied and promised something about your possible future In order to get what they wanted in the present They will only give you something if they believe they can get something back in return And most often what they want is your attention They want to be included and amashed with you But they have an ulterior motive for doing that They are very distrustful They're opportunists They're only looking to see what they can get To cause drama and chaos To gas like you To deflect To make you feel like you're bad or wrong So that they can feel like they're in control By leaving you in a state of disorder and confusion Because it gives them supply They are the puppet master They enjoy being in control of events and of other people's actions It compensates for their lack of stability and security They made an intentional decision to ignore you Because they're very petty and immature And it's designed to test you To see how you will react But it's also meant to punish you for being more attractive or more intelligent than they are Because they are deeply envious of you Their lack of communication It's meant to communicate to you that you are irrelevant But it's also a test to make you seek an advantage from them To make you win their attention While they make excuses for their absence But if you ignore them It will frustrate them Because that's not what they wanted you to do And they want to be in control They want to dictate your actions So if you ignore them They may come back to love bomb you While they're talking about you to other people behind your back Which is why when the narcissist ignores you You need to ignore them When you do that They will see you as a threat Because they need your reaction to get supply But it will make them very uncomfortable It will show them that you're not winning to play their game That you don't need them That you're happier without them And you should feel grateful that they're out of your life Because now you have an opportunity to make your life better and greater without them Thank you for watching If you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up Share your thoughts in the comment section Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications If you would like to support the channel You can donate at paypal.amyslashnarksurvivor You can book a one-on-one with me or my website It's narksurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon