 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and in today's video We're gonna talk about five things that men want But we'll never ask you for and if this is your first time to our channel Make sure that you hit the subscribe button to get more videos on how to have the relationship that you've always wanted So a lot of people out there men and women they'll get into a relationship And there's certain things that they want and they need in the relationship But they they don't really feel like it's their place to tell their partner about it And so we're gonna talk about some things that men typically Want and need in a relationship But tend not to talk about because it's not really they maybe they don't feel it like it's okay for them to talk about Maybe they're they've been told that what they want doesn't matter There's a lot of reasons why a guy might not talk or tell you about the things that he really wants In his relationship, and you know, he'll he'll never just ask you for him So we've got five of them here and number five is really one of the most important ones It's really one of the most powerful ones. So make sure that you stay tuned until that one So number one is he wants to be noticed for his Masculine qualities right his masculine traits. So being masculine, you know the masculine what it is is It's the provider and the protector, right? So it's it's him Taking care of things. It's him Protecting you, you know, even if you feel like you don't need protection or you don't want a guy to protect you or take care of you That doesn't matter, right because men want to feel like they're men, right? It would be like telling a woman that You know who wants to feel like a woman that she it doesn't matter what she wants or to feel like a woman You know men want to feel like men and so if you want him to Feel really good about you and you want him to feel like he's getting his needs met You know compliment him or appreciate him or tell him that you're grateful for things that he does that are masculine, right? So things like protecting you or you know paying for something or you know Any way where he's taking care of you or he's fixing things for you or he's making sure that you're okay Compliment him on those things and he'll absolutely love it So the second thing that a man really wants but probably won't ask you for is he wants you to respect him for who he is and what he does well and so respect is really important in a relationship and I've talked about this and in other videos and other programs that I have and Really men want to feel like they're respected. It's it's as important to them as For a woman to feel love, right? He wants to be respected by men He wants to be respected by the woman that he's with and You know, he wants to be respected. He wants to earn that respect, right? So a lot of women that I talked to don't seem to understand this whole thing about earning a respect and You know, I don't think that you should just give out respect. I think that Men want to feel respected no matter what in their relationship, right? But I also think that he wants to feel To you like he's earned that respect, right? And so what you want to look at is the things that he's done in his life and who he is as a man and what he's Created and what he's good at and what he's talented with and and kind of the places that he's been working on in his life and you want to appreciate him and tell him you value him and and Tell him you're grateful or are attracted to those things that he does that he's been working on and that's really really powerful and Really attractive to a man. So number three is that he wants your never-ending Undying loyalty and support and so You know he a man Loyalty to a man is really really important, you know, and he wants you a woman that's gonna stand by him and You know when he's feeling like he's alone or if things are going badly in his life or You know, he's he's fighting for something or he's Kind of in some kind of struggle of some sort, you know He wants he wants to have a woman who stand by who stands by him and is loyal to him and talks him up Around other people as well as to himself And if if you're he wants a woman who really believes in him, you know or or helps him believe in himself Like a woman like that is just oh my god like to men It's just so so a powerful and so attractive and just you know It's it's it's one of those things where if a guy's got that he's like I don't want to let this woman go She's amazing So number four is he wants a woman who will allow him to have his space if he feels like he needs it Right and so there's kind of this thing out there in the relationship world where women are like Oh, no some women that I've talked to in our community Have said things like oh no when when you're in a relationship. You don't have free time anymore You don't have your own space. It's all about us And that's really the smothering kind of like, you know pushing a guy away type of thing Because it's just really, you know, like some people need space, you know, and some women need space, right? I get women all the time. They're like, yeah, I need my space too and You know if a guy needs some space give him some space, you know, like let him let him go hang out with his friends You know encourage him to go out and do his hobbies, you know encourage him to do things that he wants to do on his own That is like so attractive, you know, it's like the opposite of kind of like there's this thing in in the The relationship world where you know a guy gets into a relationship and it's like all of a sudden He can't do things on his own anymore. You know, it's like, you know, he's possessed by this woman And it's really unattractive to him and it makes him feel like less of a man And so you want to give him some space if he really needs it So number five and this is just unbelievably powerful one is he wants to be able to tell you anything, right? He wants to have a woman that he feels safe to open up around and just tell anything to without feeling like she's gonna go and Talk about it with other people or feeling like she's going to like make fun of him You know, there's a lot of women out there that are they kind of get stuck in their masculine and they're like teasing guys And you know a guy will open up about something and she'll like make fun of him And that immediately like puts her in this category of like this person that I can't open up to and tell things to right and Instead you want to be somebody that he can say anything to somebody that he can say anything to without him feeling like you're gonna get jealous or angry or Hurt or upset, you know, and I'm not saying that those emotions are bad emotions for you to have or that you should suppress those things But if you want a guy to really kind of fall in love with you and feel like you're just this amazing special woman He's got to feel like he can just talk to you about anything in them in the higher Extent that he feels like he can tell you anything The more you'll feel like man, this woman is just absolutely amazing. 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