 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're gonna be talking about first date conversation topics that all women should have with men so there's a few things that You know the the conversations that you have with a man on a first date can kind of make or break Whether he's attracted to you and whether he likes you or whether He doesn't and doesn't want to meet up with you ever again. And so You know you need to make sure that you're talking about the right things and so the first thing is Conveying things about yourself and really it's telling stories about yourself And so there are two types of stories that you need to tell like stories are amazing. Okay Everybody loves stories. We've been telling stories since before there was written word And that's how we passed information along to each other. And and so when someone tells a story, especially if it's a good story We kind of just sit back and listen, you know, and we enjoy it and we think about it And it you know tells us a lot about ourselves and engages us. It's interesting. So telling stories and specifically stories about Two things here one being your values, which is the things that you feel are important to you in life And the second thing that you want to tell stories about is your personality And just conveying different parts of your personality and most people kind of tell stories and talk about things They don't have any conscious awareness about what they're talking about and then they wonder why people are you know either Magically repelled or magically attracted to them and it's because they don't put any thought into what it is that they're talking about so the second thing that you'll want to talk about on on a first date is exciting or fun things that you've done in your life or Exciting and fun things that you're going to do in your life. And so There's nothing better than talking about things that are fun and exciting and and if you don't talk about things that are fun and exciting Then what are you talking about? But if you do talk about those things They can make things a lot more interesting and so the Kind of the thing that you'd say the question that you'd start with is have you ever right like have you ever gone? and you know done this or have you ever thought about you know going snowboard and I you know and You can start up a conversation that way and then talk about You know a fun time that you've done it or something that you want to go and do and and that's a great Conversation topic and it also kind of creates a chance for a guy to be like hey, let's go do that together right So the third thing that the third conversation topic that you want to talk about is Talking about what he's passionate about in life, and so this I'll tell you a lot about a guy first off If a guy's not passionate about anything that's probably a big problem in general and that's should be a big red flag for you So you want to find out what he's passionate about and this could be his job It could be some hobby of his could be you know all kinds of different things So, you know find out what he's passionate about a lot of times women are like oh, you know I can't get a guy to open up and talk to me. You know most guys will talk forever about Things that they're passionate about things that they're into and so if you find out what he's into and talk to him about that or You know for that matter just let him ramble on about it You're much more likely to get a great conversation out of him and more information about him and and get him to like you then if you Just try to go off the cuff and talk about You know guy topics or something You know that won't make him attracted to you So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship make sure you visit my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon