 These three words Will crush The narcissist Narcissists want attention They want you to notice them Everything they do is designed to get a reaction out of you so that they can feel important So that they can feel like there's something significant to you So that they can feel like they exist they matter that is Their desired outcome and result for everything that they do so How you should respond Is in a way where you don't show that there anything significant or important to you and By doing that you can use these three words That I'm about to share with you because They just want your attention and That is their supply They don't really care if it's positive or negative supply but most often once you stop feeding into the illusion and You stop Validating their lies and stories That's when they will settle for negative supply and when that happens You have to use these three words and the three words Are I don't care, but when you say these three words You have to feel it And mean it You can't just say I Don't care But you don't really mean it Because they will sense it They will know that those words are not genuine. They will know that they have got to you And they're gonna keep doing it Which is why when you use these three words when you say you don't care You have to really Feel that inside you You have to really mean it And these words are actually very powerful because it reveals to them That you've had enough it reveals to them that you just fed up of hearing it Their words don't even matter to you anymore They don't even affect you that really is One of the main things that affects them when they're no longer effective I hurt you When they're no longer able to affect you because that's when they feel like they've lost Their power and control over you That's when they feel like they've lost their supply They begin to feel insignificant Or relevant and that's really the purpose of saying these words to the narcissist It's to show them that they're no longer relevant and there's really nothing worse For a narcissist and that For them to feel irrelevant For them to feel rejected by you the very person that They try so hard to hurt and you may think that they don't really care, but They do That's where they go out of their way to hurt you To destroy you They do all of that because it's very important to them Your reaction is important to them So of course when you tell them that you don't care and you really fear it and mean it It will crush them. I'm in a new town now Just looking out on the balcony outside my apartment very different view to the city I was just in Can't really see too much right now Because it's nighttime But look like there's some mountains in the back there Nice patch of grass here and a road in the distance So yeah, quite a peaceful area here for a change and a good place to make these videos Not too noisy as it was Miss Goldie asked where is Nala? Nala's just there. You can see under the chair. I have to be careful letting her out here because I don't know if she can jump down. It's not too far But then it's difficult for her to come back in so I don't want to lose her. But yeah, just to summarize Narcissists they want your reaction They want to be relevant. They want to be significant. They want to feel like they matter like they exist And to shut them down all you have to do Is tell them I don't care, but you have to mean it you have to feel it Because if you don't they will sense it They will know that they're getting to you and they're gonna keep doing it. It's gonna get worse So yeah, just tell them I don't care and what should they respond to that? They will feel defeated It will crush them It will leave them feeling irrelevant and there's no worse punishment free narcissists than that anyway That's all I've got to say for this one I hope you enjoyed it if you did please give it a thumbs up down below and Share this video Click the subscribe button and if you'd like to make a donation you can do that through my PayPal It's PayPal.me slash Narcissiva The channel was demonetized just a few days ago, so We're no longer receiving an income from YouTube And of course there are The video editing fees I have to be paid every month Which are sometimes up to five hundred dollars a month And of course there are other people working for the company as well So if you'd like to make a contribution Especially now that we have been demonetized and there's no Income coming in from YouTube You can make a donation for the PayPal. It's PayPal.me slash Narcissiva. I Appreciate all the all donations No matter how big or small It means a lot And it really helps us out also check on my Instagram as well, it's Narcissiva YouTube on Instagram and Yeah, that's all for this video. I Hope you all have a great day