 Their behavior is not your reality, it's theirs. Sometimes we are around people who have a habit of projecting their behavior's causes onto us and want to make that our reality when it's really theirs. And when we can't separate those two things out, we suffer, we get hurt. We all have these people in our lives and we've all been these people. It doesn't make you a bad person. I think we all tend to do this from time to time. Who's in your life today like that? That is always making you responsible for their behavior when you know you're not being separate those two things out. You can still enjoy having that person around, but be less triggered because you have disassociated their behavior from your reality. They're two separate things. Cheers.