 Regarding privacy within the marriage, you talked about transparency, what are the limits? What if others, like the in-laws, ask their spouse not to share a halal but private conversation? Bismillah al-Rahman al-Rahim. I saw that question, I was a little confused by the context. The in-laws are speaking to whom and it was a bit confusing for me, but in general, I would say that, as I mentioned during the talk, there are certain things that are sacred in the marital relationship. And the bond that we have with our spouses is really important to maintain. As we know, Iblis seeks to destroy the family because if he destroys the husband and the wife, he destroys the family, he destroys the community, has a circle effect. So we have to be on guard and know his tactics and having secrecy in these duplicitous natures where I have my life and you have your life and we don't ever really have transparency. I think it's a very dangerous game to play and it comes from a lot of these modern ideas about women and men having to always have everything as Dr. Haifa beautifully alluded to. It's always these political ideas that come into our marriages. We have to use hikmah, we have to use wisdom and I think just having some basic understandings between you and every couple is gonna have to decide what that means. For example, my marriage, my husband any day, any time of the day, it doesn't matter, it's over the middle of the night and the morning, if he wants to see my phone, Marahala, here you go. There's no, oh no, you can't look at my stuff, it's private, he doesn't have access to my passcode. I just don't believe that that's healthy so he can get into my phone and I can go into his phone. I have all his access to his emails, he can go into my email, he can do whatever he wants. But he knows respectfully, there are certain things that are very private and I tell him because I have sisters that message me that for that reason, please do not touch these things because it's confidence that I have of other women or other people but everything else between him and I, there is this understanding that there's no privacy. So I think really having a culture of mutual respect, of honoring one another's preferences, some people might have more things that they want just from experiences. I know people have come out of really unhealthy relationships so they might need a little bit more in their current relationship because of their past. So just being compassionate and seeing people where they are and having open dialogue, I think will remove a lot of the doubt and suspicion and all of those things in Shaitan and that he wants to create between the couple. So just have open communication. As far as in-laws and other people, again, we have to be very clear about boundaries within our marriages and that goes for anybody that's not involved in the marriage. You can always seek advice but to have people meddling in your marriage I think is also a very dangerous thing so we should be very clear that we will, as a couple for example, if we have problems that we have one person or at least there's a due process of how we're going to mediate our problems but it's not this kind of open haphazard way of letting anybody into the marriage because there's things that are very private and once you lose trust, again, this is how Shaitan sows those seeds of discord. So these agreements, a lot of the stuff can be taken care of with premarital counseling so please, if you're not married, go into premarital counseling because experts like Mashallah, Dr. Rania and others who are in the field of either mental health or do this as a professional, this is part of their expertise, they will guide you on how to have these contracts that are mutually beneficial. That is the key. It has to be mutually beneficial. That's very different than equal, okay? And those words I know are interchanged but mutually beneficial is rooted in respect. It's rooted in, again, taqwa and inshallah in the pleasure of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala above the nuffs and if we, I think, conduct ourselves in that respectful way, we will have agreements with our spouses that will not leave anyone feeling that they have a need to hide or have a need to do things any other way. So.