 کوئی دفوس ہوئے سکتے ہیں جو آپ کا سوند دن کی حکوریت ہے آپ کا درخان کھو不到 ہے فیہی کا ہی ہے وہ پیدا جائے جس سے سابقہ بھی ہوں گے اس میں کچھ لوگوں کو سامجھا رہا ہوں گے آپ جانے کیا ہوتے ہیں ہاں ہی ہاں ہمارے کھو ہوا ہمارے کسی فہم ہمارے کھو اضافت کریں ہمارے کھو اضافت کیا ہمارے کھو اضافت کریں کمی� رشان پر نواجہ کے لئے واقعہ بھی جائے لیگس کردی۔ ویی میخواحیت سلہ ہم بحث ذکر کرنے کے طرف کہناا ہم سے ذکر کرنا جاتا ہے۔ ، ویی خرابق خیلی ہم بیلا کرتے ہیں۔ ناада کیہاں نصورتا ہے کہ وہ نصورتا ہے۔ وہ اللہ اور رسول کو ماہدوں کو مباشہ نہیں تر�旦تا ہے۔ سطلا ڈالیہی و سلھم نے تکسی ہے۔ ان کا مقاعدہ ہے؟ میرے بھر امریک ہیں کمرضا ہ sharpen سنگری نہیں اگر نہیں کوئی مریک ، تو چیز اور بھرptہ سلہ سے رکھتے ہیں۔ آپ نے اللہ کے اجهوه'll ہوتی ہے لیکن آپ اللہ کو پرت börjar Glennu ہیں لیکن آپ کو سپولی Nikki탁 پاتائے ہیں آپ کو کوئی تصہب ہوتا ہیں ان میں ہماします کے مجھا انہیں آپ کو ایلاء بھی Hold réussی اợرائی میںande ان کو جیش کرنے کے بارشughter ہے کہ آپ کو اللہ کیا Lav ما کیا Esperoئے,.ادائر Smoke آپ جہا rally's نمیہ کچھ جہا رہے ہیں Nichtگ Education تو اسے ق自由 کے حالاتوں سے ویرووات ہے جیسے سبینوں کا رہے ہیں جب وہ پراتاں کے لیے تھی لیکنے کے لئے سوہریں اور بیٹھیں گے۔ میں فلک سکیار درسی طرح ایک Multi میںṣا جیا جا۔ میں لیکن آپ کو ایجادی اچھا سکتا ہے۔ م! شاہ اللہ م! اللہ بہت جازار کردے سا۔ و اللہ ہے کہ یہ دائیں گے ملیانتی کے لئے۔ یہ دائیں گے ملیانتی کے لئے ، دائے لیکن آپ کا لیکنے کیا جائیں گے۔ because اُس Agreئران کے آج سے انکریم ہے ، if they don't want tell them i'm use father it will not haاتh ہے Cann .. if you are not happy it's not going to happen and if they want something for as long as it's not haram my brothers and sisters let it occur be happy for it solve your problem you will not have an answer 4 for Allah on the day of judgement if you block something, Allah Богاف لحق جہاں اصل relax گای اور asک کو Thompson's عبیتokuپ آبت picnic lo Res Twin م کا نسبна do You will not have an answer 4 تو اللہ سبحانہخرو اس پ니 کس پر عورت آعلا اے اف جار م week if you blocked and stopped something that Allah allows it but you say no I'm not allowing it who are you اللہ و اکبر may Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ make us realize our mistakes don't melt because the rest are there everyone has a big wedding you want to have a big wedding سبحانہ اللہ very big wedding have a simple one start a new trend have a simple wedding we cannot afford to get our سوجانتا ہے لیکن ہمارے کے لئے ہمارے میں ضرورت نہیں ہے لیکن ہمارے میں مصطرح گیا ہے جو سوائیت سے بہر کوئی بردیں لیکن وہavalیمہ کے لئے کے لئے ہے اور یہ ہے ہے کہ آپ کی ایک لیکن ہے بات برہنے میں لکھایا ہے ایک لیکن آئیا ہے جب آپ新ی آپ کی قسیل کی آئے نہیں پڑا کیا آپ ایک لیکن ایک لیکن گیا کہ آپ کو قسیل میں یہ ہےctors کو سمجھتے ہیں ایک لیکن میں ایک لیکن کام ہے کہ آپ ہے اگر آپ اس کے بعد صدا جاتے ہیں کہ آپ کو تھی کسی بھی نہیں ہوتی۔ آپ جانا ہے؟ جو پر بلیمہ ہے جلسا سے بھی ایک فنشان کیا کہ آپ سے مخطب کو لے سکتے ہیں ، ہمارے سے بہت مئے کسی کسی ہوتی ہے کہ آپ جانگ آپ جانے کے لییت سے پر چارتے ہیں ، کبار flower کے لئے دراری ہے۔ آپ podía اسی چارتے ہیں کہ انگرہے ہیں کتبہ بھی محقائی اور چارٹے ہیں کہ انگرہارا ہے ، کے لئے انگرہارا ہے کہ because it's too expensive they come and borrow and imagine you got so many daughters so many sons what's going to happen you're holding your head allah بے اللہ سبحانہ وتعالہ make it easy نکاہ is so simple there was a companion of رسول اللہ سلام who walked into a house in order to ask for his friend who was waiting outside according to one narration okay it's the point i want to raise from it and he says you know what i have so and so he wants to marry your daughter that's how simple it was today we make it so difficult when you go you need to take parcels you know these parcels how many it's more expensive than the whole marriage sometimes on parcel this that we taking everything cut here rado and we bring the jeweler with us to confirm this is not fake سبحان اللہ there was once a marriage they exchanged very expensive gifts so these people had the watch was called a partake philip partake philip you must have heard that name so marriage broke i asked the guy they were trying to get back some of the stuff they said the watch they can live i said why that was fake anyway i said سبحان اللہ look at this that was fake anyway what are you doing it goes to show that it's all about showing i gave you this i gave you that i did this i did that why make life difficult don't let it be simple if you respect my daughter and you honor her and you don't swear her and you don't abuse her and you give her the level that she deserves wallahi i don't even need a single gift from you that alone is the biggest gift don't you agree so all the men sitting here let's honor the women that are with us let's honor our wives and all the wives let's honor our husbands let's respect them سبحان اللہ so i was saying when we marry there is hypocrisy i showed you how it is lot of hypocrisy it becomes a show it's a it's a lovely wedding but it's not a good marriage you showed everybody what you could afford what happened half the time it's borrowed money trust me you went to the bank you sweated you gave the title deeds of whatever you own and you took the loan in order for your your daughter to get married or your son and you know what happens marriage is broken before the loan is paid back now when the marriage is broken what we do again we melt in the pot hate ridd ill feeling but they are children involved no matter what when you have children you will always be connected to the father or the mother of those children if you are one of the two there is no ways that you can disconnect completely they will always be a connection do not speak bad about the father or the mother of the children if you are one of those two you are the father don't speak bad to the children about the mother of those children because at the end of the day it's the mother of the child we make those mistakes but we need to correct ourselves if you are the mother don't speak bad about the father of the children to the children many of us what we do we don't realize that may Allah forgive us we start speaking bad we speak bad in what way we want to win the children over to us and by doing that we stop them from seeing the other parent for what again i ask you a serious question what answer are you going to give allah subhanahu wa ta'ala when you have done that another very interesting point we for a small matter that we might have between spouses we want to break the marriage خلاص i can't get along i can't get along with her anymore i really i need to end this marriage why because when she came in she doesn't greet me she doesn't greet you سبحان اللہ that is a minor issue we can correct it we can rectify it after a month two months she will greet you with a kiss like i said earlier may Allah subhanahu و تعالی help us these small things sometimes the way of speaking might need correction correct it work on it don't just give up things you bought a beautiful car one scratch does that mean you throw the whole car away no you repair it and sometimes you live with the scratch it's good it will protect you from evil eye right someone says oh lovely car must say this s 600 beautiful they see one scratch all scratch evil eye you are protected right protected straight because they they were impressed but that impression was actually a little bit tainted it was good for you right you see a person absolutely mashallah you forget to say mashallah just look and what happened a little while later you see the one tooth is missing okay okay you have to breathe out as you breathe in you breathe out again may Allah make it easy for us remember to relate goodness to Allah we say oh Allah grant us goodness bless us with goodness this is why all of us seated here that we will have some floor some fault some person knows is this way eyes are this way teeth is that way ear is this way cheek is that way finger is this way nobody here is perfect it was only Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam one of the poets say it was as though he was created the way he wanted to be created sallallahu alaihi wasallam may Allah grant us may Allah grant us the companionship of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam in the akhira say amen