 Are you still having a good time? My name is Valentine and you're still watching the Liddy's breakfast show around That is what in the morning and how can you get to us? Let's start in reverse today We start with two zero one five four, which is a text line start with y two five four Communicates with us. Also, you can find us at white five phone Facebook at Y two five four channel on Twitter Hashtag depends on the day, but the generic one is why in the morning? That's hashtag one in the morning Handling your ex. How do you handle your ex-ladies and gentlemen? Of course, this is a girl's talk So I will be focusing on the Queens, but kids Please do not feel left out if you have a psychopath ex out there I mean you miss your ex and you trying to get them back and now no one has out here when the studio drop album I'm sorry. It's okay, baby. We can help you out today. All right, dude like you But in the meantime, let's say hello to our panelists That's any Hi, let's start over here. Mommy. What's your name handshake sasa one of which and I mean Casey Cynthia, I think you two are sharing a mic. So if you could repeat with with the mic Yes, no, okay. See same thing. Casey Cynthia talk about happy social media IG I'm at Facebook any social media snap Zote need Casey Cynthia. All right, and hi you guys are pretty pretty Because what's your name? So my name is Rosalind Mudeau But also show me you can find me on Instagram Tamara underscore week seven to five four on Facebook the same. Yeah I am king. Hi Make wadji No, we are not coach for the first time on internet And then Twitter at s underscore sir gone Instagram see Vesta sir gone So that's the second trans in a very yes, how do you handle an X? Depends on what It has been brought to my attention that how you handle your X is is Directly related to how you broke up If it was like that, then maybe they would be at the different way of handling your X But if you said, okay cheeky, no hard feelings That would be a reason why maybe X is a treated different yes No Yeah, and ladies please if you hear something you don't agree with the feel free to jump in So for me, I think that Felix you talk with the two-time in Africa. I don't want me to see another man in at some point Different place Then one day Yes Tell me, how do you handle the next how according to my opinion if you had done we are done At a meme I couldn't revise Because if maybe you abused me earlier you got the right to again and again and again If you don't be done completely What if I'm gonna cause an accident, he'll let you in for an accident Me for example an accident like Me pendant on them then You don't go away to see me From your home number five to date into money in the dog walk on then Partly like we challenge maybe not from here I was told that I will use the make from the... from the home and then go so now I will go and do my business and I will be doing my x so now you are in your own age and you are catching up with him why are you getting back together if that's the case what I mean is that when you meet you manage to do your business so you are just meeting like any other friend yes I will go and do business but I am just going to do my business and counselling all the men are dogs yes it's actually true why? do you want to break up with me? no literally for me men are dogs because some of them don't consider our feeling like they take us to be like we are just women from Malaysia so typically saying they are dogs it's indeed true for my case oh yes for the child for the child for the men are dogs most of them want to be like a dog and most of them are just just finished eating big ji most of these men term it like that but no it isn't like that notice it's not like we like dogs when you are telling people as men are dogs we are not referring to the dogs your character are most especially portrayed to the dogs it's not a complaint for me to call us dogs because I know that dogs are very loyal to men not even to my wife good job good job guys good job for sending this one but tell me how do you handle your ex or how would you handle an ex maybe personally I don't know if he hurt your feelings however he did it he hurt you how would you handle so baby I miss you okay once you're an ex you're an ex that's the first thing so whether you went on in a good way or a bad way the feeling will still be that you're an ex and that in spite of you just coming you can't expect me to act up the way it used to be so obviously I'll have that cold heart so that's how I'll handle you and as much as I'll consider you're human I'll still consider you hurt me you still hurt me you just took something out of me that can never be returned so I'll act the way I'll act I have so many things to say because I'd like to think maybe we're talking break up it's not always one person's fault so there's blame two ways see it took two people to to have that relationship so also to ke kwa sana I'm assuming to take two people yes maybe one hurt the other more than woman can have but I don't know where to go I don't know where to go I don't know when you've already said all men are dogs I'm over him we should delete numbers we should announce two minutes later he texts you okay guys it's fine we're okay now he's texted he's replied yeah there's that type of feeling when you text but still these are the type of feelings you want to overcome because if you're gone you're gone for me I wanted to keep their own words he wants to tell you something else he's okay so you know that feeling that women dump you on an ex and you watch who you're with like you watch who you're with watch it it's an ex when you're with him dump like you hurt his feelings and that's how I feel when I'm with him he's like okay for that I'll have to humble that's when humble comes up humble comes up because I know wait first of all no fine okay yeah it's not easy yeah but okay at least you can just as more respect the ground between I don't know I don't know if I know why let me tell you one thing if I am ready to forget you I'll do it once I'll try my best yes it will take time I'll be in that feeling of I want to say sorry but it's I know I'll not so to make it easy easier too I'll have to block you to do anything that will let's say trying to bring you back to me I'll actually block it and then back off from it like saying sorry for a girl no it's I know we go ego maybe you got ego right and then the guy too got ego so you there you want to say sorry and then maybe we'll be like why you even saying sorry you see we don't like that attack okay so for you you're saying that you mm-hmm you'll not you'll not say sorry for for breaking his heart what if your relationship was like was benefiting you more than it depends you know some guys they'll just come break up with a girl and then they'll be like please baby can we get back just friends for benefit how you know an option hi let me interrupt now because first of all I should have started with this one disclaimer Valentin and Quagina X I just have interns or the internship or Kamaliza no one will pay a contract for a few months pay a contractor Elisha and come up with someone to a specific you know a talent talent in some specific area I have gotten someone else and trained them so miss Nages if you took what we're going to do is we're going to go through a couple of slides to help us along with this journey of handling an ex not just two social media to knock yet to sigh but let's first the first one let's start with let's start the question do you want your ex back do you want your ex back do you want your ex back do you want to your ex back and Novel do you want to ex back ok we'llfriend on what on how I was treated if I was too much pampered I would want him back but if if I know that this type of mistakes you can come back and I just can't forgive you for that no that literally I can't go back I want to take come type of ex okay he kind of did wrong but he was also something and it was just a mistake a small one that made you just all grumpy and you all like we're now done and over so for this type I'll kind of go back you go back if I'll go back with one leg inside this is why we have situations ships now because maybe excellent you can say a lot of them who just say I miss you that is why girls are juggling gentlemen like that why would you not go why do you not want your ex back well myself I believe it's not so necessarily if it's an ex maybe I'll find a kid who was an and what x so if he did that that all scandal just to me and then when he comes back definitely you will have the right to let me just do it at and funny no so sweet first gosh okay me have a special question for you did you hear what she said if he pumped her pumped me I would think of going back so that happens as an Indian if ex had money we can think about it if ex was broke next that's what we are saying so in life you have to know that you are leaving like when I issue so say as yourself with the same matters so what other people will be doing this way you'll find ladies when you're back because they don't come as a king you're gonna power yeah so come a who you're gonna power to say me I'm gonna power my pens I took a coin there put a in a kind of game you go to me and not a crowd yeah I'm a put a dry spell at a rudy mingine come and a person hit a biddy I'm a rudy so it's not like easy So the next question was, if yes, how would you deal with it? But no one said yes. Would you get back with your ex? If yes, how do you deal with it? Would you? But you said you would get back with your ex. Yes, I would. Okay. I broke up. Was it a make up on like, what are your friends? I had a handshake. I had a boy who was a woman. I had a girl who was a woman. I had a girl who was a woman. So you ended up in violence. Violence tenor? It depends. I mean, why do you get back with your ex? Because you're a girl. You're a girl and I'm a woman. I'm not a psycho. So it's like, you know, ladies are men in this world. And she's a man in church. So if you get a chance, if you get a chance, if you get a chance to satisfy someone, maybe it will not be bad for the creator. Okay, ladies, please. Let's see. Part of it is not to share my shirt. There are not many in church. It could be true, but they have not been counted everywhere in the world. Please, endow us. Mama is on the line to go to the passport. I don't know. Men are dogs just because men have reached you here. There are more. That's why I'm on Facebook. What happens if your ex is a psycho? I don't know. What if she's a psycho? And she keeps calling and she wants to see you. I don't know. She just wants you. And if she can't have you now and can. These are the people now. Nothing will go to your head. It's hard to do that. It's hard to do that. What are the stories you have? It's hard to do that. If you get a chance and you still benefit, then it's okay. For me, it's the chance. I love it being killed for some reason in a relationship. It's the chance. Would you go back to an exo-psycho? Like, yes, you dated, you had fun. Then it's a question you can realise. How do you call a wote? Well, it's still a no. But, if he is to come back, not like an ex, maybe come and do business. Yeah. Do you don't know you might meet him somewhere? Yeah. Business. Have you ever had a psycho boyfriend? You don't know how to deal with a psycho. Do you know how to deal with a psycho? No, I've never dealt with a psycho. But in my case, I won't. Okay, personally, no. I won't go back to a psycho. Why? It's not sweet that he loves you so much. He's following you everywhere. Yeah, no, no, no. I won't, I won't. This freedom you want in a relationship, you understand? And if it's a psycho, that means he can go to any extent. And which I can't handle. You don't know, I can't go back. There's no time to go and swim in the water. So, obviously, I can swim in the water. It's just logical. So, I'm there swimming, swimming, swimming. I can swim. Actually, I can swim in the water. Basically, I can get wet and I can just swim in the water. So, I can swim in the water. I'm a volunteer and I can swim. I can swim, I can eat life. I can swim, I can swim. When I was young, I went to the water. I saw my wife was up. And she had 15 missed calls. My sister was up and she had 10 missed calls. The same person looking for Valentine. I saw her swimming. I saw her swimming. I saw her swimming 10 times. I saw my sister swimming 15 times. As if she didn't know how to swim in the water. Breastasis. So, I can swim. I can swim in the water. Basically, I can swim. Talk to me. No, I'm not. I'm still involved in everything I'm doing. No, I'm not. So, why do you get hurt? I'm a teacher. I'm a teacher and I can swim. Yes. What is that? Are you my teacher? Have I absconded to school? But it's good for the ladies. They'll feel like they want to spend. I'm a skater. I can swim. I'm not in a relationship with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. You're with me. You're with me. See, the next point of entry is in the back door. You can swim. But I can swim. But it's okay. The next question is also very important. Are you ready for it? Are you the ex who keeps calling? And why are you calling? King, this is for you. Queen, this is for you. Are you the one who keeps calling? What is the problem? I tried to find on Facebook. Have you ever been that ex who calls me? Literally no. That was very serious. No, I can't call you. First of all, even though I'm the one who says the tie is up, I won't call. Even if you're the one, I won't call. I just won't call. What should I call you when we are done? I'll miss you. That's where the ego comes in. You want to hear his voice? I just won't. It will come at some point. I'll still tell myself. That's what I'll just do. The same way. Is that how it works? Oh, yeah. In science, there is a science of breakup. Breakup is part of the brain. It's an addiction. If that part is lit up, it will be precise and natural. Sometimes I'm scientific. I'm not at some point, at some point, and I don't even think about it. How do you feel about it? I don't know. Personally, that guy or the girl was special. But then, if it's over, it's over. At the moment, you just try to pick your phone and then call. Just make a call. It's a dead sentence. A call is coming from. When you just call, I have to go back. Maybe where this is going, it's worth it. It's like swallowing. It's like swallowing. It's like swallowing. Since she said sorry. Even if I turn on the green light, I don't know what's happening. It depends on how you relate to your ex. I don't think it's going to happen. Tell me the science behind it. The science behind it. Maybe it's going to happen. I don't know if it's going to happen. I don't know. I don't know anything. I don't know anything. It's like swallowing. It's like swallowing. It's like swallowing. What is the relationship between you and me? I don't know, I don't know. What's wrong with you? We said talk, talk about things. Okay, next question. Are you ready? Do you think your ex cares about you or what he can get from you? Or what she can get from you? Do you think your ex cares about you or what he or she can get from you? So, you and Akutafuta, let me start here. Akutafuta, do you think he really misses hanging out with you as a person? I miss Kallungo. He just wants to do things now. First of all, if your relationship goes, if he calls, he does miss the little teasing, the nasty things you do in a relationship. But still, if, but still for me, men just go out for the Kallungo stuff. If you are good in there, playing in them, they will just miss it in you. So, that's what they'll call. But tell us, do you think your ex cares about you? Do you think he really misses you? Do you think he really misses you? No. Okay. Do you think he really misses you? Yes, I think he really misses you. But this type, if you look at them, and compare that thing with your ex, and compare two exes you're enjoying, if you look at them, you'll still have like, oh, damn, that chick is, yeah, yeah, yeah. So, do you think he really misses you? I hear what she's saying, but I'm also in the, okay, but correct me if I'm wrong. I'm thinking if a guy can cheat on Beyoncé, miss G. Beyoncé, I never find any style like Kallungo. But that means, yes, you might really, really, really like this one, what she does, and how she makes you happy, how she cares for you. Say, spices too. Spices. Okay. Spices. Why? Why, why? I'm also wondering, okay. Maybe. A scenario where, when the other chick, when the other chick is outside, when the other chick is outside, when the other chick is outside, in a scenario where she is very good at being intimate with you, but you stepped out on her. Why would you step out on her? Hey, that's a, you only decide that bus. You talk to me, you talk to me, you talk to me, yes, yes, yes. I've, I've had something that, is it true the manner, is it true? Of course. So it's okay. No, that's the case. So why do we complain that he cheated? It should not be complained. Okay, when he cheats, there's no such thing as cheating if men are naturally political. It should be natural. Okay, maybe. Let's turn our debt water. In this chick, I only love the beauty. I'll go bragging with her, do all that stuff. I don't know if it's true because of the beauty maybe, the dressing and all that stuff, but I don't know if it's true. Is it true? It is. So I confirm and I want evidence. Yes. I want to hear them. Yes, I was cheating. It's true. Men are political machinists. And that we, it's not like it was a girl. It was a boy. It was a girl. It was a boy. And it was a girl. It was a boy. It was a boy. It was a boy. But men are political machinists. So I am a woman. If it's true, I'm not a woman. I'm a woman. I'm a woman. Okay, so To look what Nafanya campus edition I think not this Friday the other one on one in the morning I love who sasa that particular date Kulikwana news flanee. I think from the day before so to court Nice Emma that some African man. I think he's from South Africa. He just got four new wives for new But I don't remember how old he was but I remember I was very I was very mesmerized by this So That means if he married for more than he had other wives Wish wish to be living in that state Clearly just be like Solomon and ask for his dome to tell you later. We will bring ourselves in the numbers The Bible the Bible is it's like in a channel for For polygamy like one of my water when you are so powerful world for polygamist So I don't see the reason why most of these Christian ladies Yet the Bible Let's do this and let's hear from you guys at home We want to know what you think. How do you handle your ex? How have you had people? I don't have have you heard people handling their ex. Yes, so Facebook I'm a detweeter so at white 54 on Facebook at white 54 channel on Twitter hashtag is white in the morning So we start with Alex Bolluma says jumbo Valentine and Alex. Good morning Another Alex Alex from Neyvasha and just want to say that cut cut here How again is to do me no to boom drew I tell my demo on the side. I mostly will when you're black That's a lie sting boys. This is Val. I beg. Please take off that coat because yeah, I don't know you Well, wait focus to know I'm gonna handling an ex you bra, right? So it's funny who you jam on top of your brother from radio mean I ex Wango what? I'm a bitch. I'm a potter. I we get a girl tune and he collect from Embarkasi Kirsten Tigris is kill em to my shayake. I'll see no sense. Once we are done. That is it I like your name. So lie in the old mango. I mean a ex watch a ebaki two-story She's a story Rama a DHP case. This is one guy at a last way. I'm a Nicole. Can you I'm sure I'm a Nijirani? Oh, wow, you guys are close. Yeah, ma both your money vows say hi to the guest Thank you for me. You just forgive your ex and nothing But between us on I'm Russia friends one way just move on from in the past. Thank you Honourable I see you sir gone. We talk with some of the exes others with lost contact But nobody stops me from meeting my ex watching always from Kangama. That is one Nancy Stella mobile to says I just say as we are speaking to longer. So Comfrey, I'm why he says yeah, I come at you a key Rudi Can attend the layer by above your ex not your enemy. You once felt for each other That's true Kelvin. Oh, you know, says morning. That's enough expo sababusin. I'm to ton am to your take away Well, I'm not evidence. One has few a key lump to a sugar leeky Shagulika, I'm a shayake. I see a Joann Tom. He is still my good friend. I took him at things that were worked out for the both of us Christine Manuel way communication elitio the daily part always co conia Lawrence to see but who to know get to Kumbhusha a kitambo and life in a song and they let you didn't talk with your 1960 I see you Adrian says morning that morning Adrian ex on go but we do talk with her nearly on a no need Yeah, but you can and I once she made me smile and feel loved at the same time Smarsh Okina says I thought it's insane to be friends But later on I got the man who put sense in people's brains that seems to be brainwash He told me of his experiences if at all you have shared such intimate moments Just because you disagree doesn't mean you can't I want to assume talk morning Val. I broke up with my ex cuz I gave out Hey Okay, I see Jimmy Karani no need to jump forgive forget need a hook-up lady Where is our suburbs? Starborn silver I see if you still remember your ex's name you have not moved on yet. I Really, what if it's a very common name? Starborn services hi hi bobo that he won your knee says everyone with Dina James ex me ex we have no business together dinner James again kill on to my shacky ex the ex Ali Ali Sirudyagi Maganda Yamiwa What? Ali good morning to you she'll don't move she'll work She is still my best friend ever Yeah, my James. Good morning, sir Alex a toy. Maunia Kepia I'm waiting to hear his opinion shut off to Alex decide between young houses to Megan as see I get a life. He is like my ancestor Morning Val how many times will I say I couldn't ex if you never had kids never got married I couldn't dating happen No evidence. Okay. I'm tough. She will give you a kid 20 to a little represented spot. I'm a form I see you Patrick a Monday says What's a home book? I See chill and be she but I see Ron Nen K. E. Take us watching me me E-Maysha we become strangers. I see Yes, what's a home book? Sometimes one a diet could I like you too? That's the reason me ma because she was still in a good person, especially When participating quality if I see we talk often hashtag I'm back a lot. Hi, baby. I see I see you're trying to Shai Collins to again in it and I want you to be a kitchen. I am done with her linty music skill I'm to my shaiake, but we put on a cooler retirement Benefit way Hey, yeah. All right. My last question to you If for example to to Macbally that you will talk to your ex they come in a story like there's no bitterness between you two and you guys are Friends and then you date someone new I love one a shangha. Why is this one so close to her? Hi, it's me in a simple dame Hmm now I know me when he come on a Joanna Cynthia if you found her and she's very close with her ex What would you think what would the first reaction the first reaction is that she is not over yet? But that's not true. What if they move down and they're just friends as we have seen it's possible Okay, maybe she should first open up If the ex or someone you knew then it would love bother you, but come on him to Okay, what if the reverse was true? What if you are very close to your ex but only Joe Akunaki to nice Yes, so long as you'll go shaman beer You can excellent I've been I've been they say I can come on a feature Then me miss you. I come up in a Shida, but he wouldn't be comfortable if it was her Let's be honest. Let's just be true. No, but I would not force her to Like so much. Oh, so she'll police me tonight Because at the end of the day, yeah, she'll still go to the person when I'm penned Mommy I want you to advise I want you to advise the day the young girl child money, but on a big one a hormones And I think I'm too lucky to remember how I'm in funny like you too. What did they do to move on from that breakup? Well, I wouldn't say they will have ego to make it a bygone, but It's not so necessary to be desperate Because once you're desperate, definitely touch cool. I'm an option in case definitely But I could open it but if Now maybe I could allow You first look up look on the negative side of it and on the positive side of it which way Come on positive you can't lick it and make the positive a cover all the negatives Mommy That's how conclude to give you a cough given you one sentence Personally in my case I will put it all just vomit and advice all chicks to If you feel you're neglected as in if you fail the person you're with How could pay attention on a deserve trust me girl you deserve something better? And look when you there are so many men you can't hook up yourself with someone how only Nikki poor for let's say how only what you're doing have feel anything you're doing He ain't seen the effort. He ain't seen the love you're showing Yeah, I could too and I go with the time there are the girls out there So for you, just know you're key. You're special you will have someone you have someone in place for you outside there So just get off Minta come back to talk a bit. I can pull a pole. Don't create a name. It would just get off And you'll you'll I don't get okay vote a shanga. You'll get someone Out there who at a kitchen when you're not a car attack pay attention You'll get the attention you're giving back the same way Copenda and that's all and that's important. Yeah, so you could have more just because you're being hurt You you've had an X, you know over getting over with Imagine there's someone out there better for you. That's all Hmm and and to appreciate something good. It's Okay, okay, but I am as a And then you get something really good. Oh, wow life is so good. I didn't know I didn't know it could be like this Take it in my damn GPS should really not all the time on a simple boy child. Okay, go go hustle Go get a job go get a hobby. I talk small boy child all the time all the time Are we together at 25 from Facebook at 25 for channel under the hashtag is why the morning? Thank you for being with us. We have a repeat later on from to have a good day And who is hip hop this day so I know it's teacher Hanson come into tomorrow. Hey, okay, this is where we wait