 I had the best time doing that uh Cal Dunnigan thing yesterday, you know, Craig's news. Yeah. Yeah episode 26 I watched it. It was good. Did a good job keeping a great face Oh man, that was tough. He's so funny Man, they they're tight. They're tight little ship over there Really? So they it's not just around they're running a business Oh, yeah, he's talking normal then he changes his face and it's he disappears man. It's the weirdest You've ever seen your life because you're you're talking to is like hey, what's going on Scott and talk it and then He just turns that on it's like oh my god, and it's live. That's the thing. It's it all goes down live That's the hardest I've ever had trying us to laugh. I was seeing your try Man, is he uh, is he pretty cool dude like when he's oh, yeah, that's good. Yeah great guy, you know I'm gonna meet the funniest She's he would just do and then and dismiss it like it's nothing but god a muddy was funny Really funny dude. Yeah. All right. You ready? Yeah, right? Yeah, yeah, here we go I'm scott rouse from a body language expert and analyst and I train law enforcement in the military and interrogation and body language And I created body language tactics With greg heartley mark I'm Mark Bowden. I'm an expert in human behavior and body language I help people all over the world to stand out win trust and gain credibility Every time they communicate including some of the leaders of the g7 chase I'm chase Hughes. I'm a best-selling author of a book on behavioral profiling body language Persuasion and influence I train those things to government agencies and the general public. I'm also in florida I apologize. My background is different greg I'm greg heartley. I'm a former army interrogator interrogation instructor resistance to interrogation instructor I've written 10 books on body language and behavior and put this course body language tactics at body language tactics.com together with scott And I spend most of my time on wall street and in corporate america Excellent. All right. Well today. We're going to go over a couple a few apology videos And those are the videos that someone does when they they're an internet star And they've made a mistake by saying something they shouldn't have or doing something they shouldn't have And they come on and apologize for it So greg's collected a bunch of those and we're going to take a look at a few of them Uh, I think our first one's going to be logan paul Are you good? Yeah, let's let's go I've made a severe and continuous lapse in my judgment and I don't expect to be forgiven. I'm simply here to apologize So what we came across that day in the woods was obviously unplanned and the reactions you saw on tape were raw. They were unfiltered None of us knew how to react or how to feel I should have never posted the video I should have put the cameras down and Stopped recording what we were going through There's a lot of things I should have done differently, but I didn't And for that from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry I want to apologize to the internet I want to apologize to anyone who's seen the video I want to apologize to anyone who has been affected or touched by mental illness or depression or suicide But most importantly, I want to apologize to the victim and his family For my fans who are defending my actions Please don't They do not deserve to be defended The goal with my constant is always to entertain To push the boundaries to be all-inclusive in the world. I live and I share Almost everything I do the intent is never to be heartless cruel Or malicious Like I said, I've made a huge mistake. I don't expect to be forgiven I'm just here to apologize I'm ashamed of myself I'm disappointed in myself And I promise to be better I will be better. Thank you All right, so, uh Greg you want to go first? Sure I'm going to take it down a little different path than you might think not just body language because you only Apologize when a handful of things occur and there's some social emotions that we're tied up in Those primarily around guilt or shame are the reasons you need to apologize People will say embarrassment But embarrassment is the moment you realize that you've done something to cause guilt or shame And those two things have very different Very different causes one Guilt is an internal thing. I've violated something in myself and shame is you broke in the contract with society Those are two very different reasons How you deal with that whether you internalize or externalize it is based on how your brain is wired Some people immediately go and lunge back at the person And that's their way of externalizing the problem others internalize it and it turns into a way They have to rationalize and come up with a reason or an excuse And there's a lot of opportunity in either case to deny and to lash out So we're going to see very different approaches in each of these people And in this guy, I'm going to hit just a few things I'm going to say I can see that he is Whether you had a coach or he rehearsed and practiced what he needed to say He clearly is accessing that auditory memory. You can see it when he hits things like Um, I'm always intend to entertain I'm not worthy and the interesting one for me is when he says something about not being worthy of whatever You see that mouth grooming and that That him licking his lips. He also purses his Lips at talking about the victim and does that tongue jut. This is a very uncomfortable thing for him And I'm going to stop right there and say if I were looking for a genuine Apology if he's if his apology is genuine and I believe it's based on his feelings of guilt and remorse For whether he believes that he did something wrong or he just jacked up his career is a different story But I see a genuine feeling of guilt here from my angle and you guys may disagree Chase, what do you got? I see an absence of emotion There's there's not much emotion here at all And I think there's some regret and there's some regret that that damaged his his career as a youtuber Uh, he says the words the victim to describe the the person that they had found and we see immediate lip compression after that I thought that was Interesting it was a good data point. I don't think it's going to give us a whole bunch of data to Something to look for but it's interesting that that was there It shouldn't be there with for someone who feels genuine remorse the genuine remorse when they said the victim You see movement here or downward eye movement towards the emotional part of the eye sphere, I'll just make that up Uh when he says please don't defend my actions There's a quick eyebrow flash right there Which is saying I think that he's showing innocence there towards his His followers who are defending his actions and asking them to keep defending his actions So that's that little display of innocence There I'll skip a few of these I'm disappointed. I'm ashamed of myself both followed by lip puckering sour taste. I think this is in This is a disagreement with his statement This is the sour taste he feels like he has to say these things in order to regain some of his followership and The best one there the clearest one there is I promise to be better and this is followed by a very strong jaw clenching behavior and you guys can talk about the meaning of that Uh, if you want to expound on it, but I would say this is indicative of strength and anger here Scott what do you got? All right I'm gonna talk let me talk a little bit about that lip piercing for a second because I think what's happening there It's stressed But what he's getting ready to do he's doing that because he's like, okay, I got this other stuff out of the way Here we go. That's when he starts unloading the part about the victim and the part about You know, they don't feel sorry. We're right in the middle when all that really starts So another thing and I agree with you on this We see no expression whatsoever no expression change. We see a little bit of of movement in the eyebrows But not not much at all his voice In his baseline is as usually his voice volume is much higher than that. It's much more lively And it's you know, because he's an entertainer and he's trying to be exciting It's low almost creepily low in this case He uses different words his vernacular is completely different than what he usually Uses when he's out talking about anything else because he's goofing off and doing that But this is completely uncharacteristic of his uh, the behavior we've seen so far with him And I think what we're seeing this indicates to me is narcissistic behavior Because what he's doing is he's putting him so he's when he talks about in my world It's like there's your world, but in my world I share everything So that's what we're seeing in this point. He's separating himself from everyone as he goes as he goes through that And then we see is when it comes to his eyes There his blink rate is not really very fast. It's fairly slow And going back to what chase always goes to is the shutter speed his eyes close And they and they're they're not quick to open up really really fast. They they open and close really quickly I'm gonna Put that in the eye blocking category because he I don't believe he wants to do this or he doesn't like doing this He's just going along And then when he presses his lips together again, that's that's his That's him getting ready to deliver his the message the reason he's here because all this is up is a build up to that Everything else is a build up to that And as far as loping goes it's not it's not very smooth I got 500 bucks. It says this is like his fifth or sixth time I've given this a shot because he's trying to do it All in one shot. He looks ready to do it He looks like he's rehearsed this and he's remembering things he said before and how it went. That's way it looks to me then When it comes to his eyes to the eye blinking once he starts into that Into the part about the victim and who actually feels sorry for and all that There's a 14 second gap between blinks there. He doesn't blink for 14 seconds. He's looking right down the barrel We don't see any illustrators. He's not you're not moving his hands not even moving his head very much That to me is what indicates that that it's not since it's not a sincere He really does feel bad about doing that, but it's nothing. He's he's not going to look. I'm sorry Your hands open up they come they they open they'll move around as you're trying to communicate as much as you possibly can Your point to a person or to the internet as he says because he's apologizing to the internet Then Yeah, I'm just going to stop there. There's so much to do but I think this is rehearsed I'm going to I would bet that this is five or six shots into it before you start mark. What do you got? Yeah, so to pick up on Greg's point here If the society around you has been disdainful of you contemptful of you. They've basically said you've done something socially wrong You're out as we say in england you're you're Being sent to coventry. I don't know why coventry is not that bad But anyway, that's what we say. You're being sent to coventry. Hello to everybody from coventry Uh, so what you have to show and it's the same across the planet doesn't matter what social group society country You belong to when you are shown disdain You must show shame and remorse and it's a it's a big signal What you do is you show sorrow and you do eye blocking you look down Okay, and you dare not look anybody else in the eye because you don't deserve Their status and that if you show enough shame They let you back in because everybody needs each other. Okay So I I don't see That prolonged shame. I don't even see any indicators of shame in this. Here's what I do see I see a lot of lip grooming Throughout which is that lip-lipping stuff. I think it's not so much pushing out bad things I think it's trying to say hey, I still look good. Okay, and that's especially around the idea of heartless cruel Um heartless and cruel. He doesn't want to be seen as heartless and cruel It's important that his his fans his society see him as not Heartless cruel and malicious was another word that he's that he does around that biggest piece of lip grooming He says I'm simply here to apologize and there as as as chase pointed out. There is this Sour bitter taste that you see there. I concur with chase. I don't think he likes this idea of having to Apologize. I don't think the bitterness is around what got him there I think the bitterness is around that. He's there and having to do this right now I'm sorry. He says I think at that Point we see him going to freeze the freeze part of fear now We might go well Is he accessing because he's just talked about the images that he saw and recorded? Which was some pretty awful images that he he recorded and broadcast and kind of made fun of We we might go well Is he accessing those images which would be pretty fearful images to most people a pretty strong image of death? I I think probably not I think probably the fear is around him losing his status and his audience right now Uh disappointed in myself And again sour bitter taste, but again We see no shame around this So on a on a on a scale of great sincere Apologies that show shame I don't think we're seeing one here. I think we see other things that all of us have described Greg the one thing I think we have to remember and I tried to look for eye breaking because shame and guilt should both have those These guys do this all the time every one of these guys are going to look at her camera focused So it's it does make it a little awkward, but I agree with you I don't see the normal try to break eye contact and do that I actually looked at ekman and ekman says the one thing that indicates shame Is lack of facial expression and breaking eye contact. Yeah. Yeah, I I agree greg and I'm gonna push on that which is I would say shame and grief is is Is and guilt is not something we experience every day, especially shame at a high level I I would say and therefore most likely you're not ready for it when it comes You're not prepared for it and even though you might be an entertainer that that deals with this Every day, you know and is on camera every day and is managing their emotions every day Shame is not one that you'll have managed on a daily basis So I would say if shame is really there you're not going to be able to counter measure it It'll it'll it'll come out and that's looking at other Apologies that I've seen where people have shown shame and they are entertainers and it's super clear They can't counter measure it. They can't control it. So let's throw it around and see see what our percentage of sincerity is on on this Because I gave I gave him a four on being sincere Greg, what do you give him or percent four out of ten a four out of ten I went to ten I gave him four out of ten. Yeah, so I think he's showing guilt But guilt about himself. I don't think he's showing Said a sincere apology. I think he's apologizing because he has to and the guilt is showing so I'll give him a Three or four, but let's make it four. I'll agree with you. Okay chase. What do you got? I think it's more regret than anything else, but I'd give him a 3.7 64 out of 10 For honesty of the apology Excellent mark. Yeah, if it's shame that we're looking for and from my point of view I'd say it is I'm giving him like a two or a three On that I'm not seeing enough shame to uh, if any really to to make it a sincere social apology Cool. Okay I've made a severe and continuous lapse in my judgment And I don't expect to be forgiven. I'm simply here to apologize So what we came across that day in the woods was obviously unplanned And the reactions you saw on tape were raw. They were unfiltered None of us knew how to react or how to feel I should have never posted the video. I should have put the cameras down and Stopped recording what we were going through There's a lot of things I should have done differently, but I didn't And for that from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry I want to apologize to the internet I want to apologize to anyone who's seen the video I want to apologize to anyone who has been affected or touched by mental illness or depression or suicide But most importantly, I want to apologize to the victim and his family For my fans who are defending my actions Please don't They do not deserve to be defended The goal with my content is always to entertain To push the boundaries to be all inclusive in the world I live in I share Almost everything I do the intent is never to be heartless cruel Or malicious Like I said, I've made a huge mistake. I don't expect to be forgiven I'm just here to apologize I'm ashamed of myself I'm disappointed in myself And I promise to be better I will be better. Thank you Are you ready to roll? I want to talk to you guys In this video. It's been That's too bad All right chase. What do you got? A couple little things here and one big one So she's prostrating herself on the floor for the video. I think that's relevant I think she filmed herself on the floor of the room For a reason Be it conscious or unconscious. I don't know I think the emotion is genuine and heartfelt. She looks at herself on camera pretty often I don't think that's indicative of any deception or anything withholding I think that it's just indicative of someone who's a youtuber who Is inherently self obsessed like we are like we all are we stared ourselves the whole show I'm looking at you chase. I'm only looking at you chase. Don't you know? So The big thing here is she says i'm better than that person This is called dissociative language and This is Her saying that the person who did that is different than me And I did not have time to go research her baseline. I only got one of these people's baseline But I think that people who use dissociative language regularly or dissociative language when it comes around doing bad things that they potentially Suffered some abuse and i'm not making the statement that she did But people who are more prone to dissociation and dissociative language Have had had Some rough times growing up And i'll pass that on to you Mark, what do you got? Yeah, uh, so totally concur with the disassociation and and the distancing that comes uh with that You know i'll have it in my notes here, so uh, absolutely You know it and she says it hurts me So bad that I disappointed you So, you know, I would suggest to scott's earlier point about our last character. There's some narcissism In there. This is more about me than it is about you Having said that she does pretty well up until That that narcissistic and disassociative Point and and here's How I think she does well. Well, there is the setup as you say there's the being on the floor and and the white Interior and the white clothing. So there's a a clear desire around displaying the idea of of purity And i'm wearing white and being around white is there is a classic Across many cultures around that. So there's a good setup there to go You know, I'm doing this for very very pure reasons. I'm a pure person We have got the red in the eyes. We have got the tears. We even get the nose Going red and the cheeks Going red now. That's that's um, that's pretty hard to do Uh, there are some things you can use just get some tiger balm or something like that and you can make your eyes Do do that and and everything will follow and you rub it around your nose It'll do that and it will actually produce enough tears. So your tears drain actually Not only down here, but they drain into your nasal cavity here and and if you cry enough Um, enough will come actually down your nose that lots of snot starts to starts to come out of there And she's managed to get it to that to that level. Um So I got to say, you know, she's she's really Ramped it up here in terms of a lot of the outward Expressions that we'd want that we want to see Around sorrow and and crying though. I will say there are some other ways that you can Do this now she does look to the camera and go I'm so I'm I'm so sorry and then she does look down in shame So I think there's a moment of of shame there Here's my problem is I'm not seeing the uncontrollable breathing that should be going along with that emotion She should the breathing should be a different pattern with that level of crying and I'm not seeing that So maybe there's some devices being used to produce those amounts of tears Maybe this is her third fourth fifth go at this and she's she's ramped it up Emotionally, uh, but it but she hasn't managed to get the breathing pattern that goes Uh goes with it. Um, so again, and then the disassociation at the end Really jars for me. I'll leave I'll leave it there. Uh, Greg. What do you got? Yeah, so I'm going to go in a different direction from you guys I work in corporate america and have for a long time and I can't tell you how many women have told me that they cry For one reason in business guess what reason Frustration somebody down number one It's frustration almost always if you get a woman in the point where you see her crying in a in a boardroom meeting Or you get it? Usually it's frustration almost every time I've talked to them It's maybe it's because they let somebody down chase. I think that could be it But frustration is almost always there and I heard something very specific in her breathing. I heard exasperation I didn't hear crying breathing. I heard That hard exhale those kinds of things. So I hear frustration in her and that frustration with Being forced into a position where she's doing this. I'm better than this I I don't see her as genuinely feeling emotion about what she's done wrong I see her as frustrated and in a position her eye contact is interesting because she's looking at There's an old thing we would call pulling taffy you look at somebody and pull your eyes as you're requesting approval That's what I see in the eye movement and that could be way off here But I don't see any of that that guilt or shame because when people feel sorrow and guilt and shame Their their brows come together in the middle that grief muscle or their brows rise Hers is down when you're looking at her that to me is telling and her tone of voice is telling Not as much as somebody will see later Bertona voice with all that crying mixed in and that brow make me think she's she's frustrated There's exasperation in her. So I don't see a genuine feel of remorse. I see a frustration And I have to do this but and maybe I'm way off the base Scott. What do you got? All right, I agree with all that. I'm with you When she opens up, she says I want to talk to you guys in this video It's been so hard if you can make out what she's saying and that is the it's just it's just so bad She and she's constantly eye blocking She's constantly and sometimes she's blocking her whole face. She has her if the camera's over here She's doing this thing with her hands. I was blocking her face. I think she's Maybe ashamed of what happened. I think she's maybe ashamed of what she's doing because she knows It's going to be tough to get to make that thing believable Going back to the grief muscle. There's no grief muscle there. There's nothing there I mean her her eyebrows go down like that another thing when people first start crying What they'll do is this part of your mouth goes up and these start coming down So it's not doopers to light. That's not what we're seeing But she doesn't know how to cry to how to fake cry or she's done it so long. It's always worked that way That that's what she's going with but we're not seeing those that turn down sides of the mouth And we're seeing no grief muscle whatsoever a little bit there and Chase is always referring to the chin boss. We see a little bit of it there, but that's because she's pulling that up herself It's not the true Sadness we're seeing there. That's not that's not real um Then let's stick And then and then she starts to wipe her eye. She starts to wipe to to to wipe her right eye Which is I can't it's a right eye But before there's even a tear there She's already wiping her eye and then when the tear does show up she leaves alone In our in our course we talk about how when you're looking for someone who's fake crying One of the things you look for is they'll be talking like in scott pete or someone he's crying And he just lets it roll down he can feel and he knows he's crying knows there's tears there But they'll just let it roll down so you can see it because it's a show for you Or for the person they're talking to especially the camera You'll see people with their the famous people who are crying about something that's supposed to be Heartwarming or heart lifting or you know supposed to affect you emotionally. You'll see that tear come down They'll just be talking and looking and just looking so sincere and it's all just Because they're just letting the tear right down there So overall on a sincerity level between one and ten I want to give her a two So I think it's all just it's just all it's a little very little Sincerity there. It's all it's sincere. I think mark. What'd you get for your sincerity level on that on one to ten? I'm going to give it a 2.5 A three because I think I do see a little look down of of shame But really, you know, when I've seen people cry in shame and their head just Hangs and tears Drip off the end of the nose It's like it's just a waterfall of tears down down the end of the of the nose as they hang their heads and the air comes down And it's you know, it's not good You know, it's not good entertainment So anyway, there's mine chase. What's your number on this one? I'm gonna go with a five and a half Only because of the potential The potential that this is at the end of her having cried for a very long time Which could possibly explain the changes in breathing And the lacrimal ducts being empty the tear ducts being empty Greg, great. Where do you go? Yeah, I'm gonna go about three and a half The thing for me is anybody who is crying tries not to you've watched them and I'm not talking about touching But you'll see them We did it on the dr. Phil show to stop somebody from crying Instinctively people move their eyes around in their head when they're crying because they're trying to stop it They're trying to figure and they do the The inhale not the Exhale, so I'm I'm gonna say three and a half maybe a four But I don't think she feels genuinely sorry for anything except for getting in this situation That's what I think I see I agree. I think there's more guilt than regret or shame When a lot of these guys I you know, if you get in trouble you feel guilty for that because you're ruining your reputation All of us feel guilty guilt is an internal contract not an external contract, right? I want to talk to you guys In this video. It's been You ready? Yep. Let's do it. All right, let's move I uh wanted to make a statement on what I said in my Previous livestream. You probably won't believe me when I say this but whenever I go online And I hear other players use the same kind of language that I did I always find it extremely immature and stupid And I hate how I now personally fed into that part of gaming As well. It was something that I said in the heat of the moment I said the worst word I could possibly think of And it just sort of slipped out and I'm not gonna make any excuses to why it did because there are no excuses for it I'm disappointed in myself because it seems like I've learned nothing from all these past controversies And it's not that I think I can say or do whatever I want and get away with it. That's not it at all I'm just an idiot, but that doesn't make what I said or how I said it Okay, it was not okay. I'm really sorry if I offended hurt or disappointed anyone With all of this being in the position I am I should know better I know I can't keep messing up like this and I owe it to My audience and to myself to do better than this because I know I'm better than this I really want to improve myself and better myself Not just for me, but for Anyone that looks up to me or anyone that's influenced by me and that's how I want to move forward away from this That's all I had to say. Thank you for watching Bye. All right. Well, I'll go first on this one In this one we see lots of illustrators We see lots of lots of loping. He's just talking. He's just talking. I don't think this is rehearsed I think he thought about what he was gonna say. I think he turned his camera on or went with it He may have had a couple of things because there are edits in there or something He didn't like or he may have coughed or something, but I think I I think at that point we're seeing Honesty up to that point There we see that that head tilt down a little bit as he's talking sometimes the head will go down to the right a little bit That denotes emotion Excuse me as he's talking through that and and I think it's true emotion we're seeing in that his voice tone and Vernacular all that stuff is the same as it is in his baseline. I watched some other things where he's talking It's the same thing. I think he's being himself in this Um And the camera he looks right down the barrel his illustrators are big He's he's you see a lot of his hands moving and we see him These illustrators hit right on the money every time he talks the words that his brain is supposed to be emphasizing He's emphasizing the right where he should be. So that tells me that that's sincere as well I I think this is mine short because I believe this guy I believe everywhere he says I know people like that and when they're being honest and when they're talking about something They've done or messed up as as we do It looks real and this to me looks and feels real because and I think he'd be a good hang I mean just by looking at that by the way he's he's handling that I think he'd be a good hang It's making trust and want to hang around with his corny as that sounds and on a 1 to 10 I give him a 10 in sincerity and being honest All right, Greg. What do you got? Yeah, so a few things. Yeah, the illustrators are on message He's delivering his message He actually does what I would refer to as request for approval where he's has a confirming glance where he looks to say Hey, I I screwed up and you see his brow rise and drop When he talks about people doing this all the time you see some contempt as his lip rises and exposes his left canine And then you as you look through the rest of this thing He actually uses social contract language. Look, this is bad And they're shame they're shame associated with this and as much as you will see I think anybody doing these videos he breaks eye contact as often as he can He knows he still has to look but there's that his blink rate increases as he talks about shame and about breaking the social contract I I'll just go ahead and give him mine too. I'm going to give him eight I've rarely give anybody 10 because you know, who knows how much it took but it does look natural It doesn't look rehearsed. I don't see him eye accessing for recall words So I'll give him an eight out of 10 and I think it's actually there. Yeah Uh, Mark Yeah, so, uh, I haven't had a chance to baseline him. So I don't know whether he consistently has That the kind of lip curl slight lip curl that I see he doesn't throughout this. He doesn't no Okay, okay. So that's that's important. Um, I wanted to make a statement He snarls on that there's dislike around making this Statement he doesn't want to be doing this. Okay Um So so, you know, what can we construe from from that? Well, either he's he's he dislikes what he's done or he dislikes Having to talk about what he's done or or he dislikes this this this moment essentially something he'd rather not be doing um He controls the the objections right from moment one Um, he says it was because of the heat of the moment and then later on he says well, I'm not going to make excuses Well, heat of the moment is an excuse and so he's kind of counter measured Already the idea of putting an excuse up front and then saying I won't be excusing myself It's already been been done. Um, you probably won't believe me when I say this Again, this is taking control of the objections Right up front. So I think we've got to understand There's some really good crisis management 101 messaging going on during this at the same time As as we've got scott and greg here saying I think this is this is honest And and and felt it's it's worth thinking about this isn't uh, it's well thought out I would suggest um move Hope I haven't disappointed anyone with all of this. I don't see shame at that point. I see discussed Again around this idea of disappointment. So yeah, he's probably disgusted with himself that he's got himself into this situation and he's disappointed people But I'm not seeing strong shame around that He wants to move forward away from this. I mean, that's a that's a beautiful classic of crisis management Is let's just move forward away from all of this and I think that there is some There's some some severity softening there. I mean, what are we talking about? Where are we? Where are we moving from? Where are we moving? Where's the better place? What was the problem here? It's not being stated at this point and he on that he does show disgust and The bitter taste as well So let me give you my mark. Yeah, I think there's a lot of um, uh, good feeling in in this and and it seems to be well And and kind of authentically put across at the same time I think he's really thought about how he's going to control the message In this and move people forward. So there's some good Crisis management 101 happening in the background here chase. What have you got? Yeah, so we do see this uh sneer that he does With his lip exposing his canine charles darwin wrote about this in the 1800s He noticed it in animals and then started talking about how it's a similar thing in humans except in Response to social threat instead of physical threat. Same thing. We see a dog do There's more cuts in the video But I think that's just indicative of a youtuber because there's a report published in 2007 that says the more cuts you have Between language the more someone's willing to spend more time on the video. So they'll they'll stick around longer I hate how I fell into this we see genuine emotional recall there His ears get redder throughout the video And this is an indicator called ear blushing Most people refer to it as ear blushing It's not very reliable. It's stress excitement anger. There's so there's a long list of stuff that it could be I would not say that that's a reliable indicator very much Uh, but there are some very specific swedish Behaviors that we're seeing in here that are more prevalent In sweden he makes more eye contact with the camera that eye contact is very common in sweden And he's very to the point without humor and it's business purposes only and when the video is over He says, okay, that's it and i'm finished with video whatever he says very very swedish And the eyebrow flash is extremely common in sweden And you see he's a he's a multi-millionaire and he's in this Room that looks like a college kid's apartment I don't think that was deliberate to show some kind of poverty in sweden If you say i'm a number one bestseller or I have the number one body language course people will look down on you Everybody so they are very muted with a lot of their things. So I think that's just his natural Way of being and his lifestyle overall and give him Uh, probably a nine Very cool. I uh Wanted to make a statement on what I said in my Previous live stream. You probably won't believe me when I say this But whenever I go online and I hear other players use the same kind of language that I did I always find it extremely immature and stupid And I hate how I now personally fed into that part of gaming As well. It was something that I said in the heat of the moment I said the worst word I could possibly think of And it just sort of slipped out and I'm not going to make any excuses to why it did because there are no excuses for it I'm disappointed in myself because it seems like I've learned nothing from all these past controversies And it's not that I think I can say or do whatever I want and get away with it. That's not it at all I'm just an idiot, but that doesn't make what I said or how I said it. Okay. It was not okay I'm really sorry if I offended hurt or disappointed anyone With all of this being in the position. I am I should know better I know I can't keep messing up like this and I owe it to My audience and to myself to do better than this because I know I'm better than this I really want to improve myself and better myself not just for me, but for Anyone that looks up to me or anyone that's influenced by me and that's how I want to move forward away from this That's all I had to say. Thank you for watching. Bye All right pretty Yeah Almost I want to apologize for how long this video has taken. There is no excuse reason or thing I could say to make that okay, and I want to take full accountability for that However, I understand that my actions even over the past few weeks have not been hand in hand with accountability That's a journey that I'm beginning with this video I also understand what the white privilege that I possess I have no right to ask or expect forgiveness from anyone that I have hurt with my actions over the past few months I've seen the explosive effects of what running from your problems can do and how many people you can hurt by Doing that, but I'm aware that making this video about my emotions would do nothing But be another selfish and careless action and further the problem I want to apologize from the bottom of my heart for being such a big part of canceled culture for the entirety of my career I don't deserve a platform if I continue to act in such a gaslighting and irresponsible manner And I'm so sorry for how long I've done that I could sit here and blame it on the people I watched or the people that raised me or the advice that I chose to take But at the end of the day, I chose to take those paths. I chose to only listen to yes people I chose to idolize people that taught me the complete wrong way to handle the responsibility of this platform And it breaks my heart that it took me getting to 22 years old to realize that with that being said I want to express my utter disgust with every single apology video. I've ever made. I'm sorry for uploading them I'm sorry for defending them and I'm sorry for putting them out to such a huge audience I did nothing but look at apology videos as people digging up my past again If I'd spent the time I spent pandering deflecting making excuses and spewing ignorance to millions of people becoming a better person I would be in a far far better place right now and for that I can only hold myself accountable It is far past the time I needed to own up to my behavior and take 100 percent accountability for my actions And if I wanted people to see that I'd truly grown you'd think that my actions would have been in unison with that Thought before this moment. I want you to know I'm aware of that and I am so sorry for how much of a Coward I have acted like it's inexcusable. It's completely completely inexcusable One thing I've learned over this time is the undeniable responsibility that goes hand in hand with the platform of this size I am so sorry for everything I can possess all that I have without acknowledging the extreme responsibility that comes with it I had every single resource to change and I am so sorry for choosing the wrong route every single time I have so much work to do on myself to become a better person and I intend on showing you that Chase, what do you got? This video is cut up like a freddy kruger movie It's bad The sunlight changes positions the sunlight's there at the beginning and it's there at the end. It's cut. It's reassembled It's rearranged But all the words are there all the right words the perfect words to trigger you to believing her are all there There's no emotion there's not an ounce of any emotion in the face And anything that she's doing there is some emotion When she's using very good baton gestures And the entire video is just devoid of anything and these hard baton gestures and head nods moving forward Are indicative of watching a video of someone giving a motivational speech Or someone telling you you need to get up out of bed in the morning Make your bed get to the gym one of those videos those little inspirational videos And I think she unconsciously took cues from some of those videos or from some of those speakers because that's how she says all of it It might as well be a tony robbins commercial at this point And I think she took some some cues of people doing that So do me a favor if you want when we do the replay of this go back and watch it on mute And tell me if you see someone sad or somebody giving you a pep talk Because that's what I see. I think the whole thing was prepared. I'll go ahead and give my number now I'll give a 0.624 Mark what do you got? Yeah, so that is relentless. Isn't it absolutely relentless is exhausting one thing I would I would love Scott if you get a moment is is is put in some of the footage of us Watching her okay deliver that because here's what I noted about us watching and and fair play I think it's fair to say she is a you know, very good-looking Entertainer Essentially so and she's looking right down the barrel all the time. So she should be able to grab our attention Okay, she should be able to grab our attention There are times when none of us can look When all of us are looking away and the reason is is that instinctually We know we can't accept her idea We know that we can't if we look at her it would suggest that we buy Her apology and instinctually all of us were just going you don't look don't look don't look don't give her Don't give her don't even look at her don't let us see anything Because we know she needs to be still outside the group She's not healthy to be in the group. So it'll be interesting to see that. Here's what I think we've got here And and I'm going to coin an idea here You know, it was it was I think it was chase or Greg or maybe chasing Greg that the first kind of introduced me to the the resume statement Which is when somebody says well, you know, why would I have done that? Because look at all the good things She does what I'm going to call an inventory statement Which is she lists all the bad things? Okay, so now it's like how could I be a bad person Because look at all the bad things. I'm going to list for you now in if if any of you out there have ever been part of Alcoholics anonymous or or narcotics anonymous, you know people around people or working with or have had an addiction yourself You'll realize that that step four is taking the inventory. It's kind of looking at yourself and going Here's all the ways that I've really kind of messed this one up And and a I kind of say you got to be careful around this because there is a there is an inclination towards grandiosity around this I've kind of just enjoying this too much and coming up with just too much of a grandiose list and ultimately Falling into your same pattern of addictive behavior by coming up with the most extreme self-pitying Example of this of this thing which is to look at yourself and go look Here's what I think the problems are with with me and I'm sincere about this This is a huge inventory statement It is just as chase said all the right buzzwords listed and I keep on coming and it keeps on getting worse I have never seen anything like this in my life. It's extraordinary I think chase overestimates this at a 0.1 Whatever it was. I'm going into I'm giving it a minus three a minus three on this one. It was appalling Greg, what have you got? So For me, we hit some of the same things what you're calling an inventory. I would call check listing I said she's got like a woke checklist. She's running down and saying here are the things I got to cover to make sure I stay alive She said I said in my note. She sounds like she's negotiating a contract with the devil She has to put every detail in there to make sure that she gets it all covered and everything goes through One of my favorites is she said in my past I've been guilty of her exact words were Selfishness and carelessness with all of my apologies, but I'm going to do another one I love that part. It makes it even better At the end of everything she says mark. I'll steal one of your lines Her tone goes down. It's telling it's not asking when I'm asking for you to approve of me and I'm saying I'm so sorry. I did that. I don't say I'm so sorry. I did that I don't drive down at the end of every statement and she does she's telling her brow is beating she's She is externalizing everything we talk about how people deal with problems It's all out. There's nothing there's no internal and I think chase what you're talking about You don't see any internalization of any of this stuff. These are just spewing words Like some kind of a pressure hose and then if I look at her along the way She's she has this other one the only time she does anything that looks believable And I agree with you chases when she starts that batoning thing and that's around I need to take responsibility. It's not around Anything internalized or anything personal or shame or guilt It's around I need to take control and her hands are moving then and that's what I got and I will give her a flat flat zero Scott, what do you got? I'm gonna go against all of you. I believe every word of it Do you remind your ex-wife is that She watches this I think Uh, all right. So here's where I'm going She she's talking her speed is through the roof and I think here's what's happening The reason we hear her go down like this How did it out because she's got a list of things and I think what she's doing because we see see so many cuts in there Is she's looking at she's going I need to do so and so and so and so I need to do so and so and so and so Then I need to do this to that the other thing Then I need to do this that the other thing and then I need And then I need to do this that and this thing and then I need so I see then she's cutting all those together That's why it sounds like that because maybe she practices Maybe she has them three at a time and picks the best one the same thing in the studio You have somebody seeing the seeing their whatever the track they're doing three or four times and you pick the best parts of it I think that's what she's done. That's why we see as we go as we go through You see the sun going down Just at somebody if when you fast forward through this you just see that you see get darker back there Then one point it goes back to light because she's taking that one section from the beginning And put it there toward the end where her hair is back perfect again Because sometimes her hair is thrown back behind her behind your back And there's like one little straggly piece and it's all up here at another point And That point where she starts telling where she starts using ill shares her Shoulders forward a little bit and I think what she's telling that is the person she's been talking to To this about and saying here's what I've learned here's what I've gotten together And this is where she's really into because she's she's selling the part where She really feels bad and she really shouldn't be doing those things So I think she does feel regret about that We see no emotional changes whatsoever in her face not one not one And that just this whole thing tells me I I hate to keep saying narcissistic personality type But in this case, I think we're seeing like the top notch Number a number one narcissist right here And not the dangerous kind but the kind who's just you can't tell me everything because they know everything one of those And uh, let's see what else we're looking at here And her and as for illustrators her head's like doing this number the whole time as she's doing it That's when these real other illustrators come up and she starts hitting those words Specifically, that's the only time I think I agree with you Greg. We're actually seeing something that means anything at that point Her eyes her eyebrows don't move much at all. There's nothing going on up here Both dogs And there's nothing going on in the obitulus obitularis ocularis little things down here The little muscles are down here that pushes up when you start crying because at some point she should be going And you know what she should squint and be looking but she doesn't we see a little bit of movement But they're almost dead up in there. I know you don't Botox those if you do that's crazy Um And her her stare at the camera. She's just dead. She's looking right down the barrel But she's like looking aggressively right down down the barrel at the camera like I'm telling you something It just doesn't stop. It's like she's it just it just goes on and on and I had to stop the dang thing And overall I'm gonna give her a just I'm gonna give her a zero two if you can if you can go I'm with mark though if you can go lord and zero I'm there with you man if you can show me where that is But I'm going right down to to nothing. I give her nothing on this. I think that's the biggest bunch of I think it's the least The lowest rated for truth. We've ever watched on the behavior panel. Oh, yeah Yeah, having said having said that I I did there there is some emotion there and and and you see her when she says Breaks my heart. She goes breaks my heart and she Fist pounds. There's only one reason people tend to fist pound and that's anger So so having said that I'm not gonna buy into this is emotionless. I would suggest it's full of anger Full of anger and and potentially anger against her community. That's externalizing the problem Yeah, it's externalizing the problem and that's maladjustments. Yep. 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