 The next one is if you want to know what's something, what's going on, or what something means, ask, communicate, stop looking for clues. You're not Sherlock Holmes. We get all these women and they're like, okay, what's going on here and is it this? And I've looked for all these different things and he did this one thing, but he said this thing and then he said this other thing and it's like, whoa. Like ask, talk to him, communicate, have a conversation with him. Like why are you trying to like go around and try to figure out what's going on with him when you could talk to him and communicate and build a stronger and deeper relationship through communication? I know it's really intimidating and can feel kind of scary to like actually ask what's going on and how he feels and all kinds of different things like that, but it's better than getting a bunch of clues and then finding out you're wrong because many times those clues are wrong. And many times you're only paying attention to certain clues and not other clues and you're missing out on the important clues and then you like throw that out at people and they're like, oh, well, this means that and then you get all these opinions and it's not what you think it is and so the best thing to do is ask.