 Hello everyone, welcome to another Nox survivor live video. I'm coming to you live From my hotel room. Just checked in today. It's quite small, but it's very clean It has everything I need so I'm quite happy with it just staying here for a few days So yeah, this is where I'm gonna be for the next few days just relaxing here doing some traveling and This is where I will be making my videos On my laptop Sitting right here. So let's sit here right now just to get into the zone Ready to begin this Topic that I want to discuss with you today. It's a nice View of the street down there if you're like people watching Okay, let's get into it the reason why Narcissists don't care about you. I'm sure that's a question that a lot of us have I mean when they do these Horrific things to us. We just think in our minds Just why why would you do something like that? How can you not care? I mean, I'm sure as empaths Which many of us are people who can put themselves in other people's shoes and Normally we can understand why people think a certain way We can understand why people do what they do Then you meet a narcissist and it's like nothing makes any sense anymore because you Can't understand why they think the way they think Or why they do the things they do Which is why my videos have been so popular as well as Many other youtubers on here because people just can't comprehend it. They don't understand How they can think that way how they can do what they do how they just Don't care like they have no heart They have no feeling inside of them. I mean for me that was really something that I just couldn't get my head around because As many of you may know, I love animals. I am a vegan. I have been a vegan for over three years Not just because I believe that it's good for me It's good for my body But also because I care about animals and I don't want them to Go through that pain and suffering Just so I can eat meat. I don't mind Eating vegetables instead and actually now I prefer that but this video is not To promote Veganism it's not to get you to abstain from Eating meats although You can look at it like You know when I ask myself I've been a vegan for Just over three years, but why wasn't I a vegan before that? Why did I eat meat my entire life? Was it because I didn't care about the animals? Maybe it's because I was conditioned from a young age To eating meat maybe that's why because it's It's how I conditioned to think but conditioned to Not worry about those things and if we don't worry about it. We don't take action Three sews Says in the comments narcissists come to teach you a lesson if you hate them you will like them And yes, that's a very true comment Which is why I don't promote any hate towards narcissists It's very true that if you let your hatred towards them take over you You most definitely will become a lot more like them. So yes, that's a good Comment there. Thank you for that three sews We do appreciate it, but yeah the narcissist does not care about you because of their own Conditioning their own conditioning To not caring about anyone but themselves from childhood or It's their lack of conditioning of learning Empathy they were never taught to put themselves in another person's shoes They were never taught to share another person's experience So they never learned empathy Which is something that As children we normally learn it from Between the ages of a two and three and if there isn't a parent or caregiver or someone around The teachers that Then we're never going to learn it And it's too late to learn that later on in life And that's why they grow up to become self-absorbed and like an empathy to where they don't care about you You don't matter to them and another way that I like to look at it Like I know many of us are empaths and it can be difficult for us to understand just how someone can not care But the damage they've caused the things they've put you through I mean even now you may be scratching your head and just can't understand Why? how Can someone not care the way that we care and this is that you know, this is really the The highlight of the video this is the part that's going to make you understand how they cannot care and You just have to think of it like this To really put yourself in their shoes Imagine you're stuck in the middle of nowhere and something happened to you You lost your leg you can't walk It's oozing with blood You don't know how long you have left Maybe you're starving You need some food Just imagine yourself in that condition Where you're in survival mode You're just trying to survive You're gonna do whatever it takes You're not gonna care if people don't understand you You're gonna cheat you're gonna lie you're gonna steal because Your leg has been ripped off You feel like you're dying all you can think about is what? You want a need? You can't care about anyone else if you're hanging off the edge of a cliff you can't Really worry about anyone else because you don't know if you're about to die You don't know what's about to happen to you and that's really it really causes them to not care is that lack of security and Stability that lack of control and that's why you see them trying to Gain control as much as they can. They're always seeking power Money, but it's like no matter what you do No matter how much You try to protect them you try to love them It's just never enough It's never gonna be enough to the point where they're able to Consider you but that's really why They can't care about you. It's because they have no sense of security and stability The paranoid and hyper vigilant they're distrustful of everyone They think everyone's out to get them So they're always on edge They're always scanning the the environment for threats. They're constantly in vital flight Now, how can someone in that condition? Ever care about anyone but themselves. It's a post traumatic stress response And that needs to be Healed first Before they're able to put themselves in anyone else's shoes and Care about what anyone else is going through but they're never gonna change Because they don't think there's anything wrong with them. They always think it's you or someone else They never look at themselves So if they don't care about you now Don't expect them to care about you in the future Don't wait to rounds Don't waste your life away Because many of you are doing things for someone who would not do the same thing for you You're sacrificing things That they would not sacrifice for you you're caring about someone Who doesn't care about you and when you do that you will always lose. I've said it before The person who cares the least especially when dealing with a narcissist Is the one who has the most power In the relationship In a normal relationship you don't have to think like that But when you're dealing with someone who just Takes constantly And never reciprocates never gives you anything back a return At some point you need to wake up and realize That caring about this person is not gonna get you anywhere You just need to stop Because trust me it's not gonna end well for you You are the one Who's gonna end up sacrificing everything? You're gonna lose everything you have And trust me They're not gonna be there for you when that happens It's night time here Just gonna do a bit of work on my laptop and then get ready for sleep It's been a long day. I just drove about Eight hours in the car. I think It was a long drive But lots of beautiful views along the way Anyway, I hope that this video has vibed with you And maybe given you a different perspective on Other videos that you may have watched on this topic Because this is how I see it from my experience from my personal perspective And let me know if you agree with it down below I'd love to hear from you If you enjoyed the video, please give it a thumbs up And share it as well Let's spread the message and support our community Thank you all And I will talk to you soon