 believe men are better than women by the way I'm tired nice to meet you I'm sure you want to try that okay the way I think about it is I gave this guy a fist bump already nice I want to go to a burrito place before I found the best way to do it is there's the thing that I believe what I call the conclusion and then there's me and don't ask questions about me don't ask questions about the conclusion ask about how I arrived at the conclusion that thread that connects the two what I call the methodology and as long as you're asking questions about the method that some of you used to reach a conclusion they don't get defensive because they treat themselves and their conclusions as one thing and you'll get answers it's like well I think it's like this you might check for body language to as long as they're open and you're talking about the methodology you can ask about whatever you want to try that try it out try it out try it I'll come to you with a really really non-religious belief I believe men are better than women by the way I'm tired nice to meet you I'm sure we find with it well I look at the job that I'm at all my bosses are men I look at like Olympics and sports and stuff strongest people are men the sports that make the most money are full of men it's pretty obvious that men are better than women I don't like no one watches the win-n-win NBA then my bosses are women women aren't stronger than men it's pretty obvious so you say it's pretty obvious is it possible not I don't have this information but is it possible that I can show you like an athlete who's a woman who can do the same sport that's just equal or even superior like in football maybe you're saying if you found a girl that can kick as far as a guy can yeah what if I could find somebody who could kick even better who could throw a football better than Tom Brady Tom Brady you mean NFL Jesus if you can show me a girl like that then yeah I changed my mind a little bit I'm a hundred percent no way I could be wrong no way no way so like if I was able to show you at a feeble equivalent of a Tom Brady she would have to be really good you say if you show me someone who can win a lot like all the NFL rings and got all the sports trophies yeah I'm really great with sports by the way you got the sports ball trophy that they hold at the end of the Super Bowl like we won the sports ball trophy if you show me a girl that could do that okay maybe I'm just that one thing but none of my bosses are still women so let's be like yeah there's still a man signing her paycheck at the end of the day for example I work at a company that's mostly female running we have a CEO a woman what did her husband die and she gave him the business I don't understand that doesn't make any sense to you know she rose to the ranks and you know she used to be an attorney but she's been part of this credit union and she's moved up from that lawyer had legal position to CEO okay I'm not saying women can't do that but I'm just saying men do it like there's obviously more men bosses right well there's more men in charge like you look at the president's like more men are in charge you look anywhere it's like that's a guy for example like if just because there were more men in charge does that mean that they're more competent or they have better abilities and say a woman does the abundance bosses are men holding positions at like major companies does that mean that they're more does that land credence to the fact that they're better than women just having the abundance I'm just saying it's a good thing that they have they're definitely stronger than women they can lift more so even if they're the same you like think about it like this if I have like a construction company and like all my women are bosses and I'm the only person that works there as a man I'm gonna be lifting everything but if they are all men now be like hey Bill help me lift this thing you're the boss of the company but can you help me lift this and be like yeah I think that company is gonna last longer because you got more people who are stronger there and I think men are stronger on average the women that's why I think they're better is it possible you doing good is it possible that women can demonstrate that the same type of characteristics like if they were in a construction company that they can still just as be as helpful or just as strong they would need to be trained probably by a man but at least if they can do that then I'm okay with that too so maybe I want to say that 100% I'd be like at least 99% at least 99 I still think we're stronger I think we're better at the sports I definitely think there's more bosses there are men but I'd be I'm I'm not as confident but I'm still very confident so very confident so that's not bad you get all your points hey that's not bad literally that's not gonna do it okay that's it no literally cuz if you can if you can just like keep the conversation you leave on a positive note yeah and you just plant a seed or put a pebble and then with that they have either enough for me to change their own mind because you can't change anyone's mind but you can't inform them to say hey maybe I need to change that mind on that and I can almost guarantee you with a guy like that perspective the next time he's asked those questions he'll either respond differently which means he's thought about it and going from absolute 100% even 99.99999% is massive because you went from closed minded to crack open the door that's all yeah it's fun to it's fun isn't yeah and it's a good thing that you did where it's not like well you're wrong because of X yeah don't you know this yeah asking only about the methodology I felt really unconfrontational