 And so that's five. I actually have a six one I said that it was five in the original because it's cool to have the number five in the title of What you're talking about, but I actually have six here. I actually have six here six is polarity and Polarity is something that I was actually talking to this guy that I met some dude randomly today And we were talking about the idea of polarity These are the kinds of conversations that I have with normal people So we're the the idea of polarity is if you want to attract a masculine man Connect with your feminine energy if you want to attract a feminine man Connect with your masculine energy and polarity is beautiful, right? It's it's really powerful and it can actually be really powerful and this is kind of more of an advanced thing But it can be really powerful inside of itself, right like a masculine energy man Showing a motion or showing his feminine side, right through this kind of container of him being a masculine man can be Incredibly attractive like a lot of women say that it's really really attractive and it it can be the same thing with a woman being inside of her feminine and you know Kind of having this container of being feminine and then using kind of different masculine aspects inside of this container of being feminine Which if you don't really understand what I'm talking about when I say that just don't even worry about it But polarity is beautiful, right being in the middle is not it's it's boring. It's dull being in the middle is just it doesn't get any attention it doesn't get any love it's it's it's boring and the polarity creates creates a lot of passion in a relationship and if you really want to connect with a man and You want him to kind of see you and experience kind of this beauty in you Connect with your if you're trying to connect with a masculine man Connect with your feminine side and if you're trying to connect with the feminine man connect with your masculine side And I've seen both work. So, you know, you shouldn't hate on Feminine men or masculine women because it's You know, it works for them if they're into that and I've seen it work. I know friends. I have friends that are in Marriages where they're experiencing that