 I guess the personal relationship that she like that we developed we could she would feel my pain like I like she knew what I was going through at the time that I was going through all the struggles and stuff learning the ports trying to figure out how to get there and then dealing with the stuff inside the ports. She was just more or less just helping calm me down to talk me through it because I'm sure you've heard it from a lot of the other drivers too. So I think that's what it is I think being a dispatcher or driver manager I think a lot of times people think it's the computer work they think it's you know making sure you get them planned up correctly and that's a big part of it but I've learned that it's actually more just building the relationship and letting them know that you care at the end of the day that really makes it work because when he knows I have his back when he knows I'll do whatever I can to make sure he's you know getting what he needs his miles his paychecks good you know then at the end of the day driver's happy night's happy we're all we're all doing well it's a team thing I'm working to get by miles and at the same thing I'm working to help her out as well you know yeah it's a mutual relationship and I don't know from day one it's like she knows when I get stuck somewhere and she's working after hours for me like there's a lot of times she'll I'll leave her messages she's home she's off the clock but if she knows I'm stuck somewhere and I'm struggling she'll check the messages later on she always seems to get back to me and help me out I just think for for me I know that you're out on the road I know that you've got a family to get home to and that's that's important to me I know I want to get home to my family I know that you know we all have our things we need to get to so if you're stuck out there it drives me crazy the relationship is probably the biggest part of being a dispatcher and just knowing that you're a team you know there's no one that's higher than the other you know he work it's working together if you don't work together there's it's not going to work like I said she's the soothing one and I'm the more high-strung high-strung driver so the combination between us two I think works works pretty good I agree