 So, first and foremost, as I wrote in my book, speak your truth to it with kindness, but chapter nine is when you speak from the heart and it's sincere, you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. Sweetheart is okay if I talk to you. Do you have a minute? I have a need for closeness in our relationship. And it could be simply that we make time for each other to give each other a hug on a regular basis. Is that something we can begin to do as a regular practice? Honey, I have a need for connection. And it would really mean a lot to me if we were on a regular basis, express what we appreciate about each other, but we appreciate about each other so I can feel more connected with you. Is that okay with you?