 Hi, this is Helena Hart from commitmentconnection.com and in this video I wanted to answer a question I received from a woman in our community who wanted to know some signs that a man is Interested in her but he's too afraid to pursue her or make the first move or ask her out for whatever reason Or may even want her to be the one to do those things. This is actually a pretty common situation these days Believe it or not. So hopefully this will be really helpful for you. Maybe you've experienced this I know I definitely have but before I get started if you're ready to attract the man you want into a committed Relationship or you're with a man and you want to strengthen the connection and bring him closer than ever Be sure to click the button to subscribe to our YouTube channel to stay up to date on all of our latest videos So the first sign that a man is interested But he's too afraid to make the first move or maybe he wants you to be the one to Move things forward or ask him out for the first time is that he always Finds reasons to be around you and to talk to you But he doesn't pursue you for a relationship for whatever reason he just stops short of asking you out There could be many reasons for this and I've just been hearing this from so many women Lately so maybe you're in this situation there's things you can do to sort of encourage him to Step up and make the first move without having to like chase him and pursue him for a committed Relationship because in my experience when you chase a guy or when you're the one trying to move things forward That will push a man away if he's a masculine energy man so I'm all about encouraging men and being an invitation for them to step into their masculine energy and Make a move or ask you out without you having to jump into your masculine energy and do those things yourself So one way to do that is to sort of steer the conversation Towards you know dating or love or something like that. So let's say you work together for example You know try talking about some non-work related topics Like you know what you did over the weekend or what you're planning to do next weekend And of course you want to use feminine energy language when you're talking to him So be sure to talk about how things feel to you. That's very Attractive and magnetic especially if he's a masculine energy man So if you're friends like if you're just in the same circle of friends and you get the sense that he's interested Try steering the conversation away from just platonic topics and more towards Maybe what you're looking for in a man or dating or love or sex or something like that To sort of indicate to him that you see him as someone that you could possibly date So that's the first sign the second one is that he tells you how he feels about things But he doesn't ask you out or again. He stops short of making that first move So if a man shares things with you that he doesn't necessarily share with anyone else in his life or everyone else That's a great sign. It really indicates that he feels safe with you Which men absolutely need to feel in order to come close They need to feel that from a woman, you know for a potential relationship They have to feel safe opening up and they have to feel that you're just gonna accept him For who he is and what he's sharing. So that's fantastic if a man opens up to you I would just have all the acceptance in the world for him and just really let him know that you're that safe Space that you know he can come close to and you know reveal things about himself And of course you want to be doing that as well and see how he responds You know does he accept you does he like you for who you are or does he dismiss your feelings or you know Does he seem to be judgmental of you? You know, these are really important things to take a look at when you're you know Trying to figure out whether this man can be a good relationship partner So this the third sign is that he shares his feelings about you, but he stops short of confessing his love This is a pretty common situation these days. I hear from women all the time, you know, who are experiencing this So, you know this this could indicate that he's kind of waiting for the right time or the right setting in Order to ask you out and just like the second sign What you want to do is just you know rather than being the one to jump into your masculine energy and move things forward Or ask him why he hasn't asked you out yet, you know really being patient with him and Leaning back into your feminine energy and just you know creating a safe space for him to walk into And if he's the right man for you He's gonna want to step into that space and move things forward all on his own But timing is such an important factor when it comes to dating and the early stages of a relationship So he may just be waiting for the right time or the right setting because he doesn't want things to be awkward Or maybe he's in a period in his life where he's really focused on work or Something else is going on he may be moving or taking a trip soon And he wants to just wait for the right time. No, of course I never suggest just waiting around for a man You want to have a full complete life for yourself, you know every second you spend just waiting on a man in my Experience, you know his attraction for you can start to fade if he knows you're just gonna always be waiting around for him So there's sort of a fine line between being in your feminine energy and being an invitation and encouraging of him When he does open up to you that will hopefully give him the courage to open up more about how he actually feels about you So that's the third sign the fourth one is that he actually does tell you how he feels about you But then he leaves or he doesn't take the next step and ask you out You know if that's the case he might sense that you don't reciprocate his feelings And he had enough courage to go ahead and confess them to you But if he doesn't get the sense that you feel the same way Then he might retreat and back off, you know men are really sensitive to rejection Just like we are in a lot of ways, you know and if let's say your friends or your co-workers He he probably doesn't want to like sabotage things in that sense just like we would so if he actually does You know confess his feelings for you I would say then absolutely if you feel the same way you can let him know and you're just Responding to him by letting him know that you feel that way to Responding is a very feminine energy quality So you want to think of yourself as just constantly responding to a man and being encouraging of him Without again leaning forward and jumping into your masculine energy and trying to like push things along or move things forward because even if a man is Sort of afraid to make the first move if he's a masculine energy man You know if you're the one trying to chase him or pursue a committed relationship with him You will sense him start to pull away and back off It's just the natural energy exchange in dating and relationships So you want to again be in your feminine energy, but be warm and open and receptive to him And then if he's the right man for you that will hopefully encourage him to step up and Ask you out because he's not going to be afraid that you're going to shoot him down or reject him So I hope that was helpful for you. 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