 Hello everyone! Welcome again to another Narc Survival Live video I just checked into my room here in Antipolo Olipines and in this one we're going to be talking about how yes, believe it or not, The Narcissist thinks you need them I don't know how crazy this must sound ond sefydig i fy modd y tufnwch. Fyddwch yn gweithio beth hynny, dyf yn gweithio beth hynny, all yr ystyried a'r tynnu, a fyddwch yn dwylo'r ardal. Yn ardal, Rydych yn y gwyrdu'r f Свir gan rhai dyng Nghaennau. A unedog, ystod o'r ble. Mae'n gwsbwysig, mae'n rhaid i'n gwneud yma'n fwyaf. Ond yn ddweud, fel ydydd yma'n ddim yn y cwm改. Felly, mae'n ddim yn ddweud i'r adael. Mae'n ddweud i'r adael, mae'n ddweud i'r adael. Felly, yna'n cael ei ddweud yma eich ffyrdd i ymwneud yn y cymdeithasol. ac mae'r gwybod y gallu'n gwybod mae'n cael rydyn ni'n ddim yn ei dddangos i'r ymwyfyr. A dyna'r ddweud o'r ddweud, dyna'r ddweud o ddweud. A dyna'r ddweud y gallw'r ddweud o ddweud ac mae'r ddweud yn gyffredig. Mae'n cael ei ddim yn ddweud, mae'n cael ei ddweud o'r ddweud, As tho they need to do anything for Yr Rhwyや myr hyn, its because they use a false character that they are disconnected from. So the things that they do to you as this false character, because they're chameleons, they're shapeshifters A o'r mhwnt, efo altru oa roedd yn byw, oedd ymwnt canwch yn bwrth cyfanyddio'r rhannu'n haws. Ac oedd y byw cwm gweddiad ar hyn, ond ei wneud eisiau cerddo gyda'r rhannu cerddo. At ydy'r rhannu'n ei charn o'r ddiddordeb yn gynghoru'r ddiddordeb ar hyn. Ac fe all angen y gwaith yn Rhagleniaid o'r rhannu cerddo yn bwysigio ddigio'i rhannu. Cymru bod nhw'n cael ei gwasg o'r aglwyddoedd o'r ddeithasol o'ch gwaith. Mae'r cyfnod o'r cael ei gwasg o'r cair ar gyfer, a hynny'n gweithio'r cyfnod o'r cyfnod o'r gwaith, oedd yn ddwy diwrnod o'r cyfnod o'i cyfrifio'n gweithio'r cyfnod o'r cyfnod o'r cyfrifio'n gweithio'n cyfrifio. Ond mae'n cael ei gwneud o gweithio'r cyfrifio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio. I'm not going to use it any more. I can just get rid of it. I can take a new character with someone else in another situation. I just abandon all of the behaviour traits. All of the dysfunctional behaviours that they did with you. Overed ychydig am ymgledd, bydd ydych chi'n leidio ar gweithio ac mae'n amlwg cael eu cyffredin. Aall ychydig frysg Gweithio yn ymgyrchol hwn. Felly, mae'n dweud i fod yn cael ei gwaith oherwydd, ychydig ym yn mynedd a'r rhai sydd da agedig, ond o'r ddweud o ran o wahanol ar gyfer yma. Fy enw i'r buddol, oedd ychydig sy'n amddangos a'r amddangos ar y cyfnodd y coulion yw'r lle i'r cynhyrch. Mae'r amddangos yw'r cyfan yn yw ddweud y gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio. Mae'r fathau yn y gweithio'r arddangos, ond mae'r gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio, mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gwneud y cyfnodd maen nhw, Be cyfnodd yn ddweud i'r unrhyw gael ymddangos yn y cyfnodd yma. Yn ddweud i'r unrhyw gael arall. Felly, rwy'n amser yw'r eistedd. A nhw'n meddwl â'r rhai, ond rwy'n meddwl yma yn y ddweud o'r ddweud o'r meddwl, o'r ddweud, o'r ddweud o'r ddweud i'r ddweud i'r ddweud i'r ddweud. Oherwydd, mae'n meddwl i'r ddweud i'r ddweud i'r ddweud. Mae'r penderfyniadau yn ychydig i'w ffawr ar hyn o'r gweithiau dan i'n gweithio'r gweithio'n gweithio. Felly, mae'n ddim dwi'n gweld i'ch gweithio'n gweithio, ond yn gyfan i'ch gweithio'i ddarparu hyn yn ffwg, yn fwrdd o'r ddwy'r gweithio'n gweithio. Gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio a wrth gwrs mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio. wrth yw'n yma, mae'n cael ei gilydd i'w ddechrau, bod y gallu ei ddweudio, y gallu ei ddweudio, mae angen i chi ddechrau a gynnwysu'r ddweudio i'w ddechrau. Byddai'n gwneud i ni bod yn y ffordd o'r ymwyaf, byddai'n cyfnod i gydag i chi, ond mae'n cael ei ddweudio i'w ddweudio i'w ddweudio i'w ddweudio. Mae'n cael ei ddweudio i chi ddweudio i chi ddweudio i chi, ac mae'n cael ei dusio'i being that way from the very beginning, they targeted you. They lied to you, they manipulated you because they already knew they weren't good enough. They knew that you wouldn't accept them, if you knew what they were really about. And that's why they had to do that, but they set up the situation in a way where you end up being dependent on them. Because they devaluwg you, they degrade you, they drain you of everything you are ..y'r ddweud y gallwn i chi. Ac yn ystod, dyna'n rhan o'n ffordd pa'r cyfnodd yn ymgyrchol, mae'n ystod arall o'r ddiweddol... ...y rhan o'r ddweud yma'r ddweud yma'r ddweud. Mae'r ddweud yma'r ddweud o'r ddweud ac mae'r ddweud yma'n ei ddweud... ..y'r ddweud. A dyna'r ddweud, mae'r ddweud eich ymgyrchol ar y diweddol... Mae'w ddinsbeth. Mae'n gofynio ni'w gael gan mae'n gwneud iawn, yn fwy tynd i chi efo ddim, yw'n dod o'n gwneud sydd yn ei ddangos. Mae'n gofynio sy'n faciol ac mae'n gofynio ni'n gwneud i chi. Mae'n gofynio'n gwneud i chi mae'm angen, mae'n gweithio'n gair difficulties i ei chynghw Llywodraeth. Mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gwych, mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gwasgloedd, Rydych chi'n gyntaf. Dydw i'r holl ar gydnig beth oedd y ac yn gyffredin y blwyddyn newydd, fel ymgyrch o'r goll oedd o'r hyfryd. Yn y gallu gair y bydd yw'n cyfrifio ar gyfer cyffredin newydd, i ddim yn gwybod yn sgolon gynyddiad arall i chi, digon nhw'n edrych i chi fath ar hyn o'n cyfrifio. But they are the ones who need you and you never needed them. We have to remember that the whole point of this disorder is that they are in denial. If there was no denial, they wouldn't be even be a narcissist. The in denial of the fact that they need you and the they fulfilled that denial ynghylch o'r rhaniaeth ffordd. Mae'r arigant, mae'r gaminolwyr, mae'n gwrth oherwydd arall ychydig yw fynd i fy ngyrsleddau i'w hen i fynd. Ond mae'n cael gydag yw'n gwirio ardweithio cyd-rysiau i'r gael i flynedd, ac mae'n gwybod o'n ei wneud i'r hyn, mae'n gwaethech oherwydd yna i nhw ddim yn agigor ychydig, achos yna'r llwyfed, fyddwch hynny i'r hyn, prywch Felch, soedd yn agorod i试wn, yn cael ei chymru, gweld i yn cael eu rhai ari yn ddefnyddio. Yn fwrdd ei hun o'r defnyddio i dda i chi'n gyngorol i gdaeth i gwybod i ddylau i ходd maen nhw, ond rŵn ni'n cael ei lŵr o'n cerddol, i'n cael ei lŵr ni'n cael eu rai i gael ei llwyddiau a amser o'r gael, i'n cael ei gael ei lŵr yma i'n cael eu ei llwyddiu. Yn y wneud, yn mynd i'r llwyddiad has bean superior to you even though they know deep down that that isn't true but it doesn't serve them in an any way to accept and agree with the fact that you are superior, that you are greater than them it doesn't serve them in any way to do that. So they push it aroundon the lighter the themselves, they tell themselves that you're the one yng nghymru. Nawr ond rwy'n ddweud y bydd y bydd hyn yn fawr. Rwy'n rwy'n gwybod yw'r hynny'n ddweud y bydd y bydd. Rydych chi'r hynny'n ddweud, rwy'n ddweud, ond rwy'n ddweud y bydd hynny'n ddweud y bydd. Ond rwy'n ddweud, rwy'n ddweud y bydd y bydd yn ymgyrchol i'r hynod, a'r amwyfaniaethau. Rwy'n gweithio'n gwybod. Rwy'n gweithio'n gwybod. Rwy'n cymwyllian, rwy'n cyfrifio. Rwy'n gwybod, rwy'n gwybod gyda'r cyfrifio a'n gweithio'n gwybod. Yn y gweithio, rwy'n gweithio'n gwybod. Rwy'n gwybod yw'n gwybod. Mae'r bod sefyddgedg yn deall chi'n gwybod. Mae'n fwy cael ei ffordd aethau a'r bod yn gwneud yn ei neud. Mae'r bod yn gwneud yn agonziad. Mae'n ddarparu sydd yn ymhyngau. Mae'n gweithio'n gweithio unrhywdedd yn byw i'r hyn. Mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio ar gyfer wedi gweld i'r olw o mysgaf, o'r fflos a mynach. Mae'n gweithio'n gweithio Cymru am y bod ni'n deuilio'n meddwl i'r ddurdod, ddiddordeb i walraeth y ddysgu aeth gwahau, ac hysbeth i'w meddwl i ddurdod, byddai yn meddwlio'n meddwl i'r cych y byddai, ddiddordeb i ddurdod i'u meddwl i'r byd, that's all they ever do. So for hynno, mae'n meddwl i ddurdod i'r ddurdod i ddurdod i'r fath, And they're signing it to you and then blaming you for who they are, the projecting their insecurities onto you. They're shifting the blame and this is how they're like chameleons, the like shapeshifters. And this is how they can still think that you need them. After they've manipulated you, they've exploited you. a all deall hirfor ddechrau. Be cyd-fyrd yna yn cyd-fyrd. Mae'n gwybodol. Mae'n ddysgu'r realitiynau. Roedd y realitiynau yn ydych chi'n gwneud, mae'n gweithio munkis. Mae'n ddysgu'r realitiynau a'r gwneud. Mae'n ddysgu'r realitiynau. Be cyd-fyrd yna'n ddysgu'r realitiynau. Mae'n ddysgu'r ffeithio'n ddysgu'r realitiynau. Mae'r rhai bod ydych chi'n gweithio'r ddweud mae'r bwysig yn y ddweud. Mae'n ddysgonnyddol ar y ddweud. Mae'n ddysgonnyddol ar y ddweud felly mae'n ddysgonnyddol ar y ddweud. Mae'n ddysgonnyddol ar y ddweud felly mae'n ddweud. Mae'r siwr bod hyn yn cael ddweud ac mae'r cyfnodd ac ydw i'r ddweud wedi bod yn cael y ddweud. Byddai ddweud. Mae'n cael ddweud ac mae'n ddweud bod ydych chi'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud rhywbeth gyda llwyddoedd erbyn iawn ydw i'r ddweud. mae ddyn nhw'n fawr. Llywodraeth yn gwneud yma o ran yma'r gwn. Mae'r gwrth oedd bydd ymlaen nhw'n eich reish, eich ymlaen nhw'n unig, eich ymlaen nhw'n ymddangos, yw'n mynd i'w gweithio'r gwaith o'r gweithio. A dweud, rydych chi'n fwyaf ychydig ei gael ychydig ac rydych chi'n gweithio'r gweithio, rydych chi'n gweithio'r gweithio, dw i'r gyfnodd yn defnyddio'n cael ymddo i gweld, dyna ddim yn symud fawr, dyna dwi ddim yn bwysig yn y gwanfod ar hyn, ac ddydig iddo nhw byddwn ni'n llwy da iawn i'r hyff chi, ac byddwn ni wedi os yw'n gwybod wedi'u o'r cyfrifio'n cyfrifio'n cyfrifio, ddiddio'n cyfrifio. A dyna ddiddio'n cyfrifio, yna dddu'r cyfrifio'n cyfrifioilliadau i ddod am yr un rhai. everything they're doing to you is like that's some point they're gonna be doing that to someone else so they're enablers, they're flying monkeys, their new source they're all fools all they are doing is validating the narcissist false character believing that that's who they actually are which is exactly how it was with you when you first met them Cyngor i ddechrau yn ei gafodd o'i arddangos. Rydw i'n ei ddegwyd i'r ddau, nid o'n rhan o bau o'r ddaeth, nid o'n rhan o'r unrhyw. Rydw i'n ddegwyd i'r ddau, roedd yn ysgloedd? Rydw i'n ddegwyd i'r ddau, dwi'n ddegwyd i'r ddau. Rydw i'n edrych i'r ddau. A ddegwyd i'r ddau yn y ddegwyd i'r ddau, ddegwyd i'r ddau. a byddwn ni'n gwybod yn gyfnod, mae'n gweithio'r cyffredinol. Mae'n gweithio'r cyffredinol i chi. A bwysig y gallu'r cyffredinol wedi'u gweithio'r cyfan yn ymgyrch gwaith bod iton yn y gallu'r gweithio'r cyffredinol yw'r cyffredinol. Yn amser wasiwyd y cofnod, oedd yn oed yn ei weld, oedd yn ei ddweud oherwydd, mae'r gweithio'r cyffredinol yn ymgyrch arweithio'r cyffredinol, ac ond e'n gweithio. Ac jw yw'n ffawr yn fawr i chi'r tyfn ymwneud? Mae'n bwysig yn fwyach. Mae'n ei ffawr i ffawr i gŵr. A pobl yn ymlaen i'r flynedd, mae'n ffawr i gŵr i gŵr yn fawr. Mae'n gweithio, mae'n myfyrdiad. Mae fydd yn Mercedes yn jydynt i ni'n gwych am wahanol. felly mae'n fwythio i gŵr yn ymwneud neu mae'n gwybod yn fwythio i gŵr ymwneud, a'r ystyried, yna'n gwybod bod brit yn dangos. yr unrhyw i fod yw'r ysgwybod y bod yna ychydig yw i gael y cefnod i gael i'r Lyfr yw i'r gib i'r tunne i'r ysgwybod. Felly nad ydych chi'n fawr, mae'n roi'n gwybod i'r deall. Mae ydyn nhw felly maen nhw i'r niysgr y chwarae. Oed yn fawr a'n dod, mae'r gwneud ei wneud ei dd storeb am yr adeith honno. Roedd ydych chi'n gwneud yn rhaid yn y gyllideb i'r deall. ac mae oedd mae'n gweithio allan o'r hollwch. Ac mae'n dweud sy'n dweud o'r hollwch o'r hollwch ac mae'r ei ddweud o'r hollwch y cyfnod rhawn yn ei wneud ei wneud o'r llunio. Bydd hyn yn fawr ddweud o'r hollwch. Mae'n ddweud o'r hollwch o phoblau o'r hollwch. If a person has the ability to abuse someone, to get over on them, to exploit them and not feel bad about it and even blame that person for it, if they have the ability to do that, that's who they are. That's a part of who they are. Even though they may try to disone it and they try to create a new character somewhere else, that's still who they are. And that's always going to be who they are. It doesn't matter who they're doing it to you, who they're doing it to, even if they were doing it to someone before you, it doesn't mean that they've just suddenly changed overnight since they've met you. It doesn't work that way. That's who they always were. But that's what they do. They disone these characters and they justify it by blaming someone else. They act as though if you didn't do this then they wouldn't have done that. When they did that because that's just who they are as a person, they're very bad, toxic, dysfunctional people. And those are the facts. It doesn't matter about what they say or how they try to justify it. None of that makes a difference. They are who they are. And in contrast just look at ourselves. I mean of course we're not perfect, we've made mistakes. And what happens when we make a mistake? We look at ourselves, we question our behaviours, our decisions and we try to correct it. We try to be better. We don't just go around blaming someone else. And they take advantage of that about the entire relationship all they did was make you blame yourself for everything. And it's like the entire time you were just self-loathe, you were always looking at yourself, never looking at them and everything that they were doing to you. So here we have the two extremes. On one extreme it's like they have no sense of self at all, they just blame us for everything. And then on the other extreme it's how we blame ourselves. Full ownership, accountability and we do whatever we can to improve and be better. But the problem is we're taking on things that actually have nothing to do with us and making it a part of our own identity because they're disowning these parts of themselves that they don't like and assigning it to us and we're taking it on as though it's our own. Which then distorts our sense of self. So yes we do have a sense of self but it's distorted when we're around narcissistic people because there's no boundary, there's no separation between us and them. The line is very unclear so you don't know where you end and where they begin or where they end and you begin because they make it that way, they manipulate, they lie, they gaslight so everything's very confusing. And it's like by the end of it you don't know what's good, what's bad, what's right, what's wrong, what's up or down. Everything just gets very blurry. It's hard to see the forest for the trees. And that's exactly how they like it to be, they want to distort reality and they want to distort your sense of who you are and also distort who they are in your eyes so that you see them in the way that they would like. So this is what they do and I know it's very confusing but what you need to know is that how a person does one thing, it's how they do everything because we are only as strong as our weakest link. And what I mean by that, it's in terms of how we treat people, our behaviours. So you might be very good at one thing in your life but then there's another thing, something that you're not so good with and that precedes everything else. It causes everything else to fall apart. And that's why many of us we find these videos because we recognise that. We recognise that this is beginning to affect other aspects of our lives. So we need to learn more about it. We need to understand what happened to us and how it happened to us so that it doesn't happen again. And it's the same thing with narcissists. They may act like everything is fine with their new source and they've got all of their enablers and flying monkeys but what's constantly weighing them down is how they treated you. That's affecting them more than anything else. It has power over them. It directed the course of events. It directed their behaviour in them then finding a new source and starting a sphere campaign against you. And what a powerful person you must be to cause them to do that. Yes, you dictated that. Without you then that could not have taken place because of the effect that you had on them. But of course it's also a result of their own actions which they then detach from. Which they disown and try to assign to you. And then they get you to identify with this villainous character that doesn't even exist. It's just a concoction of things that they don't want to accept about themselves. Which they just go and pour into you. This is what they do. The hypocrites. The chameleons, their shapeshifters. They can be anything in any moment. There's no consistency. There's no fixed pattern of behaviour. They can do one thing in one moment and then do the opposite in the next. So you never know where you are with them. And you never know what they're going to do next. Whereas for ourselves we tend to be pretty much the same throughout our lives. There's no extreme sudden changes or if there is, like myself and my own life, I can talk from my own experience of how I started this YouTube channel five and a half years ago and four and a half years ago I became a vegan. I also gave up alcohol. I gave up smoking, using cannabis, caffeine, coffee, energy drinks. And these are things that I haven't done since then. So although yes, sometimes we can make quite extreme changes in our lives, we can produce that consistency. It remains unchanged over a long period of time. Whereas for narcissists there's all of these extreme, sudden changes and yet it never lasts. So they can just all of a sudden be something today and then tomorrow there's something else. And you just never know where you are with them. And not only that but it's like they're a different character for everyone that they deal with. They're always just something else. It's like you could deal with them for years. You could have known them your entire life. And at the end of it you could still say, I don't know who this person even is. I don't know who they are. I don't know what they're about. I thought I was beginning to get to know someone in the beginning but then it's like by the end of it they just completely changed almost overnight. They became something else. And I just feel like I don't even know them. I don't even know who they are. And you could have been with them for years. And you just can't identify who they are, what they're about, what they stand for, what means something to them. Because everything's very unclear and it's all so contradictory. I mean yes they may say that they're about this or that but then it's like well if you're about this or that then how can you do this? How can you do that? And it just never lines up. It never makes any sense. Because they're just all talk. They can say that they're about certain things but they're never actually going to go out and do it. And anyone can say it. As we know they lie in future fake for years but they never actually produce anything. Nothing ever comes into fruition because quite clearly, and I'm sure many of you realise this by the end of it, who they said they were, that's not what they're really about. Because if it was, of course you would see evidence of that in reality. They're just constantly living in fantasy. And yes they might like the idea of being something great. Being something attractive, desirable, powerful. They like the idea of that because the effect that it brings them, it makes them feel good, it makes them feel powerful, significant. But these are just delusions of grandeur. It's what they use as a coping and defence mechanism for how insignificant and inadequate they feel deep down. And that's why, no matter how long you're with them, none of this ever manifests into reality. Because it's all in their heads, it's just a delusion. But then at the same time, their behaviours can change from one moment to the next. They can be doing something to you so hurtful so horrible, behind closed doors when you're in the house. And then they can go out into public, you go with them to a restaurant, an event, whatever it is, and they present this flawless, polished character completely free from imperfections or faults. There's nothing wrong with them, they've never done anything wrong. They didn't just do what they did to you at home or in the car. They didn't just do that at all. And now there's something completely different. Because it all comes down to whatever benefits them in that moment. Like they may have one false character which is more concerned with positive supply. So they want to evoke admiration. They want to appear as something desirable, something impressive. But then they also have this other character or this other side to them. Where they want to feel powerful and significant. And that may just be by beating you down psychologically. So they can go from one thing to the next, from one minute to the next. They are shapeshifters, they're chameleons. And this is how they can still think that you need them. Because in one moment they could be this false character who's beating you down psychologically, making you feel bad about yourself, doing all of these hurtful things to you. So that they feel powerful and elevated at your expense. But then in the next moment now that this attractive, desirable character, this hero, this saviour, this person who's there to rescue you. So of course then they think that you need them. Especially if their manipulation has proven effective in the past. Where they did all of these things to you. And then it's like Stockholm Syndrome. Where you begin to trust and have faith in your abuser. You begin to bond with them. And as long as you validate it, it makes it seem real for them. And it allows them to disconnect from that other character, that other side of them and everything that they did to you. So this is how they can just switch characters so effortlessly. Because they know how to manipulate, they've been doing it their entire lives. And they get you to validate it, to believe in it. So that you're given your power to it. You're making it seem real for them. And of course at some level deep down they know it's not real. They do have some level of awareness where they know. They don't be an authentic. But they look at it like who cares. If you're validating it, if you believe in it. And if they can still get the effect as though it is real. And it helps them to feel better about themselves. It makes them feel powerful. Then they look at it like what does it matter if it's real? Who needs the truth? Who needs reality? If I can just gas like you and make you believe whatever I like, then that can become the new truth. And then when that's not working for me, and I want to try something else, then even something that's the exact opposite, a complete contradiction, that can be the truth in the next moment. And this is how it's so confusing and you never know where you are with them. You never even know who they are or what they're about, what they stand for, what they believe in. Because everything just goes off of their feelings. Their feelings become the facts. However they feel that becomes the truth. And this is how if you've been with them for long enough, it really just begins to mess with your mind. It's like you don't even know which way is up anymore because it all just revolves around what's going to make them feel better in that moment. And of course that can change from moment to moment, depending on their feelings or depending on how they want to feel. So they just distort reality to their liking from the inside out rather than the outside in. Which makes them very dangerous to be around because you just never know what is going on. You're dealing with someone with no fixed sense of self, someone who doesn't even know who they are, someone who has all of these false characters and they're disconnected from all of them. They're disconnected from their own emotions and they're just constantly disoing in parts of themselves and assigning them to other people. And then they're also picking and choosing qualities and traits from you or someone else and then taking on that role is just whatever makes them feel better, whatever regulates their emotions. And the longer that you're with them, you will begin to lose touch with reality yourself. It will distort your sense of self because you're involved with a manipulator. And that's the thing, when you're around someone who has a weak sense of self or no sense of self, it's going to end up erasing your identity as well. But when you're around someone who has a strong sense of self, that's going to strengthen your sense of self as well. It's only when there's all of this manipulation and gaslighting and they don't know who they are so it's like you don't know who you are. And everything's just mixed up, muddled up. There's no boundaries. There's no separation. You don't know where you end and they begin. That's when it becomes a problem. That's how they can do all of these things to you and still think that you need them. They can do anything and still just think whatever they like. They can think things that are completely unrelated and are associated with who they actually are and what they've actually done, which is just crazy when you think about it. Reality and the truth could just be whatever they wanted to be in that moment. And it's a real problem when you are dealing with them because of course, yes, if you are involved with them, you're involved in that situation, it's going to affect you. Anyone that you're around, any person, any situation, it's always going to have some type of effect on you because you're consuming information. You're absorbing energy. So yes, it's going to affect you in some way. It's not like you could just or anyone can just move around the world and be completely unaffected by everything they see, everything they hear. That's completely impossible. Everything you see, everything you hear, these things will affect you. In a positive way or in a negative way, but never in a way where you stay at the same level of energy and vibration or to where it doesn't shift your emotions. It will affect you in some way. It will lift you up or it will bring you down. And of course, when you're around us, it says it's going to bring you down. It's going to have a negative impact on you. It's going to distort your reality because they're in denial. Their reality is distorted. They have a false reality, a false narrative, a false character. They have no sense of self. They're disconnected from their emotions. So essentially you're around a crazy person and crazy is going to make you crazy. It's going to be like Stockholm syndrome. You're going to end up being dependent on them, even though you're getting little or nothing from them. And they're extracting everything from you. That's what we call the trauma bonds. And that can become a real problem when you feel like you need something from the very person who is abusing you, the very person who you should be getting away from. But yeah, because they have no sense of self, they're disconnected from their emotions. They're in denial, so they're very arrogant, audacious and entitled. They will think that you need them. But remember, this is because they're in denial. They have these delusions of a grandeur, so it's only on the surface. Deep down they are very insecure. And they know they understand that it's actually them who needs you. And they know that you don't need them at all. That's where they're so manipulating and controlling. It's why they use a false character. It's why they gas like you. It's why they do pretty much everything that they do. But yes, I do hope that this video has been helpful to you. And if you'd like to show your support, you can leave a donation by using the super chat or the super thanks in the comment section. 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