 When the narcissist sees you're not weak, narcissists are always seeking supply, they're always seeking people to give them attention and admiration, money and power so that they can feel good about themselves but if you have strong boundaries you're not going to fall for it, you're going to avoid them, while people who suffer from emotional dependency may become their primary source of supply. Narcissists don't really want to target strong people but they don't have a choice, they need people who are powerful and well built, people who are able to withstand great pressure and force, people who are not going to break down so easily but those types of people are likely to be resistant to the narcissist, they're not going to fall for their game but the narcissist is not going to accept them for who they are, strong people have high self esteem, they're confident, they know what they want which the narcissist will see as a threat but that's not going to stop them because they're very arrogant, they have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance so they will continue to pursue them, to secure them as their source of supply, the first thing the narcissist has to do when they come across someone who is powerful and dynamic is target their self esteem, they have to lower their confidence in their own worth and abilities, they have to make them question themselves, they may also love bomb them to gain control of them but if that doesn't work they will play the victim to gain their sympathy because they don't really care about what people think of them, they don't care if you pity or feel sorry for them as long as they've got your attention, that's all that matters to them because they need to feel like they're important to you so they will play the victim, they will beg you for your help, they will say that they have no one else to turn to when the narcissist sees that you're strong, they will act vulnerable and weak because that is how they will gain access to your life until you begin to think they're not a threat, until you finally let your guard down and even though you may have helped them out of a pit they will turn around and throw you in there and then they will continue on their way, without any regret or remorse for what they have done they won't feel anything for you, it will feed their ego, it will boost their self-esteem, they will feel like they're this top dog who has conquered you, who has taken you down, it will give them a sense of superiority when the narcissist sees that you're strong, they will try to find your weaknesses, they will try to find your Achilles heel, they will try to get you to confide in them so that they can find out secrets and personal information that they can use to deceive people and turn them against you, they will do anything to make you feel uncomfortable, they will turn your family and friends against you because they want people to hate you, they want all of the attention for themselves and they see you as a threat, they see it as though you're taking the spotlight away from them so they will always be looking for ways to hurt and betrayed you and they will try to get everyone in on it, they will try to get everyone involved in that activities and plans, they will go out of their way to make your life miserable, it will become an obsession for them, then life will revolve around dominating you, they will cheat light and steal from you, they will go all out to get what they want because they can't stand that you are more powerful and successful than they are, they can't stand that you see through them, they hate your strength and independence, they want to destroy it, they want to take it away from you and they will not stop until they get the result that they want. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coach the inquiries, you can email me at coacher.naksa5 at the Cudder UK. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.