 When the narcissist realizes it's too late When they realize it's too late after the time when something could or should have been done When they realize it's not enough and not soon enough to make a difference When the narcissist action or event is too late It is useless and ineffective Because it occurs after the best time for it It's too late for it to make a difference It's always too little too late with them It's always not enough of something that should have been provided earlier They go from one relationship to another They're always focused on other situations Rather than attend into something which should be their priority But they don't look at themselves They blame everyone else Because they're always the victim They don't want to take accountability for when they find themselves Which is why they don't grow and develop like a normal person It may seem like the narcissist has realized they've made a mistake They may give you false epiphanies and fake apologies It may seem like they're trying to correct the situation But that's only because they know that you won't accept them for who they are Narcissists feel like they should be able to do whatever they want They feel like they should be able to treat you however they choose to But then they want you to accept them for who they are They want you to accept the things that they're doing All the things that they have done in the past But when you see all of the things that they're doing and you think about how they treat you At some point you decide that you don't want to deal with them This is when the narcissist realizes it's too late Because although the narcissist may say That the most important thing to them is their job or traveling What really fulfills them more than anything is acceptance People who support them People who accept them for who they are That's what a narcissist desires more than anything else And that's what they expect from you They expect you to accept everything they've done to you They expect you to accept everything that they did wrong And just act like it doesn't affect you They expect you to accept them for who they are As though you have no right to judge them And this is why they will often discard you Because they know that you don't accept them for who they are And if you don't accept the narcissist, you're dead to them They see you as a lost cause If you're not going to validate the illusion You serve no purpose to them They want to have their cake and eat it too They want to have or do two things that they desire Which are contradictory and impossible to have or do simultaneously They want to treat you bad and yet still expect you to accept and support them They want you to see them as anything other than what they are They want you to see them as good people Despite everything they've done to you But when they realize it's too late They know that you don't accept them They know that they can't change the way you see them But they see it as though there's something wrong with you They see it as though there's something wrong with how you see them They refuse to take accountability They refuse to accept what they've done to you It's all about what they think you're doing to them If you don't see them how they want to be seen In their minds that's an offence They see it as an insult, as an attack on their character Rather than accepting their contribution to your perception of them But when the narcissist really wants to be with you When you have everything they desire and want But you refuse to support the illusion You refuse to accept them for who they are It destroys them Because it's not often that they find that But when they see someone who has a bright future Someone who is going somewhere They want to stay with you They don't want you to leave But if you don't accept them and you don't support the illusion They're forced to accept that it's too late Even though they may not take accountability for their actions They're forced to accept that they can't change the situation They can't change how you see them But if you're not accepting them and you're not validating the illusion You're on the right path You should always see other things as being more important And more significant than the narcissist Because they refuse to take accountability And anyone who refuses to do that Should not be important to you They should not hold any significance in your life Because they're never going to change They're only going to weigh you down And prevent you from being where you really desire to be Thank you for watching I hope this video resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description Couching Inquiries You can email me at Couching.org Survivor UK Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon