 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARCS of our live video and this one we're going to be talking about What happens when the narcissist knows you're done when they know that you're fed up You've had enough you're done playing games You're done doing things their way with their manipulation their control Their deception their lies their future faking and everything else that they like to do You're done. You're tired of it You don't want to do it anymore What happens when they realize it when they see that you're done? When they see that you're fed up you're tired when that happens They may just return to the love-bombing And that's when they will Appease or pacify They will placate to your demands Your feelings your needs They will act like They were with you now They're on your side. They're in your corner They're supporting you And you will get more lies more future vacant More of the false character But again, it's not going to go anywhere. It's going to be the same as before And it won't be long until they return to normal. So that's one thing that can happen When they realize that you're done But of course, there are other things that can happen as well And before I get into it get into it Please hit that thumbs up button down below. It will take you two seconds And it's very important because it will help to get this message out there To other survivors who may need to see it as well Now let's get into the other things that can happen when the narcissist knows that you're done another thing that can happen is Is that they may just take themselves out themselves They may just ghost you They may just disappear And you won't hear from them anymore You won't see them Maybe you leave them and you go no contact or you make it clear to them You're done. You're fed up. You've had enough Then they just they may just show you That they've had enough of you That they're tired of you They may just mimic Your behavior And in fact, that's probably the best thing that can happen Because it's either that or it's the love bombing Where they tried to get things to return to how they were before And even then things won't get any better You go through the cycle again So really you're much better off If they do just decide leave you alone And then the other thing that can happen And this is actually the worst Possible thing that can happen in many ways And it's where When they realize you're done They take it as rejection Because remember they don't look at The abuse itself and what they're doing to you They're only looking at your reactions to it What you're doing in response to what they're saying or doing to you Because they're disconnected from themselves and their emotions They have no sense of self They can change characters in any moment They believe that their feelings are facts And their feelings can change from one moment to the next But whatever they feel they believe that must be true So when they see that you're done it may cause a narcissistic injury It may trigger them They may feel rejected It will trigger their narcissistic rage And then they will get very angry Vengeful And they will show an unreasoning desire to punish you Which is why I say this is probably The worst thing that could happen to you If they do decide to do that Because what this means is you're dealing with A very weak and insecure narcissist The ones who do decide to love bomb you Or if they just completely ghost or discard you They're actually much stronger Than the narcissists who Do decide to take revenge on you Those are the weakest, most insecure narcissists of all Because they're so weak That they can't even regulate their own emotions Following the rejection And to even see it as rejection in the first place Instead of identifying that it's just a reaction to how they've been treating you So that's what makes them very weak And where they are just completely lacking self-awareness altogether They quite clearly don't even know who they are or what they do But they do understand how they're treating you They know that it's wrong But they lack self-control Because they're very weak And this is really the worst thing that can happen to you When they do decide to punish you Because then they're becoming very dangerous They could cause harm to you To your life They could start a smear campaign against you They could destroy your reputation Get you fired from your job Cause you to lose everything And that's really what they want to happen When they feel rejected Because that's really what it is That's how they see it When you're done When you're tired When you're fed up They see it as though you're rejecting them They're not seeing it as though they've completely drained you of energy You've sucked a life out of you That's why it's kind of like kicking a horse when it's down They're looking at it like what's wrong with you Why are you so weak? Why can't you get back up? That's how they're seeing it Because they're disconnected from themselves They have a false character And this character is meant to be perfect So no matter what they do to you If you break down If you can't do it anymore That's your fault And they may see it as though you're rejecting them As though you think there's something wrong with them Or as though they're not good enough for you And they're going to take that as an attack They're going to use it as an excuse to abuse you even more There's never a time when they're narcissists where it's like They've pushed you to the limit They've broken you down And you can't do it anymore And then They see it They recognize it They realize that it's the cause of their actions And they need to take accountability They need to be there for you No narcissist is ever going to see it that way If anything, they're going to see it as though They need to be on you even more They need to break you down even more And that's how many victims of narcissists They do get completely broken down To the point of insanity Or even developing a mental illness of their own Or to the point where they lash out And they get in trouble They go to jail Or some victims may even take their own lives So you may be thinking I've been doing this all of this time Could it be months? Could it be years? Could it be decades? Could it be your entire life? If we're the narcissistic parent You've given everything you've got Everything you have It's all gone You've got nothing left to give You may be thinking As in a normal situation I can't do it anymore I've given everything I've got no energy left That must mean it's fine Now Now I don't have to do it anymore Now they're just going to leave me alone No they're not It doesn't work that way with narcissists It doesn't register in their minds Where it's like You can't do Or give anymore They don't think that way They look at it like It's like You're an orange And they want the juice They want to squeeze it out of you And they're going to squeeze that orange As much as they can And get every last drop And they're going to squeeze that orange Every last drop And they're going to keep squeezing it Until every drop is out of it They're going to squeeze it dry And Once they can't get Any more of it Then they're going to throw it in the trash Then it's garbage And that's just the only way That it's ever going to be They're going to squeeze Every last drop out of you Every last bit of energy That you have To the point where you have nothing To even sustain yourself You haven't got a single drop left To keep yourself alive So there is no just Thinking you're done With a narcissist I mean depending on what Narcissist you're dealing with If you're dealing with More Of a player narcissist Who has many sources of supply Top tier supply as well Where they're all physically attracted They've all got their own life Their own job Their own money Their own house, everything They're probably not going to be Too worried about you If they've got all these other sources So They may just love bomb you again In that case Or they may just match you And just ghost you Forget about you And never return to you again So yeah It's really much better When you're dealing with these narcissists Who do have tons of options I don't know Many of you may think That's the worst That's the worst thing to go through Because I mean naturally We may get jealous To see that they're with someone else But actually That's the best thing that can happen When they've got tons of options Other supplies That are wealthy, attractive They've got their own thing Going on That's great It means less trouble for you The real problem comes in Is when you're the best thing that they've got When they've got nothing better than you Because that's when they're really going to Break you down to the ground And they're going to drain you of everything you have Because of course It's either you Or what other option do they have There is no one else This is why If you're with a narcissist Who is very attractive Very wealthy You're actually probably not going to have Too much trouble With that type of narcissist It's the ones who aren't very attractive The ones who don't have much money They don't have a purpose They don't have any meaning to their lives They don't have many other options Those are the ones who are going to cause The most trouble for you Because you're probably the best thing they've got You could be their only option So it's either you or they've got nothing Which means that they're going to hold on to you for their lives And they're going to give it everything they've got Those are the types of narcissists Who will likely drag you through the courts And take you for everything Because it's either you or they've got nothing So they're going to hold on to you for their lives It's the ones who are very physically attractive And maybe they have lots of money They've got lots of options, connections They've got a purpose in their lives They're going to forget about you very easily Because they've got more of an abundance mentality The narcissists who don't have many options They're not that attractive They don't have much money They don't have many things going on in their lives Those narcissists are going to cause The most trouble for you Because it's either that or what other option do they have They're not that attractive They don't have much money They can't just go and get someone else They don't have many other options So yeah They're the worst narcissists to deal with The ones who are the players They're the least threats to you They're the ones you don't really have to worry that much about at all The only thing you're really going to have to worry about with them Is the heartbreak They might break your heart And yes, I'm not invalidating that I understand That can hurt a lot I've been through it myself But those are less likely to be the ones Who are going to want to ruin your life And destroy you They're not going to care too much about doing that Why would they even invest the time? They'd rather just invest that time Into their other sources of supply Or maybe into their job, their business All of these other things they've got going on in their lives So they're not going to be worried about you The ones that will worry about you The ones who aren't that physically attractive They haven't got much money They haven't got a good job or business They haven't got much going on in their lives Those are the narcissists Who are going to cause trouble for you And they're going to want to destroy you They're going to want to take you down And yes, in fact, I've experienced this in my own life The narcissists that I dealt with who were Attractive and maybe they had money They had other options They forgot about me very easily I didn't even cross their minds afterwards They just moved on to someone else They didn't even try to destroy me The ones who weren't that attractive The ones who were broke They didn't have much money They didn't have many other options Those were the ones who destroyed me the most Those are the ones who will destroy you And even myself, I was never that type of person with anyone I was never vengeful I never seek to punish anyone Because I've always had a lot of things going on in my life I've always had options So when someone did me wrong It didn't bother me that much Because I knew I could fix it on my own I could heal, move on, find someone else These are really the most dangerous people you will ever encounter People who have no life People who lack the ability and potential To acquire something again Of your level, of your caliber Those are the ones who like the orange They're going to be squeezing every last drop out of you They're going to be trying to get everything they can get Because they never know when they might get this moment again But the ones who they know they can get back up They can move on They can quite easily find someone on your level again They're not going to be too worried about you And they're going to let you move on with everything that you are Everything that you have They're not going to care too much Why would they care? They just look at it like I can get someone else like you so easily There's someone else like you just around the corner Why would I waste my time with you? If you're done, if you're interested in me They're not going to care So yes, it's the ones who Are the least attractive With the least potential The lowest of the low, the losers The ones where it was like And I'm sure many of you can relate to this You didn't even really want to be with them When you first met them You were trying to get rid of them You weren't even interested in them It's just they gave you a sob story And you felt bad for them You gave them a chance That's what you were dealing with And those are the ones that end up wanting to destroy you the most Because you gave them a lifeline It was either you or they had no other option And yeah, they may tell these stories I mean, they're always the ones They're the ones who are like Displaying everything to you on their phone Showing you they have all of these other options They could do so much better than you It's all fake No one really wants them You were the only one who wanted them The real player narcissists with all of those options They're not the ones who are bragging and boasting about it They're not the ones who are going to show you everything They're not going to be doing that They're going to want to hide it And I know myself Because While in my past I've never lied I've never been dishonest I always make it clear from the beginning What type of person I am And if I'm not ready to commit to a relationship I will make that clear to the girl that I am with But I've never been bragging and boasting About all of the girls I've met And what kind of level they were on I've never felt the need to do that And you don't If you do have an abundance mindset And if you have had so many experiences in your life You don't need to flaunt it They do They come in and that's exactly what they do And then they give you a sore story They make you believe that they need your help And they do need your help But those are the ones The ones that are least attractive The ones that have no money No business of their own When they went on They'll make you believe that they do But they don't Those are the ones that were going to cause the most trouble For you The ones who are Very fiscally attractive They've got money They've got a business They've got connections They've got a life of their own Their own house Their own cars Why would they cause any problems for you Why would they try to ruin your life They wouldn't waste their time They wouldn't even bother And that Is a fact That's just how it always is It's only if you're greater than them If they're knowing near your level And they got lucky with you Then they're going to drain the life out of you Then they're going to drain you for everything you've got Because they never know when they might get that chance again They already know they're not going to find someone else like you They're not going to find someone else on your level So they're going to melt you for everything that you've got And that's just it That's what they do when they know that you're done When you're a high value person And they're down there, they're low value They're nothing That's just how it's going to be with them So I guess what I'm saying is If you're going to deal with a narcissist Make sure it's one who is Very attractive One who has their own life Lots of money Tons of options Because they're the ones who are going to do the least amount of damage to your life Anyway, that's it for this message I hope it was helpful to you And if it was, you can show your support down below By giving it a thumbs up Let me know your thoughts in the comment section I read your comments every day And I try to respond to as many as I can Subscribe And click all notifications So that you will be notified when I upload a new video And if you would like to bug a one-on-coaching session with me You can go to my website It is narcsurvivor.co.uk And also, follow me on Instagram It is narcsurvivor.co.uk Thank you all for joining me on another narcsurvivor live video I do appreciate you all And I look forward to talking with you in another live video very soon