 In other words, transparency means if it's material to the relationship, will I speak up about it? And this is where a lot of men fail, for example, and a lot of women fail, is that they don't actively share their true feelings around a relationship, even though it's material to the other person. That's what an emotional grownup does. This is why when I work with clients, and I gotta tell you something, by the way, there's a link right here to schedule a discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you.