 Harriet I'm Rose Marie Harriet's mum I think they're very kind to you Are they? They're all very kind to you Do they help you? I think the word Harriet often uses is they look after her I just think that they really get Harriet as an individual I think that's the biggest thing that makes a difference She's said some of her carrots for quite a long time and they all know her really, really well and I think also all of them bring a sense of fun because Harriet can at times be a little bit obstinate about what she wants to do and be quite strong-willed It makes a huge difference It makes a difference between me going to work or not because Harriet needs wrap-around care around her day centre Her day centre doesn't only run to nine to three There are things I've done with Harriet almost since Dot and it's nice for other people to come in and do those and me to have a break but actually sometimes it's nice to have a fresh pair of eyes that can move something on because I think if you're the only person doing it day in, day out that can be quite tricky sometimes if you're locked in a particular behaviour or something So getting dressed in the morning was quite tricky for us up to school age and when she had her carers that made a big difference to us because they came in and they got the routine working better and it wasn't that they did anything particularly different it was just a fresh face and she wanted to work better with them Little things that have been quite difficult for us have actually become easier because other people have stepped in and done that My hub has You want to keep having them? Yeah I think we just continue to work on life skills with Harriet day to day and we're not at a point where we say we've reached that point, we just keep working on things to improve on them so I think going into the future I couldn't see a life without having her carers involved because they're a really big part of what she does but not just for her but for all that family really