 So then I got to thinking, what are the qualities that men really are not just attracted to, but more importantly, what do they fall in love with? How do we fall in love with another person? Now, some of you might not like the terminology of falling in love, but what is deep love? Like, what is deep love? Let's explore that for a moment. I think it's when you reach a point where you genuinely can trust this other person. And trust isn't just about fidelity and trust isn't the capacity to share yourself with another person. I think it's important to look at trust from the perspective of, does this person have my best interest at heart? When they're thinking about their life, are they also thinking about my life?