 Hey guys, that was DJ Fuji, did a really, really, really awesome job. Very, very happy I had Matt this year. Next up, this will be the last individual speech of the 2009 21th Convention, kind of special for my former roommate of Project Orlando. He lived with me last year, he spoke with me last year too, he did a great job. And I want to live with him in case you guys aren't familiar with him. I saw him hook up with a ridiculous amount of girls. Too many, not too many, but an almost stupid amount, it was insane. I think a lot of you guys know this from his name, Retease, and the stigma following his name because it's such a ridiculous number. And we had a ton of fun hanging out, living together last year, Bray, coming on a cruise, just balling out of control, just guys told him nuts with women. But anyway, he has some great content, he just drove down from... Chicago. Chicago, yeah, Chicago, it's a long drive. For you guys, and he's here. And he has a Facebook page, so you guys are about later. Blah, blah, blah, good going man, have fun. Very awesome, thanks bro. I guess I'm just starting with this right off the bat. I pretty much for the last four, five, six months, I was wondering what I wanted to do with Pickup. Because I got to a certain point where I actually felt extremely comfortable anywhere I go that I would be cool with not having any friends being dropped off and be great. And I thought about it, I could either A, leave the community because I looked at what else am I going to learn, or B, I could try and help other people. I mean that was the big thing. So right now where I'm at is my Facebook page is a Retease, SpacePUA, R-A-T-I-S-S-E, SpacePUA. I answer pretty much free advice for everyone. I have a bunch of free shit that I put out there, worth like day game, intergame, all types of shit. I'm going to be recording live, putting that stuff on there, links for that, pretty much just a breakdown of my game. And part of the reason that I want to do that is because when I got into this, I was a semi-natural. I developed that. But when I got into this, it was Venusian Arts, the handbook, and I did not know what actually to do. I just kind of ran with it and figured the shit out on myself. It wasn't like I had a guide. I didn't have something to follow. I didn't feel like taking a boot camp because I looked at it and I'm like, okay, well, I came into this, I had already fucked 44 girls. I'm like, I don't know if I really need to take a boot camp because I'm at least doing something right. I just don't know what the fuck it is. So then over the next two and a half years by doing that and actually paying attention to this, my game has transformed so dramatically where when I go in a venue, it's like chess to me. Where I already have a blueprint in my head of how I want to get the venue, what I want to do with logistics, what I want to do with this, what I want to do with that. So my goal right now is to actually help other individuals that were in my scenario, in your scenario where there's really nothing out there that you can actually just grab and, okay, if I want to learn this style, I want to learn this, I want to do that and it's free. So honestly for me, I do teach boot camps but you do have to pay for my time just because honestly I have a social life and everything but I want to put it on a website. So for anyone that wants to actually just go out there and go do it, it's there. And with further ado with that, I wanted to get into working the venue because that is actually key. For me, I look at it with the venue, I don't do the typical thing that I used to do which was, okay, open set here, open set here, open set here, open set here. And I would basically take it until either I got blown out or make out and maybe pulled or whatever. Now my game is actually transformed to a totally different level and part of that was because I had to learn how to game completely sober. And I started learning with short set and then I met AFC Adam and he actually, one thing that he teaches is pre-opening. So I took that to another level for myself. So what I first wanted to teach was actually how I work a venue and if you guys want to follow it, cool, go for it, it gets me really great results. I don't really have to worry about blowouts. What it does for me is it builds my social proof radically. I end up becoming an amazing fucking person in this venue. I make friends with gods and if you guys have problems with fucking guys being dicks, it's a great way to get around that because I diffuse them, I end up getting stupid shit happening, like guys are like, hey, do you want to meet my friend? And I'm like, sure, she's cute. Okay, cool. And I'll end up doing that. I have ridiculously stupid shit happen like a couple weeks ago. I had a chick that I spent 15 minutes FaceTime with before I was having sex with her and I know it sounds like really fucked up and weird because it's not the norm. It wasn't like, hey, do you want to have sex? But it was the way that I worked the venue. What ended up happening was I was on boot camp, I was teaching a guy and he just wanted me to demo. I was like, okay, cool. So I ended up just showing him how I worked the venue, how I do this, and I saw a two-sick of him and I'm like, the chick's cute. I'm like, okay. My student, I'm like, I'm going to go open that. Just watch their reaction. So I walked up, came up to both of them and I just went riffing off of the one girl. I'm like, you know, about her fashion and shit. And then I looked at the other girl and I'm like, you, I don't know, the hair kind of eh. And then that got them laughing as well. So I started vibing, bullshitting with them for about 30 seconds to a minute. And normally what I would have done is I just would have stayed. But instead I was like, all right, you know what? You guys are probably off to go do something like do shots. And that's totally cool because my buddy's over there and I'm going back to him. And I started walking away. Immediately I hear, we're going to be on the dance floor. Come talk to us later. I was like, all right, cool. I'm golden. So then I started swirling around the club, doing what I was doing. And here, lo and behold, I run across that girl again. And this time her friend is being gamed by some guy that's not talking to her. And I'm like, okay, that kind of sucks. And since I was there to go get a drink anyways, I'm just like, okay, you know, that actually kind of sucks that this guy is paying a lot of attention to your friend, nothing to you, and you're fucking bored. I'm like, I feel bad for you. And then I started, you know, talking to her. And she seemed really interested in me. I put my hands out. She put her hands in mine. And I immediately just backpedaled her into the corner. So now I had my isolation. And I didn't have to worry about the friend because that's going on over there. So I'm talking to her. I start sexually priming her. And turn off your phone. And I start sexually priming her. And I find out that she's down for making out. So next, you know, we're making out. Everything's going great with that. And I look at her. I'm like, because I could have continued with the set, but I'm like, no, I'm going to cut this again. And I'm like, my buddy is over there. I got to go back to him. I don't want to leave him alone. But here's the thing. Every time that you see me, what you're going to do, no matter who I'm talking to, no matter what I'm doing, you're going to come over. You're going to pull my shoulder, turn me around, and start making out with me. And she's like, okay, I can do that. And so I end up going back to him. I'm doing my own, doing my thing. And I get toward the front door again. Now, this time, she's on her way out to go smoke a cigarette. I tap her on the shoulder. She turns around. All of a sudden, you know, it's stuck in my face. I'm like, cool. Awesome. And then we just like part like ships in the night. And I go find my student and I help him with his boot camp. You know, I'm helping him with this little sassy guy going on there. I'm juggling a bunch of shit. Later on, swirling around. See her again. Tom, can you come here for a second? See what I can do with my finger? Anyways. Oh yeah, like this. She was right here. And I just walked past. I'm like, hey! And I just grabbed her and pulled her. You can go now. And I grabbed her and I pulled her right out of the venue, right to where the smoking area was. And started walking toward where the door girl is. And so I'm sitting there. I'm just like testing this. I'm like, okay, how fast can I do this? What can I do? All this shit. So I get her to the street and she's like, where are we going? And I'm like, well, you and I really haven't actually had a good chance to talk. So I figured we'd go for a walk and get to know each other because it's loud in there. Five minute walk to my van. Opened it up. Said, get in. She got in. We started making out. Told her a story. 15 minutes later I was having sex with her. And there was literally the face sign was about 15 minutes just broken up. And the thing that made that happen was the fact that the way that I worked the venue is just being super fucking social with everyone. I talked to everyone because I don't know, first of all, who knows who? Okay, like you two right there. You could be by yourselves. I don't know you, right? But in about half an hour, you may have five hot chicks coming. Now, if I wait for you to have those five hot chicks there and then I open you and talk to you, then it's like, okay, I want the girls, right? I'm all about the fuse and the whole fucking scenario would be in cock block, all that shit because I'm done with that. So you guys, and this is like how I would work the venue, is I would come start talking to you. You guys off, go about talking to more people, going about, and then when it comes down to like, you have your friends there, I'm already accepted because of you guys because I've already made friends with you. Okay, great example. How I want to show you how I actually work with the bar, with compliment openers and everything. I need you. Yes, we talked. Nami, you, where's Fuji? He's not here? Whatever. Who's got good fashion here right now? Like a guy. You're not sexy, I'm sorry. It's all good. One, two, okay, fuck it. Three, four, five. You, you, you. Come on. I want you guys to get on stage with me and I'm moving this table. And this thing is not the sweetest thing in the world. Whatever. Get on stage and one person here, one person here, come forward because I'm going to need to walk here. One here, one here. One here, one here. Honey, can you get up here too? Alright, find a space, I guess maybe right here. Like I said, I look at it as chess. So then say, you know how like you can have this in the middle of a bar and you can be like going around it and there's all these people. I'm considering each person a group right now. So this is group one, group two, group three, group four, group five. So then when I get in there, my goal in my head is to meet people and make friends with everyone. Like I want to be that social connector. I want to be that guy that everyone's just like, I want to meet him. So what ends up happening is I would come up and the way I approach is two different ways. If they're in front of me, it's a little different. If they're behind me, I'll show you that one in a second. And this one, he doesn't even know I'm coming. I end up walking past and I'm like, hey dude, you know what, I really like your style, bro. I saw fucking this necklace as I was walking by. I think that is awesome, dude. Where the fuck did you get this? Actually, my ex-boyfriend gave it to me. Dude, that is fucking tight. Dude, that is awesome. Thank you, bro. Honestly, I appreciate people that actually have really good fucking styles because honestly, you see what I'm wearing, I like fucking fashion. Dude, it's pretty money. I'm Jared. I gotta go run. I gotta go talk to some people. I'll talk to you later, bro. Dude, love the fucking hair, bro. Honestly, you are huge in the fashion. Where did you get your hair done, Mike? Because I can see that you ended up having it colored and all that stuff. Did you do it yourself? Dude, that is awesome. I love that shit. Honestly, wait. Are you a hairstylist? No, I get that a lot. Really? Okay, cool. Because I really love it and honestly I would say how much you charge. I'd probably want to get hooked the fuck up. Now, what I've done here is I've opened the first set. I've skipped this one. I've skipped this one. I've opened him. And now I've ended up skipping him. And now I'm going around the bar. This set may have seen me talk to him. Okay? And then sees me. They may be following to see what I'm doing. Sees me now talk to this person. I've just walked past you. You probably didn't see me talk to them, but you see me talk to this person and this person sees me talk to this. So then I come back around and this is a little more advanced with if I actually really want to fucking just own the fucking place. Then I come back around. You're an open set. You're warm. And I'm like, what's up, bro? You having a good night, dude? Dude, fuck yeah. Dude, did you catch the game last night? Yeah, I did. Dude, fucking who were you rooting for, bro? I don't know. Well, this is just bullshit. You know what I'm saying? It's just bullshit. You're like, dude, rock on. You seem like a cool guy, bro. I gotta go run with my friends, dude, but you have a fucking good night. And then I come over to this guy and say, I don't know, whatever I want to talk to this guy about. Dude, you're from South Carolina. Dude, that's fucking awesome. Dude, I love that place. And then I would start talking about some vacation spot. You're like, dude, have you ever been there? You're like, awesome, dude, you have a good night, bro. And then I fucking bounce off. That would have done there. Now, I've talked to you. I've talked to you. I've talked to you. I've talked to you. Now, everyone is wondering what the fuck is going on with me and especially this set right here. This set wants me to open them. And everyone that's paying attention sees that I am pretty much owning the venue. And they may not know that I am here alone. And by the way, I usually go out to the bars by myself. I don't have a wing. I go work this all by myself. If you're not doing that, why the fuck not? If you've got yourself and you've got a wing that know how to do this properly, it's fucking super stellar. It's not even funny. So in this scenario, I've got them and this is something that I can do within 10 to 15 minutes. I mean, everyone's talking about I'm worried about what to say, blah, blah, blah. I just riff off of the first thing that I see. And I just go from there. Fashion, whatever. Within 15 minutes, I've probably opened 30 sets at least. And I've just gone through here and now what I can do from here is I can reopen. I can end up hitting you up and I want to do something real quick. You need to come with me for a second. Now, say this guy, right? Say this is the hottest set in the place and I've been doing this. What I want to do is if I want this girl and I don't know what the deal is with them, what I would end up doing is since I've already talked to these people, I've skipped them. Now when I come around, of course they may want me to talk to them. If this guy has no fashion style, but she does, I'd be like, oh my God, I love what you're wearing. Honestly, this totally contours your body just like you had it custom made. Doesn't she have really good fashion sense? I think that it's fucking awesome. What's up, man? You having a good night? Dude, fuck yeah, bro. Blah, blah, blah, and off. Now what I've done there is not only have I opened her, but I've shown him that I'm disinterested. And since I've been talking to everyone else, then I can end up coming back. I'm not going to tell you about how to steal fucking girls from your boyfriends, but if it's a two set and it's like, I find out that they're not together, since I've opened all these other fucking people, now they're open sets that I have out there, girls, guys, whatever. Now if this is the set that I want and say these two are a set right here, come together, you guys are two girls, right? And you guys are loving me. What would end up happening in the scenario of coming back to talk to you guys? Now I'm just like, blah, blah, blah, blah, with you guys, but honestly, I could tell about you just from her, because she's a beautiful girl, but beauty is common, but I can tell that you, my friend, have got to be a really cool guy, because otherwise you would not be hanging out with her. Okay? Honestly, for me, the common thing that I get is why can't they meet cool guys in, like, venue? Are you two together? Actually, we just met. Really? Dude. Okay, because I've got a couple friends over there, and like I said, they always, always, always are complaining about why can't we meet like cool guys, dude, fucking come with me, come on. And then now I've just become the leader of this group, and now what I do is I bring them over to this group and I introduce everyone together. And now what ends up happening since I've already owned this set, now I own this set, now I'm the leader of this set, what I can do is I can work this, and if I want to take this even further, what ends up happening is I make sure that there's a great conversation going on with everyone, and this is where a wing actually comes into a great play, because if he's there, I can leave him here. And then I make sure everyone's going along, and what I will do is I will go find another girl, another guy, another, you know, I want to grab and I'll come around. I'm going to need you to move this way so I don't fucking trip. And I would come around and I would kind of do the exact same thing to this group, and then I would bring you in to this, and now I'm the king of these three sets. And then, you know, I'm going to make sure everything's going good, and now if you're the girl that I want, since everyone's now talking and having a good time, now I can end up doing like isolation with this girl kind of here, and yes, my handcuffs, I do use these as a prop to fucking handcuff girls and pull them for drinks. But then I could be talking to me like, you know what, I'm actually going to go grab a drink. You want to come with me? Maybe I'll introduce you to some other friends and you seem like a cool person. And then bam, I take her and I can just leave all these people together and depending on the scenario, depending on how everything goes, I may get the make out, maybe start working logistics for day two, all that shit while all these people are entertained. And I will do this throughout the venue and what it does is, like I said, it creates that social environment, that social connector and it's pretty powerful. Thank you guys, I'm good for right now for demos. Give these guys a round of applause. Okay, I want to talk to you guys a little bit about intergame and the reason why I want to do that is because if you don't have that under control you are royally fucked and the biggest reason I say that is if you have no confidence no matter what I teach you, no matter what anyone teaches you you are going to fuck it up. When it comes down to actually building that I mean you have to realize a lot of things out there. You are you. You're not me. You're not Tommy. You're not Anthony. You are you so no matter what whatever someone thinks about you really should not affect you as much as what you think of yourself. When it comes down to that I have a bunch of things like even for me I don't consider myself a guru or anything, I have my bad days I have it where I'm just like fuck I'm like I am not loving this but usually I will end up in state at some point. For me I have it in my phone and I'm going to give this to you guys if I get myself in a negative pattern what I learned to use is a little bit of NLP to change my mindset and just keep it going like this constant positive loop constant positive loop for me I look at it I control my inner world and what I mean by that like how I feel about myself no one really dictates how I feel like if someone doesn't like me the emotions that I feel are because externally I'm taking their opinion and bringing it into me and it's hurting my self-esteem there's no need for that at the end of your life truly you're going to end up going out alone I mean no one else is going to be like oh hold on I'm dying so you're coming with me no it doesn't work that way for me I try to keep my mental self-talk up here very positive because the thing is like even with the speech if I wanted to I could get into a negative pattern like oh my god what are these people thinking of me am I saying the right shit next thing you know I could start stuttering or like freeze up or whatever and that's another thing when it comes down to when you're in like field you're sitting there in your head and you're like okay am I saying the right thing it's going to start coming out in your body language like you might not notice it but you might start having like nervous twitches and I notice this with like some people I've seen the they start it off fine they're like very relaxed and they're talking to a person and then next you know it's the gradual to like they're defending themselves and they don't even know that they're doing it I've seen that and you know and you can see it in their whole body language like they start slumping everything that's why I say you have to keep your mental self-talk positive because you know like I said if you're negative all it's going to do is just fuck you in the long run paying attention to the present I go out there and I just I riff I don't really worry about what's going to happen as much throughout the night I know that what I do works you know and this is for me I know that what I do works and it's I'm going to have results and no matter what not every night I get laid who cares I'm going to go out I'm going to go have fun and I don't know what adventure my night's going to bring also I do not sit there and beat myself up about a fucking set great example I could beat myself up about last night I had a set that I was out with Tommy Adonis was over at Bliss and I'm just doing my little social thing I end up talking to this Mexican girl ended up making out with him Tommy was my wing with the other girl I start bouncing around start talking to the sky about his fucking hat and shit he's fucking loving me I come back around I'm on the dance floor talking to this Brazilian girl and she's like you know into me too but I'm kind of getting the vibe that her boyfriend is the one behind her so I'm like whatever so then I start coming over I fucking high five Tommy I turn around I end up fucking talking to this this black guy's got like an Ed Hardy shirt I'm talking to him about how like the colors I wouldn't be able to pull it off but he can I think it's awesome I come around and I see this banging chick in a white dress that's just like like it's glued on her and I'm like I like that and so so immediately I just did the same thing I came around I did the tap and then I tapped on this side and immediately I you know went into about the fashion and about how I like that and she's like thank you and like I noticed she was like very receptive she didn't say oh like thanks in my back no it was a genuine compliment so she immediately she was facing the bar I was behind her she just went like this so now I'm talking to her I've got a wall behind me and I talked her for about two or three more seconds and I reach out grab her arms and I come back and lean into the bar or lean into the wall and she's talking to me and within about 30 seconds to a minute she brings up my lip rings she's like did those hurt and she touches my mouth and my rings and I'm like she might want to make out hold on let's see what's up with this so I didn't really like sexually prime it right there what I did was I tested her self communications and her body language I went I'm like well the thing with my lip rings is I wanted to I've thought about them for a while and when I did this I started leaning forward and came to the side around like her face my face was touching hers our mouth was about that far apart and I was whispering in her ear now it gave me still that distance where I could see her eyes she closed her eyes in preparation to make out and I was like done so I started going to that and I'm like well but now it's become kind of a giving thing for people and I kissed her and we started making out and I pulled back and I said see what I mean like it's for your pleasure not as much mine and so we're talking and couple minutes go by and she blatantly brings this up that I'm the type of guy that she wouldn't date but would possibly have a one night stand with and I was like okay you're down to fuck I'm like that's what this means to me in my head so immediately I'm like hey blah blah blah I'm like come here and I bring her out and I ended up walking past Adonis walked her out of the place and she's like where are we going what fucked it up was this girl was just about a quick fuck to me I should have bathroom pulled her or I should have found some really quick place because this was a bliss I had to go all the way to Ibar and that's a long fucking walk and she had heels next to you know it's the same thing with buying temperature with girls if they start getting annoyed or irritated or whatever it kinda can fuck the whole thing up so we went for this long little walk and at some point she started complaining about how her shoes were hurting I'm like okay that's not good and it started like spiraling a little bit I got her about five feet from my car and she pre-Elamard me by turning back the other way and pulling me and she knew what was up and she was just like Donna was like fuck so I blew it right there but it's still like I mean for me like I like I said I want to be present in the moment so like I can pay attention to what's going on I mean because if you're not if you're in your head boom you'll miss things like that I mean I've had it before we're thinking back that I've kept gaming I've kept talking when I've gotten some blatant shit and I just didn't hear it because I was more concerned about what I was going to say versus what she's given to me I mean that's where it's truly like actually having a connection actually having an interaction with a person instead of just the whole I have this whole script I mean it's awesome it's great that's how I fucking started with this but now it's pretty much a big freestyle for me so like you know you have to get yourself eventually out of your head you have to get it where it's focusing on the person you know because when you do magic starts happening when you start working fucking the venue like that it becomes amazing and it's you don't have to actually have it where your environment hurts you and that's what a lot of PUAs do because people see exactly what you're doing so then you get blown out here you get blown out here people see that and now it's like okay this guy is just hidden on people you know what I mean that's why I go this social route back to inner game for me and I don't know about you guys but I'm pretty sure this is true if you really wanted to you could make yourself feel good like and also you can make yourself feel really sad like if you're going to sit there and you want to think about okay my dog just died you know my mom has cancer all this shit eventually you're going to start feeling these feelings and feelings and emotions that's why the same thing is choose the way that you feel when I go out there I feel like a fucking rockstar when I hit the fucking club I know everyone is going to love me I go in there with the mentality of I want everyone to fucking meet me and pretty much like this is my fucking party this club is mine I own this like the night club mentality what it does like say if you were the owner any one of you if you owned a club and you were walking through it would you be hesitant about talking to anyone would you be sitting there worried about what people think of you no that's why I keep that as a mentality for me I pretend like pretty much this is my place I mean I'm going to own it I talk about moderating my mind same thing with the whole paying attention to your inner world I truly believe that I am all that I need I mean really it's it comes from an inner inner belief, inner strength and that is something that if you don't have it you really do have to work out because that's where your true confidence comes from and without true confidence yes you can fake it but then you will end up hitting those flinch points at some time I'm sure some of you had relationships where it was going great even like dating going great and then you crumbled and I've had this and I don't want to go into detail about that but I've had it where I've been tested so fucking hard where I was just like oh my fucking god why am I in this another thing to think about is in your life for me I truly believe that I'm the best thing that's ever happened to me in my life I mean with that mentality like I really believe kind of like I have this this armor in a way like I believe that okay if you don't like me that's not my problem it's a matter of me liking myself you know another thing is when you're starting to think about okay does this person like me did I say the wrong thing you gotta realize they're thinking the same shit they're thinking exactly the same fucking thing what goes on in your head is going on in their head the girl is sitting there like am I pretty enough for this guy I hope he likes the stories I'm telling him he didn't laugh at that there was supposed to be a joke same shit humans are humans for me because I came from really fucked up past I mean not like I was raped or any of that shit but it was like I didn't have social skills I had to learn all this stuff because of my family the way that they interacted well everything that I was subdued to from childhood all the way through high school and past that was conditioning and wiring because of other people I didn't choose that so what I decided to do was pretty much rewire myself I look at it like if you're not happy with who the fuck you are change it seriously figure out who you want to be think about it what are the steps that I need to do for a person and fucking do it a lot of people go through their lives regretting things sitting there just like man I wish I had done this wish I had done that not happy with themselves you see them every day you see them driving on the street you see them walking I will talk to people everywhere it doesn't bother me but you see them they're just kind of moping around I've got to go to the grocery store after work I've got to pick up this fuck I've got to go home to my wife they are living a very miserable existence and like to me personally I believe that that's pretty much death I mean like I want to live I want to have experience I want to enjoy my life there is no fucking half ass in it I mean I do not want to wake up and I said this last time on my last speech I do not want to wake up at 65 I wish I had done this I wish I had done that because you cannot turn back fucking clock and when it really comes out to it every fucking moment in your life is really a chance to turn it all around if you really really believe in yourself and you really really wanted to not a person in here could be as good as anyone that's spoken and guru out there I mean it really comes down to you really comes down to your own dedication what you want to do what you want to become and like DJ Fuji said the rewards are amazing I mean I go out there and I end up making friends and this is coming from a person that in high school I didn't talk to a fucking person unless it had something to do with or the lesson any of that shit or if it was related to sports that I was in I had no friends in my school okay I met some people from my high school in the bars in Chicago and they're just like what the fuck happened to you because I would just go around swirling do my thing and I have girls buy me shots I have guys buy me shots these people I went to school with other people and shit and they're just like in like all like double taking this shit another thing is comparisons you shouldn't compare yourself to anyone okay you have different skills than he does he has different skills than he does he has different skills than he does what it really should come down to compare yourself to you because you should really be your own golden standard I mean like because if you're comparing yourself to someone else what that ends up leading into is that whole man I wish I was like this and it's just self like sabotage I used to do this I did this fucking like it did help me at one point but this was in sales I was like okay I need to do this I need to do that and it would cause me to go into like frantic mode for my work and that you would make me have to fucking work harder but also the strain the stress that it put on me was not healthy and not fun you know like I enjoyed my job at the same time I hated it at some points which also then sitting there like I'd come back and be like fuck I didn't sell as much as this person I still did an awesome job but I'm sitting there just like fuck and I'm mad at myself mad at my fucking self for that so ultimately you have wings whatever whatever your fucking wing is better than you you shouldn't let that fucking affect you you should actually take that in that fucking your life completely with anything you do with anything you do it matters just put in your 100% effort into everything that you do in your life for me I'm actually really happy with who I am and where I am in my life there are a lot of things that I want to change that I'm going to change but at the moment I don't let them hold me back I don't sit there and dwell on them I just look at it okay consciously this is what I want to do my subconscious knows that this is what I want to do I know that eventually it's going to happen all I have to do is just take the steps to go through it and everything will be fine everything will be taken care of I wanted to go into intergame because I know you already heard about SNLs from Adonis I wanted to give my own way that I go about it and that's why I started building up from going from the way that I work venue about intergame because everything that I talk about is actually a pre-courser to this pretty much because first off if you don't have the intergame you're probably not going to get laid with me when I do talk to people it pretty much comes down to you have to realize what are your logistics with this girl every girl pretty much can be pulled even if they have a boyfriend or they're married whatever but that's going to come down to your own internal belief system whether or not it's wrong or right to hook up with a woman that is married has a boyfriend whatever that's on you you're going to choose to do whatever you want to do every girl ends up kind of getting slotted into one of a couple categories you can only get laid a couple of ways one of them is a bathroom pool one of them is a car pool which I love because I'd rather not go to the bathroom another one is SNL at the house surprisingly another one is on the dance floor which I found shocking about a year ago every girl you got to think about what are her logistics you have the girl that drove a lot of people would leave that set and leave it alone well that girl if you think about it she falls into pretty much every category in a way you've got you can pull her to the car you can pull it through a bathroom you can take her to an alley very romantic place I know you can take her home but then you have to deal with the whole thing of she has to drop her friends off and then once you live in clubs like in Chicago close at 4 so if they're out till 4 o'clock good chance if she has to drive her friends home you're not getting that SNL at her house or your house because she's probably not going to give her keys to someone and by the time she gets home it'll probably be like 6 in the morning so that's probably not happening she's going to want to go to sleep the friends they fall into everything they hit the bathroom the car you can SNL them but what you've got to do is you have to work the friends and make the friends love you when that all comes down then when it's time and the best set is actually the girl that's with a couple gay guys that set right there make friends with the gay guys and if any of you guys are actually intimidated by gay guys you need to realize that get yourself socially conditioned to deal with these people I've done fucked up things with students I'm an asshole if someone's out with me and I'm like dude you're not listening to me I will actually take a student like if I'm telling them open and he's not listening to me I'll be like dude every time you don't open when I tell you to open I'm going to kick you in the ass and it doesn't open it doesn't open if that doesn't work what ends up happening is I will walk next to him and I'll be like open the set coming up open okay you didn't do that open I'll give the guy a couple of times if he doesn't and as I pinned open and when we get to that body check and I throw him into this set pretty much I just launch him into it I don't care and now he looks like a retard and it's for his own good because now he realizes oh fuck I need to talk now because otherwise this is going to start happening it doesn't get past two of these it doesn't because seriously even if I do a body check it turns into a stumble like oh fuck and you just like hit this person so that will get people going another thing like I said with the whole gay people thing I've taken students to gay bars and gone there and talked to everyone there saying that my student just came up the closet today and he's looking for some fun that right there if you are afraid of like gay people whatever dude it's not going to be like oh my god I think that's awesome congratulations to your new life all this it gets funny I haven't posted I think I have video but I haven't posted the pictures or anything I'm being nice about that I won't do that but I have one student where I forced his ass to get up there on the podium with one of those little male dancers it just got ridiculously fucking hilarious to the point where I'm like I want you to see the mentality of what a woman goes through in the fucking bars so I kept working it and now I started pretending like I'm the girl that's egging him on to get laid like in the reversal side this fucking guy was all about him and like I'm sitting there like a girl would be like complimenting me like oh my god this guy is awesome blah blah blah like the fat girl or whatever and so I'm sitting there doing that about this guy oh my god you should go home with this guy blah blah blah blah this guy is such a nice guy you should give him your number did the whole fucking thing to him I mean it was ridiculous and like he's like like kind of like help help and I was just like alright you need to fucking realize like psychology of women and so then I saved him and pulled him out of that but like I will do fucked up things so how comfortable someone feels in their own skin I'll send a student into like Victoria's Secret during my day game and be like listen I need some help I have to go to this party and it's the reverse it's guys dress as girls girls dress as guys so I need the sexiest lingerie that you got I make him go shopping pretty much with this girl but that's an opener and they usually are just like shocked and fucking just it's ridiculous I will make people say the most fucking stupid shit it's just to realize that you can say pretty much anything and get away with it as long as you do it the right way when I had major approach anxiety one drill that I had that I ended up doing and that's where part of my silver game came up was I would I hope you can still see me I would end up walking by and I'd be like oh dude I love the shirt it's great I love it and then I'd be looking to be like Yeager and I said I love Yeager and I said it's fucking awesome and oh dude is that a lion I love it oh dude like the tie cool rock on I love the tie and like it would literally be the first thing that came to mind and I would sit there and before I would go because my brain would be going fucking nuts I would be sitting there focusing I would hold my breath and walk and then when I got there you have blonde hair and it's like the first thing that pops in my head and now it's think about it the thing that really fucks you is that time in between the time in between walking that 10 feet the 20 feet or whatever and you're sitting there in your head that was a drill that I had that I did for myself for fucking a little bit and it actually helped dramatically the way that I would just be able to not have to worry about numbing my brain with alcohol where like I would just focus on my breath same thing as like DJ Fuji talked about you can't be thinking about locking in and what to say at the same time the same deal with you can't get nervous about this shit if you're sitting there focusing on your breath you can't be worried about what this girl's thinking about you as you're coming up what are you going to say about it am I going to get blown out here same fucking thing you know okay um this one's a fun one um dance floor that one if you have really good game you have really good dance floor game a girl that's wearing a skirt you can actually fuck around the dance floor and I found out about this not because I did it but I found out from a girl that I was banging she told me we got into this whole fucking thing about you know we're some of the craziest places that you've had sex blah blah blah and we're going back and forth and it's getting more intense more intense she's like I've had sex on the dance floor and I'm like what and she's like I I like to go on in skirts all I gotta do is I gotta just kind of back up into the guy a little bit reach behind and zip the zipper pull this cock out pull my panties to the side pop it in and it looks like we're grinding and I was just like wow you just fucking blew my mind on that one that one takes balls um I haven't done it yet I probably will at some point but um windows of escalation and this is part of the reason why I say pay attention to where you are in the moment because if you are sitting there in your head worried about what to say this and that what's gonna end up happening is windows of escalation will come and you will miss them like if I was really concerned like the one I was talking about the girl that I pulled in like 5 minutes but then I fucked it up later if I was really concerned about myself I wouldn't have noticed that she closed her eyes when she did you see what I'm saying if I was sitting there worried about what I was doing I might not have like taken this as an IOI that she wanted to kiss me things like that um also another thing is if you don't recognize in windows of escalation what ends up happening is you find yourself in the let's just be friend zone after a while for me I escalate very quick you can ask pretty much any PUA that goes out with me if I'm gonna be making out with a girl it's usually within 5 minutes you just I just do it I will do it as quick as possible if I can get the makeup right away I will do it on one eye opener it just really depends on how I feel about it you gotta end up becoming intuitive about this and that's what this whole process is when they talk about you have to get like a thousand approaches 2,000 approaches, 3,000 approaches in think about the goal think about what you want to become because ultimately this becomes a part of you this becomes autopilot that you just start noticing this shit and that's why like for me I started teaching sexual priming last year because it really did enhance my game it really did give me a way to realize when a woman was ready based on how she was it also gave me the reality of knowing when women really weren't in me and I should just eject right now and maybe game around and maybe come back because there's no sense in just sticking around with some set until it just completely stales and then now it's like I just wasted fucking 20 minutes in a way like I did some stupid or they didn't like me I'm about efficiency I'm about time if I'm out yeah I don't want if I'm really out there to get laid I just don't want to sit there like okay 20 minutes have gone by fuck this one didn't go nowhere 30 minutes went by okay fuck this one didn't go nowhere I don't feel like sitting in a club for 5 hours I don't feel like sitting there for 4 hours I mean like if I go usually I'm in a bar for maybe an hour or two and that's it just because I've supercharged and sped up my game and everyone can do that it's just a matter of actually knowing where shit is and when you can proceed there is like it's a 7 hour thing whatever it is what it is right now my average is like an hour if I have a girl on a date or you know even like text or whatever I mean shit I'll have it where I meet her for 5 minutes get her number and all I did was work the text boom boom boom boom meet up with her and then just display my awesomeness but at the same time with the qualification the way that I qualify is get in to know her deeper inner psyche what she's about what she you know none of that okay can you cook that's just filler bullshit that I do with my text I'm more about getting to know her inner psyche and who this person is because with me yes I do like sex but I also like to know about women too like I do enjoy conversations with them and that's why I ask things like I've had it where I had you know I'm not going to give names but I have a girl in Denver that's um she's one of my friends we've had sex but she before she met me she gave up her dream of school she completely gave up her dream of fucking you know being an artist and getting into that field and graphic design and I got to talk to her and I started finding this stuff out and I'm like why she's like well I don't know the pay it could be hard blah blah blah um right now because of me like I'd like to leave people truly better than like when I met them right now she's backing school and she's following her dream I mean it's it's powerful I mean when you're sitting there with a woman um this comes down to emotional connection with a woman and this is another key to my game is I truly kind of what makes her tick what her dreams and passions are like what she wants to do with her life like I'm sitting there as a positive person in her life I want to encourage her I got um met that girl that I fucking in like 15 minutes she's an artist like she just had an art show and she was like telling me about I'm like that's fucking awesome I'm fucking happy for you it was her first art show and I'm just like being that that support system I mean because everyone wants that positive encouragement everyone like truly should actually follow the dreams whatever it is they shouldn't give it up for anything they shouldn't give it up for oh I want money they should do it just because they want to do it it's part of the reason that I actually drove down from Chicago because I actually wanted to help other people because I feel blessed with who I am as a person and if I hadn't actually had everything happened the way it did with my life I wouldn't have been in this and I wouldn't be in a situation where I can actually share my knowledge and help people and guide them on a path if they choose to follow it hmm when I'm trying to get laid and you have that girl that is really really invested like where she's like super invested like a great example would be I'm not really I may be talking a little bit but then she just keeps asking at the question I've been talking I let her work for it I will drop my game down and I will let her work for it because I want her to feel like it's a reward that she's getting you know like I don't want it to be like oh yeah I step it back especially when a girl's like can I get your number and then I'll keep going what this is she's like wait what the fuck any girl like if a cute girl just came to you you'd give it to her but still you see what I'm saying let's exchange I make her work for it in that scenario I make her find out more about me I just kind of flip the frame and the girl route on her and I make her invest a lot more and I make her win me over in that scenario um my my game with fucking the SNLs depending on what I want to do with it is depending on how I'm going to interact with the girl I will sit there and I will go 991 like if I really need to I will just sit there and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah and I will relate to her stories about myself that are true to me I don't sit there and I don't use people's material I don't sit there and talk about okay I smash this BMW with a fucking baseball bat because my ex-girlfriend was a stripper blah blah blah none of that bullshit like for me I want the interaction if I'm talking to someone about this I want it to be genuine to me be genuine like for us because that is you know a true thing I don't want it to be false I've heard of some shit where someone told me about this some girl was dating this guy and he used the exact lines out of the Pick-A-Bart show and then she watched that show and realized I think it was you and realized was it you yeah yeah yeah yeah it fucked up the relationship and I think that sucks the beginning that's not a genuine thing I mean I look at it for me personally learn it have fucking sex have the beginning but actually make it so it's real to you see here another thing is don't be afraid of losing the girl that's also part of the reason why I work the venue the way that I do I'm not actually really invested in them I really don't care I'm just out there to do my thing if you're not really too interested in like maybe following up with a girl hardcore attraction game does work for fucking SNLs like really hardcore powerful shit knowing just a little bit about like you know emotional connection so she like views you as a person and you could like frame certain things about her we're like you know like based on like her culture say it checks from like you know from Mexico or whatever and she was born there you'd be like wow well that means like you know what I really like about you is like you said that you're from Mexico you must be really close of your family and I think that is awesome because people that are from Mexico are more about who you are and not what you do for a living that's amazing that's so different than how like America is here everyone is all about your job you do and I commend that I commend the closeness you have your family the closest you have with your friends and your people like I think that was awesome right there that's a huge huge qualification that I just said about like her as a person you know as a cold read basically because of the culture with that I mean I don't really have to do too much that was why I like her like you know Gigi Fuya was talking about that is you know you have to let her know why you like her there's a good reason and then I could just sit there and go blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah all the way to trying to pull her another thing is hesitation and impulse a lot of guys are very very like weary in very uh hesitant when it comes to Kino when it comes to escalation when it comes to everything Tommy I want you to come up here again come on buddy boy you don't need your shoes it's fine like I make people very very comfortable my presence when I like open the sets because like I could have a group of people and when I open them and I could be talking to him for a second and immediately I will come on dude I've got to fucking work over here and I'll be like yeah I'm touching him I'm showing that I'm a touchy friendly guy and as I'm doing this I'm moving around as well so instead of the traditional like that since I move around I can end up entering people's spaces and just by doing this it ends up creating this whole uh comfortability of me between everyone because I can do this around everyone I can come to the side right here and say this is my target whatever then like no one sees that I'm doing this but she could already be like you know into me and everything and it's just like it's kind of like a little bit I think in my head where it's just you know making people very very comfortable with it being fluid and this being the person that you are it's more natural for people to move around anyways when I talk to you like standing still and having it so formal yeah because then when it's like right here it ends up being kind of little stiff and robotic and it becomes very clunky when you actually try to change things up okay okay for you that I was talking about like you know with confidence it really does come down to your experiences I mean some of the reason why I get away with some of the shit that I do is because of the things that I've done in the past I mean it's all a learner curve it's all a build up that's why I you know I will pull girl into the bathroom I've done evil things like the boyfriend really pissed me off and I had a scenario where I was talking to a girl I didn't even know that it was her boyfriend okay and I don't advise doing this at all but I didn't know it was his girlfriend and I had already made out with her I had met him earlier in the night I didn't know that he was part of the set so I'm outside and I saw her and I was like hey and she's like hey and like you know she just stopped talking to her boyfriend now I thought this was just some guy gaming her right so I just kind of ignored him and now I'm like talking just to to the girl and this guy kind of steps away I'm talking to her talking to her and this is where he really pissed me off and it made me be very vindictive about it earlier we had been talking about my lip rings and yes you know it hurt when I got it done so he just mentions out of nowhere he's like hey bro remember those two things we talked about how would you like to lose those in my head that was a direct threats of him wanting to rip my fucking like literally tear this shit out so like you've seen fucking Punisher where they fucking yeah I'm like okay that's not cool because you know he said that's his girlfriend I was like you just fucked with the wrong person I mean in my head I was like what do we have 15 okay cool so in my head I'm just like yeah I'm going to fuck your girl I'm gonna do something with your girl it ended up being where I'm swirling around I'm doing my thing upstairs she's dancing on one of the fucking bars I'm making out with her she's got her friend there her boyfriend ends up coming up and he's chilling over on the side and he's watching this fucking show go on where she's just making out with me and having fun with me right before the place closed I'm talking to her and she ends up saying something about oh where's the bathroom like oh it's over here I'll show you and I bring her to the bathroom I open the door let her in I go in I close it and I walk it and she's sitting there peeing and I'm watching and I'm just chilling and she gets done I start making out with her put her hand on my cock pull it out never give me a head and then all of a sudden there's knock on the door that's one of her friends I had her friends purse so it wouldn't get stolen let that grow so now we're hanging out there and she's like asking what's going on with this end of that bar closes we walk out guess who walks out of the men's bathroom her boyfriend and he sees that I just walked out of the women's bathroom so he knows something fucking happened as he went past him he looked back at me and he's just like I'm like that's what you get dude and that's not a nice thing to do I've done bad shit I don't advise doing it because honestly I don't regret doing it but the same thing I could have gone outside and I could have ended up getting stabbed or some bullshit because you hear about all types of crazy stupid stories see what I'm saying I guess how much time do I have right now a little bit less than 15 minutes okay I'm going to have to probably like go through a lot of shit real fast hmm hmm hmm no I'm not going to tell that story because it's too long now oh social circles these are awesome you meet a girl and leave it on a standpoint of you guys are like friends I'll give you a great example I've had it where I banged one chick and then she invited me to a party and then because of being there I banged the host and then because of being with her she was into me she invited me a couple of days later and she was being a real bitch to me and I kind of liked her and so vindically I fucked I'm going to go six degrees of separation through it and as long as you go the right way about it and you're very you frame it as you're very casual with like sex and it's a natural thing and you know for you it's more about you're more willing to do that than to get in relationships that's how I can juggle that with friends then I stop talking to them for about four months then I end up talking to them again turns out that it made them a better closer group of friends and it was weird like the logic that they brought up was that they had a bonding experience because I had had sex with all of them really fucking weird let's see here what I'm talking about really is actually getting laid about the beginning stuff that's actually how to build a life like if you really want it if you are socially afraid to make friends that is a way to build a life you could actually go about and you don't have to even talk to any girls in the fucking bar you can sit there and bullshit with the guys and go out there not wanting to get laid that will get you laid because what will happen is you start making friends and from there you can bring people together they're going to bring friends it's going to turn into the whole social game shit that's really if you want to build a life that's truly for me this has really become more embodied in me wherever I fucking go it's not just about pickup it's about what do I want as my experiences in my life because I've had it where I've met really fucking cool people it's out of the bar and it's led into awesome things like I met a tattoo artist that fucking did some tattoos for me I got hooked up on clothing because I met some chick that owns a store and since I was an awesome person even though she was in a relationship she gave me discounts shit like this it's just interaction socializing with people wanted to go through a lot more shit but I don't have the time one reason that a lot of guys don't get laid is truly deep down inside and I felt this way I exceeded feeling belief that not worthy of it that's why a lot of guys even some guys that get laid standards are low they shoot for the floor and maybe getting laid but it's not by what they want and that really does come down to an intergame issue and for that to have that going on fix that you are perfect you are you you are your own being like I talked about earlier that is something that you really do need to fix because you can be the coolest fucking guy because of routines or whatever but eventually your armor cracks the woman will see who you truly are and then that's when you lose her to someone else and God forbid you are in love with this woman and that shit happens that fucking blows that actually happened to me not with the woman that I was in love with but it was my first real girlfriend that I gave my virginity to she started developing feelings for someone else fell for them I lost her to some fat guy and that sucked and if you guys have had that happen part of that isn't an intergame thing and I know where you're coming from I know how you feel about that what am I looking at with time right now a little bit less than 10 minutes okay cool I'm going to kind of speed through this you can save your Q&A for the Q&A panel what's up no no that's fine one thing I do want to throw out there is I have the capability to travel around it looks like I'm going to be going to Vegas in September and probably going to move there I'm also interested in actually helping and giving talks and just being there for other guys I have it on Tuesday I'm going to South Florida because I have a lair talk there anyone that's watching this here that's a part of a lair that wants a lair talk feel free to contact me and try to arrange some so I can either do like a road trip over there so I can still work get my ass there all that shit and I'd be more than willing to come speak I have no problem with that I just kind of want to get that out of the way let's see here real quick you said I have like 10 minutes things that I do talk about that actually does make a difference and it comes on to like framing is um yes I said build a connection with a woman like I want her to know who the fuck I am like because I've run across that where like it's been said before girls like why you like me or but I don't know you well that means you just haven't done your job you need to build that connection she needs to know that me and potato is about who you are and you need to find some of that shit out about her too another thing that I do that is women are huge fake deja vu things happen for a reason all that I believe that too so I talk about that I mean I can be talking to a girl and I will lead like through a story about my life I'll be like talking about my life boom boom boom boom boom and then I will bring it back to this is why I'm here today don't want to do I talk to girls about I've told them I'm a dating coach and I frame it I bring it all the way around to where it is right now and they're cool with it I've gone even as far as saying you know the VH1 show I'm a professional pickup artist and the way that I frame it just bring it around they think it's awesome let's see here also with fake deja vu and things happen for a reason I also bring up the fact that like I'm proud of my upbringing and where I am today because if I had changed one little thing I wouldn't be having this moment here with her kind of bringing up the whole serendipity thing I definitely want to make sure that this is going to be a good set that I'm going for I prime about kissing and I've talked about that before a quick line about that is oh my god if you don't stop looking at me like that we're going to end up making out and I gauge go from there if the boyfriend objection comes up where she's talking about oh I have a boyfriend what I bring up and this is especially if I get a girl on a date and then the boyfriend thing comes up because that's kind of a weird one where it's like you have a boyfriend but you're off here on a date with me okay if that one comes up I end up letting her know that I'm not stopping her from leaving I frame it as she's here because she wants to be here and then she ends up agreeing with that and that's with that another thing that I talk about is living in the moment that I can die tomorrow and that also goes into the whole thing of me talking about how I don't want to be like a 65 year old man you know that regrets life what that does is in the same sense of it is you know talk about things that happened for reason living in the moments I'm framing for an SNL right now with the check or while I'm on a date I already talked to you about finding out your passions and desires the reason for that obviously is the emotional connection talked about acting on impulse because women are emotionally impulsive I mean they just act on a whim so I talk about how I listen to my gut, my heart it never sears me wrong I'm really talking about how that's the reason why I wanted your phone number 4 and I wanted to get to know you better blah blah blah blah blah blah and then I frame it I understand her another thing is I start talking about connection with people I'll be talking about comfortability I feel really comfortable with a lot of people period so I'll be talking to a girl and I will get her to verbally tell me that she's comfortable with me because I'll put it out there first and I do that with everything if a girl gives you a bad answer you're like okay what's your dreams, desires blah blah and she gives you a one word answer like I want to be a veterinarian that's weak usually what I'll end up doing in a situation like that is if the girl is like I ask her what do you want to do blah blah blah blah blah see with me and I'll start talking about things that are important to me because then she's going to feel more comfortable with me and oblige to follow suit and give me a very good answer and also it shows investment and then when I'm talking about connection I tell her I feel very connected with you blah blah blah whatever and I get her to verbalize it too I tell her like that I feel this I'm like don't you feel it and she's like yeah and when I do it I'll just like a look at you writing your eyes I get her to verify that she's into me as well and through that I could have been talking about beauty's common whatever but I'll be also talking about how like I'm into her because of this and then then then I may ask her I'm tired or something I could ask her and be like well I've been talking to you blah blah blah blah I don't know what you think about me blah blah blah what do you think about that and if I'm talking about why I'm in self-help or whatever she'd be like oh I think that's really cool that you want to help people blah blah blah blah blah it's the same thing of making her into me same thing with telling her that I'm into her when I give compliments when it's actually like in conversation with people I talk about their personality you know it's it's a big thing like because every woman in this fucking country I don't care what they look like they get hit on all the time about their looks you know if you're talking about you know like why you like them you know like okay I like the fact that you're funny you're smart you're blah blah blah everyone wants to feel that way no one wants to feel like this person only wants me because they think I'm hot no girl wants that it's kind of shallow it's kind of like I feel like I'm being used now the same thing with you know guys it's you wouldn't want someone to be your friend only because you have money you see what I'm saying it's kind of the same thing they don't like your personality but you are rich so they want to tag along so they can reap the benefits I gotta wrap it up I talk about confidence not needing this I'm not going to be able to get into all of this I need to wrap this up right now biggest thing like I said my facebook bretis my email is bretis at gmail.com right now it looks like I'm going to be dropping shit on the charm and rogues site also pick evolution if you are on the touring sites I drop my stuff on there as well feel free download it I hope it helps you and feel free to give me feedback like you know if you have questions if you have something like oh my god this happened blah blah blah and I need help with this feel more than welcome to shoot me an email cool with that I'm going to wrap this up we're done