 Hey there everybody welcome welcome to what Chelsea eats. I'm so glad to have you here today Welcome welcome welcome. We are talking about infertility today And even if you don't you're not infertile Maybe this information can help somebody that you know that is struggling to have a baby Unfortunately, I'm hearing more and more about people experiencing infertility these days more than ever As a matter of fact when I was younger in my 20s when I was I'm really struggling with infertility when I like really figured out that I was infertile. I Um, I Didn't hear about people being infertile It was rare very rare Um, but nowadays it's like every other person I talk to something they either They know somebody or the or or somebody in their family or a friend or something Is somebody is experiencing some type of problem with infertility? So today we're going to talk about conquering infertility and fibroids at the same time naturally um This information that i'm going to give you Is really I mean there might be some little nuances that i'm going to tell you about the infertility situation, but It's all the same with healing Reproductive issues. It's the same root So i'm going to get into that in just a second If you are new here, welcome My name is chelsea canoodson I am a certified holistic health coach Fibroid healing coach life transformation coach and I help christian women Heal wound issues and emotional traumas using food herbs god's word and prayer as medicine um, I don't just like work with christians, but Really the solutions that I I have to offer come from a biblical perspective And I am a christian and that's who I am. There's a lot of other people out in the world that don't come at this uh This problem that people have from a christian or a biblical perspective So I figured since I am Somebody who cannot I'm that's who I am. I can't separate my belief in god and The way I live um As best I can to please god I can't separate it. So Some of you might not like that, but that's who I am But there's other places you can go if you don't like the the christian perspective Lots of them actually So I just wanted to share that Um, where are you tuning in from don't forget to put your questions in the chat Also, I have opened the doors to my new group coaching program. It's called the fibroid detox collective The information for it is down in the description box below this video if you have questions Please um chat them down below or you can shoot me an email and info at what chelsea eats dot com So today we're talking about conquering infertility Let me know in the chat if you struggle with infertility issues or if you have Struggled with infertility issues and came in like I would really like to know your story Um, I'm and also I want to make sure that I let you all know that I am a not I am not a doctor I'm giving you the information that I'm giving you Based on my own experience And the experience of my clients And dealing with infertility is very hard I can tell you that from my perspective it Made me feel like I wasn't feminine or something Because everyone around me you would blow and their their husbands would blow on them and they would get pregnant and There were all these women who had You know, they were having their baby showers and all the stuff, you know that comes along with You know that time in your life when you're ready to have a baby and it just wasn't happening for me and um, I quickly found out that There were some things that I was going to need to change in my life if I was going to um Have my own baby and at that time I started working on that But there were so many other life controlling issues that were going on that were That took precedent over that In my life and family that I didn't I never focused on it at that time when I was looking to You know have a baby It was probably a good thing at that time that I didn't have a baby Because I wasn't a more. I don't know that I was Emotionally ready to care for a newborn baby in my 20s like that. I just don't think I was um, my husband and I got married and he had two children already And he had custody of those children. So When you guys hear me talk about my children Those are the children that you hear me talk about Heather and Jason. They are both grown they my daughter is um 33 she'll be 34 this this This year And my son just turned 29. So I raised them just like they were my own Um, their mother was not their biological mother was not in the picture Um, I mean they had contact with her You know often all throughout the years, but I was their mother if you were to ask them today Who's your mother they would say Chelsea because I'm the one who raised them. So I have never birthed the child now by the time My body had received the healing that I needed to heal I wasn't sure I wanted to have children at that more children at that point My kids were basically grown by the time I got healing my son graduated from high school in 2013 And I was still in the thick of really like fighting the fibroids and so I just didn't know And I mean if I decide to have a baby I can have a baby now if I want to but I'm also 52 I just don't know. I there's maybe other things I want to do in my life. So that's where my story is um My story is but what I do know is that Is what I'm about to tell you All right, what is for what is infertility? It is defined as not being able to Get pregnant conceived after one year or longer of unprotected sex And infertility comes from what we eat what we drink what we think what we're putting on our bodies the same as other Reproductive issues that you've heard me talk about It's toxicity in the body blocking your ability to receive your husband sperm And that egg and sperm implant into your womb area and your hormones being stable enough to Carry a baby throughout pregnancy Now what I am recognizing these days is that there are a lot of unhealthy people who are able to get pregnant But what I'm seeing is like people in their early 20s You know 20s and 30s having to get these C sections Because they're not able to carry the baby to term Or there's complications in the pregnancy like pre preeclampsia And other things that keep them from delivering vaginally Or they're just not healthy enough to go through the process and that also this this problem Also wasn't happening 20 and 30 years ago as much as it is happening Now people are unhealthy when they're carrying babies. So I'm saying what I'm about to say you might be saying to yourself Well, my cousin sally or my cousin, you know, whoever She isn't healthy. She eats garbage and she was able to have a baby Yeah, that happens to some people they can be unhealthy and they can still have babies But unfortunately and I think it's just the environment that we're in Like we are been our bodies are being bombarded with toxic waste Toxins in the environment toxins in our food toxins in every area So we have to do our best to get rid of those toxins So there our body is not so bogged down worrying about trying to fight all of that stuff off And you know, give us an opportunity so that we can Actually get pregnant like we were designed to do if that's what we want to do Um also the reasons another reason that people might experience other than toxicity may be um There might be there. There are there are other reasons that people might experience Infertility other than toxicity it could be like something genetic happened It could be some Extenuating circumstances and I don't have time to go in to all of those things But there are those things that keep people from getting pregnant too But most of the time What i'm about to tell you can even overcome those obstacles like those Extenuating circumstances or some genetic thing So i'm just I want you to be open to what i'm here to say But a lot of times when you talk to people who are infertile They cannot hear you all they can hear is the fact that they can't have a baby or they can't get pregnant They're so distraught. They want a child so bad. They can't hear um What to do or they don't believe that there is something they can do to get pregnant All right, so let me keep going So how to overcome infertility and I understand this is a sense sensitive subject and I also understand that these are situations that Are not easy to like what i'm about to tell you it's not always easy to do um Because usually it has something to do with we're addicted to our toxic lifestyle and it's hard to give up That was my problem. I was addicted to my toxic lifestyle and it was hard to give up So that's why I did not have a baby in my in the early part of my life. That's just the truth I used to get all bent out of shape about it I used to get upset and live in regret and all that stuff But I don't anymore because I recognized I was wherever I was I didn't have a chelsea speaking into my ear saying hey, you can do it with god's help You know, it's all possible, you know back then, you know, they didn't have anything to offer here It's kind of like what's the matter with you? You can't have a baby and then some of that's probably going on these days, too but I'm here to offer you some hope That you can do it if you want to do it And with god's help all things are possible, but we can't continue to live our toxic lifestyle And expect things to change Okay All right, so What do you do about infertility? You stop worrying about it Stop worrying about egg quality hormonal levels ovulation Cervical mucous all the things that they tell you you need to pay attention to Stop worrying about it. And that might be easier said than done And if that's the case for you then it's time for you to elicit god's help and say god Please help me stop worrying about all these things that I have to do In order to get pregnant because god's the one that's responsible for you to get pregnant And I'm also of the mindset that if you're if You know if God And you know god Well, it doesn't have to have you do any of the stuff that I'm getting ready to say in order to get pregnant He can make you he can get you pregnant just like that But sometimes we have to walk out a path or a pattern Or a process So that we can learn some things So we can be ready for the thing that's on the other side That the scripture talks about and I can't remember exactly where it is But it's the part where god or jesus heals the two lepers And it says in scripture as they went they were healed Well, it was as they walked to the priest It was the instructions that god get that jesus gave to them. That's how their healing came And so what are the instructions that god gives you to walk out? And that's how your healing will come did god say Eat healthy food take care of your body get your body Right so you can conceive a baby There's also sometimes and this is this might sting a little bit for some You know, some people are wanting to have a baby They're trying to get pregnant with their with a baby And they're not even married to the man that they're trying to get pregnant with and that is like outside of god's order You can believe it or not. I'm just telling you that's what the truth of god god's words says so Not trying to you know, heap any condemnation on anybody But that's the truth and that might be one thing that's keeping you from getting pregnant as well But one of the things I want to say though is if Having a baby is always on your mind and you can't think it Anything else but having a baby is it possible that you've made having a baby an idol? And when it becomes an idol And has become like a little god to you instead of god being god for you That's a problem. So think about that. There was a time when That's all I could think about how come I'm not getting pregnant I want to have a baby and then I would cry and then like the cycle and all I could think about is I could have a baby and like I would get mad at my husband because It was seem Is air quotes like he didn't understand what I was going through because he had already had two children and And that wasn't the case at all. It's just I was feeling sorry for myself And you know my feelings were valid. I mean like I was struggling But I also wasn't supposed to be making having a baby an idol and I did for a long time So the next thing I'm going to tell you and this might sound like Whatever, but get yourself healthy Get healthy When you get healthy and I'm going to talk to you about getting healthy when you get healthy when you get your body healthy The egg quality will be good. Your hormones will be good. Your ovulations will happen Your um cervical mucus will be happy like all the things that need to fall into place for you to actually Have a baby will have it will it will be there as you work on getting yourself happy And if you're finding yourself in a place where you cannot conceive it means the body Has some things going on that needs to be healed So focus on healing instead of the baby and the baby will come. Hopefully that makes sense to you Um, so how do you get healthy? you know the whole um analogy about the gas tank The gas tank like you don't put oil in the gas tank you put actually you put gas in the gas tank Or you don't put garbage in the gas tank. I know my husband likes sonoco gas for whatever reason He loves it. He likes to put it in all of our cars. It's the only one that has like this extra I don't even know what it is and I even try to explain it But it's this gas that he likes so he puts it in there as often as he can in both of our vehicles and so Both of our vehicles are very old like he has a toyota truck. There's a 2008 I have a 2006 Honda Civic So we're not driving around luxury vehicles. Nothing's wrong with luxury vehicles, but I'm just saying Our cars run perfectly sometimes they need maintenance just like Um You because things wear and tear wear and tear comes on the car. You got to change the brakes. You got to You know change the maintenance items But the cars have been running like well oiled machines better than some new cars that I've rented in the last year when traveling on trips and um, the truth of the matter is is the reason they're like that is because my husband has taken care of them for years And they will keep on running. We will get sick and tired of the cars before they break down Do you know what I mean? And I'm actually at that point. I'm ready for a new car I've been talking about it for like a year and we haven't done it yet, but um, I'm gonna do that here soon, but Um The point of the matter is is if he didn't take care of the car Like put the change the oil and change the belts and the filters and all the stuff that goes along with it And put a good gas in it. Do you think those cars would have been lasting as long as they lasted? No, they wouldn't They wouldn't so why do we think that we could just Eat whatever we want and our bodies are just supposed to work the way God created them to work why? and like Sometimes when we turn 40 or we turn 35 or 50 People start feeling the sickness and the stiffness and the pains and the eggs And they start getting on medication and all that stuff when they're in those age brackets And they're like, oh, well, that's just part of getting old. No, it's not part of getting old It's not It's a part of you didn't take care of yourself. So that's what you need to do in order to keep going You're having to patch yourself up so you can keep going We're not supposed to be on a ton of medication. We're not supposed to be on any medication Why do you need a medication? The reason you need medication is because of the lifestyle that you lived up until this point is Jacked up and that's why you need medication Because your body is breaking down Now with that I want to say Well, the doctor said I'm too old to have a baby. I'm over 40 That's horse malarkey as I heard somebody say before horse malarkey. Anyway, do you know what that is? anyway No, as long as god actually allows you to get pregnant You have a period and ovulation and all the stuff And even I even heard a story of a 72 year old lady getting pregnant and having twins a couple weeks ago. So I don't put it past god to do a miracle at 50 55 60 all those things like I don't put it past Past god to do that But what I do say Is if you're gonna if you're going to defy odds like that be as healthy as you possibly can Stop putting junk in your body. Stop giving yourself excuses to cheat on your diet. I'm air quoting here Just eat foods the way god created them to eat created As close to the way god created them as possible And also if you're having a trouble with the cheating Ask god to change your heart about the foods that you choose to put in your body every day And if you're cheating all the time you've got some food addiction issues that need to be dealt with And food could be an idol for you if you can't stay on a plan If you can't say i'm eating these healthy foods and stick to it and you've got to um You've got to be you're being swayed by all the people around you and You're driving past the mcdonald's or whatever restaurant you love and you can't stay out of it That's a problem and you need healing in your heart for that So the next thing is exercise Exercise every day. It doesn't have to be something like crazy But go exercise move your body hydrate your body take your herbs and supplements consistently The herbs and the herbs that I recommend For this particular issue to help clear it up in your body is the womb healing tea because that's going to clear the congestion Out of your reproductive system your ovaries your tubes your uterus your vagina all the stuff That's what that will do The other thing is is to get your colon right. So I recommend my colon formula for that And also for hormones, I recommend the liver cleanser because it's going to help to balance your hormones And you can take supplements as well. I'm not going to get into that now. That's something that I will go into in my um Group program That's more like you really need to know more about a person like everybody doesn't need the same supplements And even there's probably there may be some even some herbs that you may need Two along with this more herbs you need along with this process But I don't know I'm not going to spew them out here because everybody has a different thing But that that what I just gave you those three things are are generalized So everybody who has an it has an infertility problem can use some cleaning of their uterus everybody who has a Infertility problem can use some cleansing of their liver and their colon so Those things are going to be helpful Also, the next thing is give this area of your life to god Pray as if everything depends on god and it essentially does because you can't make yourself pregnant He's the one who is going to tell you what to do to take care of your body and you know He graciously will give you everything that you need You just need to sit down and ask him and stop focusing on the baby and focus on him turn your attention towards him The next thing to consider is whether or not there are any patterns of miscarriage infertility reproductive issues abortion anything like that in your family identify those spiritual places Because if there's a pattern in your family It could be generational sin that is keeping you from getting pregnant And that is something that you will need to address as well I'll be talking more about this in my new coaching program as well We'll go deeper with that help you work through those issues because And also it can be stuff you're doing that's keeping you from getting pregnant as well Sometimes we need to flat out just repent um And I know that all of us are not we're none of us are perfect. We all have something where we fall short of the glory of god And some people don't believe that but it's true And we must go to god so he can help us free us from the bondages of our past regardless of what where it came from Whether if it's us doing stuff for our family line And when we consistently address and tend to the areas that I talked about healing will come But you've got to be patient with your body. You can't straddle the fence and be mad because Nothing has changed You can't be mad about that So I mean you can if you want to but getting mad about it isn't going to help you just do whatever you can Ask, you know solicit god's help so that you're not straddling the fence Um go ahead and put your questions in the chat so that I can answer them. I'm done for the month Yeah, I'm done. I'm telling you what I wanted to tell you and hopefully these things have helped you I want to also let you know that the um my group program it starts on may 7. So if you're interested Um, there's a link down in the description box and if you have questions you can Answer me back. I mean you can you can you can send me an email and I'll be glad to answer you back All right. Let's see. What kind of questions do we have? Do we have any questions Hi there letasha Miss cj. I'm so glad I found your channel tuning in from brooklyn new york Awesome, you know, I haven't been in brooklyn in a while last time I was in brooklyn is in um 2012 my sister in law Brother-in-law used to live on st. John's In brooklyn st. John's place or something like that in brooklyn I had fun running through the city Ty sm I don't know what that means. Let's see. Hi. Chelsea. What are you thinking of vaginal steaming? I you know, I used to um think it was fine but then I did some studying on it and It doesn't align with my face. So I don't Do vaginal steaming? I recommend vaginal douching though like you can take my um herbal I'm sorry my womb healing tea and and um And brew it let it cool and you can use a douche to Push it up into your vagina. You can lay down in your bathtub and let that let it go in that way as well Um, it helped and the skin inside the membranes inside your vagina soaks in that herb in the herbs And it helps to cleanse and Detoxify the womb and the herbs and the minerals your body absorbs it. I have absolutely done that Hey tanisha It's good to see you here ladies. Do you have any other questions? I'll wait just a sec to see And also I will be here Tomorrow Tomorrow morning at 9 a.m. And I'm gonna tell you Um some information about mullin tea and how I can help you On your fibroid healing journey I Mullen herb in general Let's see Do do you think the bye-bye anemia tea can help with symptoms of pica? Absolutely um because it's full of iron dies a um iron rich Um blend of tea The other thing you can do is take that and add some more elderberry like if you can get get your Handles more elderberry and just add another dose of elderberry. It'll it'll Increase the impact of that tea that tea all already has some elderberry in it But yes, it will but in order to get rid of the pica stuff Or the ice crunching or whatever you do whenever you are anemic or iron deficient You have to stop eating the things that cause you to be iron deficient So You can load your body up with as much iron rich foods herbs stuff like that as you want But if you continue down the road of eating The foods that robs you of iron and one of those things that really robs people of iron is caffeine So if you guys are on caffeine and you're anemic like you got to switch switch that immediately because it sucks the iron out of you. So not only are you bleeding too much to cause your body to lose iron But you got this caffeine that is sucking it out of you and also the toxic foods and stuff like that So if you haven't already removed that please remove it and that'll help your iron stores So hopefully that has that's helpful to you Any other questions ladies? Okay, so i'm just going to say bye Thank you so much for joining me today If you have any questions on anything and that you're watching the replay just put Your questions down in the description box below this video And if no one told you that they love you today Chelsea in north carolina loves you very much and i'll talk to you all soon lots of love. Take care