 Those who listen to themselves will be better at listening to you, those who love themselves will be better at loving you, those who have their own peace will be better to express that peace to you and be at peace with you. Those who understand themselves will be better at understanding others. I say this because we spend so much time working on other people to make them better for us to be around them rather than working on ourselves. Your greatest gift to me is a healthy you. Keep working on you. You'll be surprised how much better others become. Well, I actually changed it all. It's you that changed and you began to see them and relate to them differently. Cheers. Love you guys.