 But if the narcissist discards you, they worry about this. There comes a point in the relationship where you've had enough of the narcissist. You don't want to deal with them anymore. But despite that, you may still choose to stay in the relationship. But you question and confront them on the things that they do. It irritates them. They don't like it. The last thing any narcissist wants you to do is to question anything. They want to spoon feed their narrative to you. They don't want you to tell them. So naturally at that point, in many cases, the narcissist will discard you. And at that point, they're forced to move things forward with their secondary source of supply. They have to advance that source to the primary position. But they may not want to do that. Maybe they would rather keep you as their current supply. But because you're bringing these things to them, they don't want to deal with you anymore. They want things to be easy. And that is why when you start making it tough for the narcissist, they will start to move the new source to be in their primary source of supply. Because maybe they don't know enough about the new supply. Maybe the new supply isn't suitable for that position. Maybe they haven't groomed them enough. There will be many reasons why. But for whatever reason, they don't really want to do that. It's just left with no choice. They have to put the new source into the primary position. Because they haven't got enough time to go around vetting other people to see if they can fit that position, to see if they are susceptible. They haven't got enough time to do that. Because a narcissist cannot be alone for a long period of time. They can't even be alone for a few days. So it really doesn't leave them much time to go around looking for other people. They have to settle for whatever it is that they've been working on while they're with you. Which is never going to be anything good. Because they're already supposed to be in a relationship with you. It's something that greatly worries them. They also know that they cannot. Once they know that you're no longer susceptible to them in ablation, at that point you're just a lost cause. They know that they have to get rid of you. At that point, anything looks better than you. Which is why it will often seem like the narcissist downgrades. Because although the new source may not be as attractive or as successful as you are, they believe in the narcissist illusion. And to a narcissist, there's nothing more important than that. Which is why you find yourself. You can't compete. It really affects your self-esteem. It makes you chase after the narcissist. And you may look at the new source. And you may feel like you're not as good as them. Even though really, they're just a pick out of desperation. In many cases the narcissist may have only known them for a few days or a few weeks. And maybe they didn't have any other option. Which is why naturally it does worry the narcissist and they discard you. But despite that they still continue to discard you because they have no other choice. They're completely useless to them after that. The quickest way to get rid of a narcissist is to question them. Confront them. Because at that point they're not going to want anything to do with you. Anything is going to look better. But yeah, it does worry the narcissist. It does worry them. Because they wonder sometimes what if this new person is going to exploit them the way they exploited you. That's something the narcissist fears. Anyway, that's all I've got to say for this video. It's very cold up here. But I wanted to get this one in today. Thank you all for joining me. Have a great day.