 But there's this other scenario about Eri Komondi's ex-Chantel. I know we won't dwell on the story because it's in court, but there's this scenario whereby Chantel alipigia Eri Komondi, akamamsidee, ame cha pwa na chali ake, unona. So here is the thing. People were asking, was there, there was no other person Chantel would have called other than Eri Komondi, you know. Tunauliza, would you go to get help from your ex? You are watching Friends Vibes, All Feelings Are Represented. All right guys, what's up and a very warm welcome to SPM Buzz. This is Friends Vibes Natume Fika. My name is Miss Kithingi and I am joined by two other people. Usual suspects introduce yourself. Nice to meet you. I am Miss Kithingi and I am joined by two other people. Usual suspects introduce yourself. Nice to meet you. Hey, kwa ni, ame na mbo mbo leo ati suji. Una jitangaji. Una mtu. Na bila, kwa kijana, sukaril kwa skarewa rembo. Yes, skarewa rembo. Juholo, majed, rider. Uko sa mbo rimingi. Masani ma chache. All right guys, on to the topic of discussion today. Tunauliza, would you go to get help from your ex? Is it something that is acceptable? Uno onaji. Sijui, nisa, would you go back to get help from your ex? Let me ask you, you have friends. You have your family. You have... Like kuna watu wengi kwa maishayako. Onyone zende for that advice. For help before you reach to your ex. So for me no. Let's say your parents. Your other friends are not connected. Your ex was well connected. And the kind of help you need. Is only him who can give it. What is that? I mean, think about it. Just think about it. Oh maybe, like, okay. Kama for example. Kwa. That's where you draw the line. I don't know. That's hard. That's hard. Maybe I'll say, my dear ex. I'll come back to you under these conditions. Come out if you broke up, bezuri, bela stress. Past relationship, aikwana noma. Ziptobokana diniako. Naja tuwa in big terms. Niza tu diya advice. But it depends on your advice. Wait, for advice. Come on, relationship advice. Break up is not break up because mambo e kwa na bizuri? Of course, as I'm trying to continue mutual break up. Yeah, they can be. Circumstance, what was long distance. Say it's going to tingiza, meet me in Kwa Pa, I'm here live. We are in America. Ningumu. So, kuna circumstance, kuna situations. Come on, listen to advice in aikwana ex. Come on, financial advice, niza indiania. Set up event. As I'm just kidding. Womne za kwa po na fikiriana. Mulyachana in good terms, things are going on well. Kumbe ye, behind whatever. Kwa kiliake is like sour. This is the time to show this person. Dampatiya, wrong advice. Whatever. Umenda, umemomba. Kumbe ye, na piga, na piga simu ko iboa. Nasa ema umenda, like for example, like this guy said, akuna connections. Ni ane na wapigia. This guy comes to you. Don't do anything. It's very tricky. Also, you could be sending the wrong signal. Because you see, when you call me when you leave at the store, you attend. Nisha na wakunam tumu. That's true. You could be sending the wrong signal. Niza na kufiria. You know, alafu labdi wakunam tuwako. Anze kupigia screenshot. Pali ati. Friends are calling me. Hey, bro. And it's not like you haven't seen this. Tuna na, wo, umenda wakumba, iktsuako, kama for example, kuna maali, na jo, na josi, idi maali sumongeleshe. Tukaiyo. Alafu na yana na tumia, iktsuake, ama na post sasa kwa ni ni. Kwa social media ya ke. Knowing that you are in a relationship with someone else. But Nisha, kuna wale matiwadex. Na joku. Exactly. So, mimi ni ki admit nisa, yas kido, nili panya blanda ko yon relationship. I still have you contact. I can reach out to my ex. Niaje, tata kumse diye hi. But kama ni financial help. Kama ways in this idea. Niza, kuna advice. Nisa, people need each other. Waka ego kando, waka mapenziako, isiaiako kando, kama exo kwa li move on, naka patua gari, naka pata slokin, Ya, exactly. You remember this story, nili kwa kumtandao. Amira, ulewa Jimal Rosafi. Ali meet up na sama tha guy. They had some coffee somewhere. Then this guy took insta stories and posted Amira. I think kali mo nisha na kido go. Amira nia li kwa me post two stories. Then you know people started insinuating oh, I know the person Amira is dating now. Eh, kulize, kulize, kulize kakua tini ni teamastaka reveal ati kumbe. They used to date kitambo. Then, Amira kama mwambia siji ni sa idea kutafran yumba wapi siji wapi rental fulani. Then this guy started insinuating they dated. People have wrong motives. You can go back to your ex thinking we let everything in a mutual way. Exactly. What is it called? Kujio. Kujio is a separation and we are cool kumbe the person you are thinking ya kuna ma chungumbaya and let's say you moved on to a better person. Ya. You in your head you are like it was Kujio and even when you go to talk to them it feels Kujio. It is not. And also people are here ya. Imaginati ni me omoka ni kuna benziangu ni me balsuti, ni me toka France ni me inuti in Odisha. I know. Neza pata Apartment Mizuri, 3 bedroom Ni kama ikenya akunam tuminginu neneza hoge. Neneza ni me kuja, ni me kuja lunch. I know. Neneza kumpe leka ma liya kawaida tu niya siku na pereka High End Place Imaginam, better place karyana na chiku waba akirani waka 2300 Heming Wings ma kana tu liya ho me kuja wona Mekushu asiku S overhead na mchikua Na you see wana na feelings tunda kumka sirisha you ah not patient with me you see now i'm enjoying my life you you're watching. kwa niya muntumu ulize ya kumbe stori ya niya nisa patlabitu ya beduma patmi ya kwa ribu niya new girlfriend kwa niya new wife anapige simu neka niya kwanza me kwa screenseba asa screenseba? hi baby hi baby i'm with my friend here we havin lunch i'm still looking for the apartment to buy do you want saying hi? oh my god kwa niya zikuna Nairobi we we ok niya kumbe niya kwa muntumu beti niya muntumu i� Finland nututu ahh impunit kwanza kwa SD siidство kwa iyo Aki jamaani. Na you see that's not okay, so imagine how would you feel? How would you feel umetoka na irobu ku yote kwenda? Like in your mind, this is my eggs, I would never do that. So it's not always at the positive side when an ex calls you to seek for help or seek for assistance. Sometimes they even just want to use you. Because they know you, they know how you are, they know how you give people help. They will come in a way as a way that they pretend they need your help, they need you. But in real sense they just want to use you. This is the person who knows you. If you guys did it for a while, they know you, know you. Inside out. And they know what to do. They know how you can be empathetical to that certain situation. So sure. Just let's keep people who we left behind. If it was called you, if we see each other, it's hi hi, are you doing, how am I doing, that's it. But asking for help and all these other things, honestly you have so many other people you could do that. But there is this other scenario about Eri Komondi's ex Shantel. I know we won't dwell on the story because it's in court. But there is this scenario whereby Shantel alipigia Eri Komondi, akamam saidee, ame cha po anachali ake. Unona. So here is the thing. People were asking, was there, there was no other person Shantel would have called other than Eri Komondi, you know. But also Shantel kwa story ake, her side of the story. She said oh the mama was unavailable, the neighbors came but now Eri helped her tell the story to the public. And people were asking, did Erik just take advantage of the fact Uyo ni eks ni tamone shawiyo chali ako. But ok. Ube pegwa. As much as I feel like, I don't know. I don't want to say it's a bit sadistic in a way because your ex really, it's not with all the good intentions. But that's good that he helped her. That's good that he helped her because that's the situation, no one wants to be in that situation. I feel like no one would have believed her if we didn't come out like that. Which was good. But really, I don't know. It's just the ex part that is raising questions. And it could be, but it could be a legit, legit seek for help by the way. But because it's an ex who is in the picture, that's when it raises eyebrows. But maybe it was just legit help. And also I feel like Komondi just have a hair soft spot for that gown. He does? But I feel like Eric is just a good person who has a soft heart for all girls. Yeah, for all girls. Soft spot for all girls. I think he just has a soft spot for all girls. So I'm thinking he was just doing him. It's only that it happened that this is my ex. Ex, yeah. Yeah? Hey! Honestly, I don't know. Okay guys, what do you guys think? Wad you actually go look for help from your ex? Would you seek advice? Yeah, advice. I don't know. Maybe if it's something to do with work. Yeah, maybe. But I'm not so sure honestly. Advice asking for help to do something is going wrong in my nini. It's just not okay. Let us know in the comments section. Has your ex reached out just of yet to ask for help? If he has, please let us know how it went. We know when you have. Kusala ibaridi. Hakidja mani. Always remember, if it ended badly, it will still end bad. As in just no heart, by the way. I don't know if you have your last words Kito. I wish them all the best. Your exes? All the best. Your exes? Yeah. How many are they? How many are they? A lot. Funny thing. We know how much success we have. We know. Yeah. Normal people, normal friends. No, normally. No, normally. Your current has a problem. I wish you all the best guys. I'm not mean. I'm generous. All right, nice to hear your last words. I'm sorry for the poor people. We don't know. We don't know. No, we don't know actually. It's just something didn't work out. It didn't work out. We don't have to be friends because we can't be friends. What's the name of your ex? That's them. That's them. What's the name of your ex? That's them. What's the name of your ex? Sibasi Murudiana too. She's support. I can imagine it. My last words are I really hope I never get to a point that I need help from my ex. That's what friends are. My name is Miss Kipinji. And? Your name? What's your name? My name is Silvaki. Nice to have you. All right, goodbye. See ya.