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Thank you. You know the answers and that. Thank you. What's your name? Lin Omolo, my social media, Instagram, Lin underscore Omolo, Twitter at Lin Omolo too. I'm feeling like this is your first time. Can I finish with you, sir? Hi, Cleo. How are you? Hi. How are you? I'm good. How are you? I'm good. You can form immediately. Thank you. I'm just in case the people don't know you. I'm Nile Yvonne, Harry's once at Facebook and any other social media Nile Yvonne or team. Yeah. Hi, King. Now we can come to you. Hi. How are you? I'm good. I'm happy to be surrounded by you. I'm fine. I'm happy to be broken, but I'm happy to be broken. On any way, please introduce yourself to them. They are on Facebook, Jojo, Twitter, Jojo, and then Twitter. I work at Kenyahalisi 3. Wow. And then Instagram, Jojo. How do you feel if one of these lovely ladies approached you? Say, sir, sir, Jojo, and say, I'm a dungalook. So I pick a number and say I'm going to put a baddie. So I cut it as a match. It's not an easy thing. Er, J. What did you think? I had a feeling that it was not easy. I felt that it was not easy. I think that it was not easy. I think it was not easy. It was not easy. It was not easy. It was not easy. It was just your nature. We can't change it. What do you make the first move? I think personally I can make the first move. Like if I spot what I want, why not go for it? How do you go for it? How do you approach the situation? For example, I'll spot him. So I'm like, this is what I want. That's my mindset. Then he'll just come, maybe start a conversation. I'll be like, hi, how are you doing? Then the conversation flows. Then I ask for his number. So from there, he'll be done to decide whether he'll pursue me or not. Quelly? Yeah, that's how it's supposed to be actually. If he has a number, he'll say yes. If he has a number, he'll say yes. So shouldn't it be the same? If he has a number, he'll say yes. No, no, no. Making the first move. And then from her, because it's the main nature to be conscious of you. So come on, the same interest, like when you plan to go for it. So after giving you my number, like you chase me back. And then we see Palijta Africa. What do you think? Okay, my view, it's very normal for ladies to crush on men too. But it's nature of men to go for ladies. So on our side, the responsibilities are, you find that you are crushing on a man or a bacheldure for that matter. Maybe you'll have to behave in a manner that would make him be comfortable. You're familiar with that, aren't you? You're a sassan, you're a tisha. Because we don't know what to do with men. We don't know what to do with men. Who raised you? We should just thank God for them. It's normal. I love you sassan. What do you do now? Okay, now. It's not necessarily going, saying hi, but maybe utans are just coming close to him. Who are friends. And then the more you become friends, the more that intimacy would begin, you see. But inside this friendship, you see, utans would just have to begin. That would make that man be attracted to you. Yeah. You also have something to tell me. You can take it. I don't know what to do with you sassan. Yeah, there we go. Balance. This situation that you just raised this guy once, and you are not able to request for his number, what will you do? Because sometimes in life, maybe you're going to have a problem, and you are gone. It's just a one-show, you will be going. Maybe you are feeling like, I'll never meet this person. What do you do as a guy? What do you do when you meet a lady and you're in transit? You really have to go and she really has to go. What do you do in that moment? Number. And then sometimes nowadays we are creative enough. We just ask about your social media handles. Because you know me. So by the time I'll be DMing you, you know all this guy you meet at this place, then we start our conversation. Okay, so now that. Who did you want to answer that question? Okay, I was just heading to where you are. Maybe you asked a question as well as answered yourself. Because automatically I am meeting him for the first time. He won't come or maybe I won't go and tell him, you see I want your number for maybe some information later. But before we begin, we start by introducing ourselves. In that introduction you'll have to find somewhere to find that person later on, you see. There's a boy child claiming they might not see you again. So I'm going to tell him that I won't go and tell him. I'll tell him that I won't go and tell him. Let's start with the slides now. I just have a couple of curious type questions to ask you. So the topic of the day. I don't know if it's going to be clear. Is that what girls look like when they talk? Making the first move. Alright, so you have making the first move. You can get us at Y-54 on Facebook, Y-54 on Twitter. Hashtag is Queen's Wednesday. So Queen, why would you want to make the first move? Is he too slow? Doesn't he get hints? Why would you want to make the first move? Because I'm a go-getter. So if I want something, I go for it. If I support you, you're nice. I love your personality. I love everything about you. I'll just go for it. I'll come, I'll approach you. Or if I can't approach you, let's say in a scenario I can't approach you, I'll make an impression that you'll have a lasting memory. So you'll be like, I saw this girl somewhere, you'll go through my socials, and then to just come about. I don't know what you said, but Fulu liked it. He's made a sound from the ground. Okay, so what kind of lasting impression? To say me una danza, so one's a kufanyama split, and one's a kutua, it's an impression out of, as in way, out there. Just something that stands out of the crowd. Something that can make someone remind you, like, a kukumbuke. So let's say you scroll through the socials, Instagram, and then sports yourself. He'll be like, oh, this is the girl I saw last time, then DMs. Does DMing also work for us? Like, can we DM again? DMing works. Totally 100% for girls. 100%? Out of experience. What happened? It's so exciting. Because if on land dating works, but if this guy's met, the social media, which means someone DMs. Another one. But my thinking, I think is very a bit linear, because I would just imagine, since auntie had drawn a couple in real life, so in pictures, and a couple. Which means, if someone wants to DM, Kumbbe is the opposite. So what happens if she DMs you? And then you go back to your profile, and you say, hey, this is Safi Masi. You know, sometimes, like, this is the true story of Shadi. Shadi is my friend, she's my colleague, she's my workmate, a technical university. So this guy, she's the number, she's the savior of the number. So she's the one who followed online Kumbbe DMs. She's the one who felt I was the one. Being that, I don't know how they can put her name, but I accept you, Miss Yana. Maybe, she's a good girl. So sometimes, you might not be able to put her name. I love you, I love you. Ha-tih! You are making me crazy. I love you, I love you. Ya, so you might not be able to put her name, but you're the one who does it. Ya, me, you see, you all have meetings, come on, you can come and have dinner, if you're brave enough to make the first move. But if you're not, you're not going to be able to put her name. I don't think so. Sometimes, I'll tell her to come and take pictures, but if I do, she'll accept it at a certain point, and if I do, she'll wait to write for me. I'll say, I'm going to see some people and I'll ask them, she'll write me a number. She'll tell me what kind of text I'm receiving, and I'll tell her, I'll format her messages, and she will write to me, so I'll tell her, I'll ask her over the next four years, and I'll follow her. That's my twist. But I'll tell her, this girl, this girl you can attack, so, like me, Life example, like me, sometimes in Hawaii, we go to the office and we receive so many like this. We get a lot of answers from the police or the questions. At the end of the day, we get a lot of questions from the office. We get a lot of questions from the office. Okay. So, for example, we get a lot of questions from the day we go to the office, and we get a lot of questions from the office, and we receive so many like this. So, for example, we get a lot of questions from the day we go to the office. Why? Oh, it's very seemingly hard to explain. There is something we must accept. If someone is asking at the conference, if they are asking, this lady is a letter, so I come and I give her a letter, I tell her, I will give her a letter to go in the front and I will tell her that we know. If she is asking, if she is asking, if she is asking, she can say that she It's not a question of えなやつ The, that element So, so so Maga then Appanjawa Kijyambe I don't know He is not getting my hands I don't know I'm sitting here I'm walking I'm walking the door No That is all Oh, okay There's nothing to worry about How do you feel with this You found information Imagine you are in a science No, no, no, okay. Since you say me, there might be a chance that he's, you know, misunderstanding. It's not discouraging, you know. But on the other hand, we have to understand that even men come to us and we disappoint them at some particular point. So it's the other way around. They have feelings, we have feelings, but you don't have to force your kumbaya. He has to fall for you just the same way. A man falls for you and you don't fall for him. What is the outcome? If you force everything, it's not going to work. Nah, we share experience. The way I, she's put it very well, because a man can chase you and there are some who are very persistent. They can do it for years and years on end. Is the opposite true? Some day a man falls for years and years and years? Yeah. And then, by the end of the day, you will accept because maybe you don't want to disappoint your friends or you don't want to disappoint the lady. Maybe lady is a friend to your friend. So like there is a certain link. So like I'm feeling the pressure. Let me just accept. And then sometimes these ladies, you ladies who do the MS, but I'm in a successful relationship. So I can't accept you. But there's one thing about making the first move. It's supposed to know that rejection is mutual, both ways. And if you're making the first move, be classy about it. Like if you're an SM, you're not acting. This is important. How? If you're an SM, if I give you my number and then you're not acting, you're acting like you're uninterested. Like I want both of that. I'm not saying that he's not feeling my vibe. So naturally, as in rejection is mutual. Naturally, life goes on. If he takes back this, that, this, the kvib, we go on and it may lead to something successful. But who are going to be? I don't believe we're designed like that to just be rejected all the time. No. Gender, gender, gender roles are changing in our era. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. Tell me something. Okay, I wanted to say that ladies always, when they have decided to make a move, it's coming from inside. So if you have to make a move, don't just go, you are whole-bodied because disappointments are there. So be very careful when we're making your moves. It's not wrong thing. But make her more psychologically prepared that you're going to have both answers. Boy child has agreed. Because you must know what you want by the end of the day. Maybe he's not real the person you are seeing. So by the end of the day, maybe we don't want to accept this because by the time we will noticing the religion, maybe he's a broke guy. But maybe in real life, this guy is a broke guy. Alright, so please do tell me how you feel. Let me get to another slide so we can get to the motion. Alright. Queen, what a man can do, a woman can do better. What a man can do, a woman can do better. True or false? True or false? True or false? True. In our era, a woman can do anything. It's not like this is supposed to be a man's job, it's supposed to be a woman's job. Anyone can do it, anyone can manage. So in terms of context, we have to make the first move. That means we probably even make the first move better than they would. You're confident, I like it. Talk to me, do you think it's true? Very true, but when it comes to relationships, it's a bit different. Why? Let's go back to creation, men were created first. So it's natural that men will always have that first opportunity no matter what. So when it comes to relationships, ladies will always do everything that men can do. But when it comes to relationships, we are waiting for the Arabs. So when it comes to relationships, we are waiting for the Arabs to do everything that they can do. How do you feel about this, Toto? They can do it, it's more than true. Because they can do it. Hold it, hold it. You can do it. I see that women are not allowed to enter a box. So you don't want to enter a box? Maybe you're not allowed to enter a box. So you're not allowed to enter a box? No, no, I'm not allowed to enter a box. You can enter a case scenario. Water Panna, where do you live? I live in Tukata. Hi, I'm Flanny Ateo. I don't know who needs to hear this, but stop forgiving your boyfriend. We also want you to forgive him. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. So you don't want to reverse the situation? No, I don't want to reverse the situation. I don't want to say that you don't want to enter a box. But for me, I know you can do it better than us. I'm isolated. You know, you enter a box, then you enter a box. Most of the ladies, they don't want to show. Ladies don't want to show. But with the time they enter, they will notice. I don't want to squeeze it and hate it because I'm not allowed to enter. I don't want to notice. I don't want to ask. What is jam? It is to my understanding, one woman, maybe for example, who is trying to approach. And you don't really feel that vibe. There are reactions to fault, not all men are the same. There are women who are jammed. There are women who are not. They seem rainbow. Do you have the opposite is true? Yeah, the opposite. Then they start talking about your lady. The girl is a woman. She is not beautiful. So you feel, why this girl is talking negatively about my girl. So she is a girl. She is a woman. I remember her as a girl. But I think she is a woman. She is a racist. Has it escalated? Like, she is a woman. She is a woman. She is a woman. Have you ever felt like doing that to a guy? It is by force. No, no. I can't. I can't. I can't. If I ever give you my number and you don't chase me, touch her too. I give up. What is the context? Sorry, wrong message. I can't pursue. It is a man's job to pursue. We are not the other way round. If you take your boyfriend's number, and go for an act, doesn't she, is there anybody? The next step here was me. The turning point is men. When I tells somebody that I think when I notice that I know what I want, I'll go for what I want. Even if it is my mistake to go for what I want. I might be busy with my struggles and throat problems, but I might fight for what I deserve. which is funny because ladies never know what they want she and the damn hotel it will take like 25 minutes but we came hungry no that is confusion. That's don't know what you want you are just confused with the type of foods that are there so you mean confused manner type of men I have so much information in my head. I'm just about to burst. But I also do want you to whisper in my ear, don't like you, Facebook me at 254. At 254, turn on the hashtag. It's what in the morning. All right, another question. King, this is to the kings out there. King, what would be your first reaction should your crush ask you out? Pay attention. What would be your first reaction should your crush, that would happen the other day, would I feel? I feel maybe I don't have the exact same approach, but she does the exact opposite of what you expected and she approaches you first. How would you feel? I feel a bit nervous because I don't know the information. Maybe the lady is not in a better way. Some ladies outside, mature ladies outside here and they just quit out. It can't work out. But we can just be close. I'll be helping you. I know your state, you know your situation, me and this and this. Me, I want this and this and this. Well, we were in campus. This lady used to sleep in D6. I was in D4, for 24. I'll crush for this lady for quite a while. Then I can't sleep. I can't eat for one day. Me and my life is this and this and this and this. Me, even, how will you work it out? I don't know, but I know I can't do it. I can't do it in Nairobi. So even if I can't, I'm going to spend in Mombas and what what. For me and my class, it's not working. You don't work it out. Yeah. In a good way, in a better way. I can't do it in a good way. I can't do it in a good way. I can't do it in a good way. I still remember to work it out. But yeah, it was in a better way. So maybe I can't do it in a good way. You never know. So I feel a bit nervous because I don't know the response. Inika, we need to talk. Your phrase here. We need to never know what follows when we talk. We need to talk here. I have a question, ladies. Do you feel that guys are a bit more arrogant when you make the first move? Uh, naturally, it depends on the type of guy you've gone for. Yeah. Like, at some point they are, uh, odi, or something of the sort. Definitely, there's that type of arrogance, supposed to expect. Like, at some point they are too... I'll tell you that nicely. Yeah, yes. At least it's not bitter, but it's sugar-coated. It has sound, so at least sweet. Yeah. So it depends on the type of guy you go for. Yeah. So it's the opposite now also true. So, it's the opposite now also true. Do you think there's a danger for such a response? Yeah, there is. Yeah? How would you handle it, maybe? Okay, like, maybe if you have made the move, he decides so, you accept because we are all normal human beings who feel so, you know that the same also happen to them. Yes, everything here happens the other way around, you see. So, sometimes maybe I ran up to hang out. Okay, generally, you see, when I'm already makes the first move, like I ran up to say how? He says that, okay, some supernaturality in you, which is not there, not meaning that it's normal. So, maybe. I'm really glad he said that. You see, it's true. He just called him saviour. It's not saviour, but we're going to just use the name saviour. Oh, who is this? No, who is this? It is your crush. It is your crush and crushy. They'll tell you a best friend. So, by the end of that day, you will know. Thank you so very much, man. Thank you. You're wonderful. I am so to kind of hello. He knows that you are yes. And by the way, in real life, this guy is very friendly. He might not even want you to cut your hair. But this today, hello, yes. Long time ago, I lost my contact, your crush. Yes, I have been crushing on you. And who are you, please? Gina. Where are you? It ends with... That one was rude. That one was rude? Yeah, that one was rude. You, how would you take this? What are you discussing? No, I should suppose, even if I want to resist you, maybe I should be in a very good order. I should not just tell you to go to mother. Maybe there is a certain element in your life that you feel like I should be with this guy. We should just talk. Will you accept to be my friend? If you don't want to be my friend, then you go to hell. Yeah, maybe. If you can't, you can. My friend is your convert. Because you keep crying that girls break your heart, or... He goes destroying everyone else's lives, as if... Anyway. Not all of us. You see, when I speak, I speak from different perspectives. This one, in particular, I say, I don't know how my train of thought, what should I say? Yeah. If you break your heart, you can go to hell. Then it goes breaking 10 other, 15 other hearts. I don't know how I should be. I should be in a very good order. Do you see how I reject you? No, I just say, can you be my friend? Because as for now, maybe you don't want to date. You just want to enjoy your life. Things you are still trying to make things work for you. You can't even do it, you're a boy child. You've been single for five years. You've been single for five years. You're not going to have any wife material. If you're a girl child, maybe it's because you have stress. If you are a girl who is a savior, you take your weekend and spend it with your boyfriend. You enjoy it. It's nothing like being in a car that you scratch. You're going to spend it with your boyfriend. Then you take it on a weekend. On Friday by 8, and you stay at home, you enjoy your life with your boyfriend. I see the problem. Sometimes... feeling it also? If in that scenario, if I was a girl, and I text hello, I'm a GBS, from that apple, there's a red flag. No, not at all. So I say hello too. I'm a high. I love food, I must say I lost my contact. That's another red flag. Come on, I'm going to go there. I'm going to go to a conversation at that point. Is there a red flag in English? Two red flags in one conversation. No. And then the last one. Okay. How are you feeling? How are you feeling? A lady went too fast, you see. You just can't tell somebody hello. And then after hallowing, you go immediately, not not prolonging any conversation, bringing that intimacy. And then you just go direct to the point telling the guy that you are a crash. So what? You see. Be more relaxed. I love you baby. I love you. Three days later. Oh. All right. So another question. King, do you feel less of a man if she makes, if she asks you out, do you feel less of a man if she asks you out? Do you feel like you're less of a man? So many ladies that can pay bills, they can pay for your bills in a very positive way. I'm really glad you said that because I am confused a little bit. Because when we said, now when we've made this first move, does that mean now I come and sit in the house? Instead of the other way around, just because I made the first move? No. Why? Because the next thing the ladies who pay bills. The ladies that can pay bills, even if they make first move, they know what you want. And then by the end of the day, they notice this guy. This guy may be, he's not a pocket friend. So let's just go out and enjoy ourselves. I think if you have something, we should suppose to enjoy it. No matter the first one who made the first move or me, no, we should just suppose to enjoy our life. Maybe I'm broke at a kind of weekend and you have something. Joe, let's go out. Let's go and enjoy ourselves. No matter who made the first move. So there's no... So many friends of mine, like I know that Bella is watching my show. Bella do pay bills. She loves the guy. And then the guy, the guy also loves her. So by the end of the day, she says, he's still a student and from their background, Bella is from this background, he's a governor. So this guy is from normal life, but that's true love. So if there's a true love, they'll say, they made the first move and they won. They'll say, where are the bills? To cool it, to cool it, where is it? Are you ready to start paying bills now that you have made the first move? No, no, no, no. But what about if you have and I don't have? Okay, if I have and you don't have, I'll let you make your own effort. But if I'm struggling, but my struggle can still, can't pay bills. Even if like in this book by Steve Harvey, it's act like a lady think like a man. If a man really wants you, he'll either pursue you, he'll pursue you, he'll provide, and he'll, what's the other one? I've forgotten the other one. Providing, providing comes like to care and expect where, where and only pay bill. Unless women and meditally and we say for today, let me just pay the bill. Let me come out to Menda, mutually you pay the bill. I think the third slide was about what a man can do, how a man can do? Yes, can do better, but, but these are bad. I've made the first move, you can't expect me to go ahead and pay the bills. We go have fun, I still pay the bills and no. That's why I keep asking, does that mean once the girl has made the first move, she's not the guy in the relationship? If she's not the one, she's not the one to go, she's not the one to pay the bill. Because why is it, why is that question being posed? While if you were the one who was, who was, go girl, tell them. I was going to say Diana, if it was reversed, if it was you approaching her, no, no, no, no, no. Why is it not an issue then? What are the issues as we end up approaching? We don't really understand why when it comes to, as ladies we find, paying the bills and being responsible for love, hard. Like, you see, when a guy falls in love and makes the first move, that guy will always treat you. But now, you made the first move, you felt it first. See that she's not working over to... It's not wrong, when it comes to love, love, you see. That's what we expect when it comes to love. They're men who treat you, see. They can work with you, she's going to say, oh wow, I am in a palace. So, you see. I'm talking now, God. We are sick from it. I want to urge my ladies that if you have decided to make a move, go on. What you're going to do is, you're going to pay the bills because you made the first move, you're everything. But you must accept, so many guys outside here, maybe they know lifestyle, they can't manage, they can't run your life. So, by the time you will go for them, but I don't know, maybe sometimes it's what I want. But I don't know, because maybe I feel you are up there. So, by the time you are going for him, you must know, maybe this person I'm going, I don't know, maybe my bills. That's something that's very... Sorry. There's one thing that confuses us. Making the first move and this pursuing. After we make the first move, we want it to be a vibe. You live, the man that you're going to pursue, you've made the first move, leave him to pursue. Come on, mend that date. It's a mutual date. Like I said, let's go for a date. He is the one to pay. He's the one to pay. Unless I'm going to learn, let me pay for the bills today. Otherwise, the money is to pay. Like I said, let's go for the date. Come on, I mean, let's go for the date. I'll willingly pay. Interlipa. He'll like it. I'll wait. I'll wait. I'll wait, I'll wait. I'll wait. I'll wait. Some of you are going for coffee. I know, I know you are excited. All right, so we have another slide. Please don't forget to give us your thoughts at WhiteFive on Facebook at Y254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag screens Wednesday for White in the Morning. All right, Queen, is it your intention to intimidate when you ask him out? Is it your intention to intimidate when you ask him out? Do you now feel that you don't close the shorts? Yes, when you ask him out, he'll say yes. When you ask him out, when you ask him out, he'll say no, we are busy. We have plans. Please go cancel with your boys. Is that the intention? Okay, I would want to say no. But it all depends from ladies to another. Yeah, there's that girl who when she makes a move, she's doing that out of love. But when she makes a move, she's doing that out of love. But still, she intimidates. Yeah, so it depends from ladies to another. Okay, so let's check and see if we can go back to Chile. No, we are busy. We have all our developing ways. How do you feel about this? For anyone who wants to date down, when you date down, it's kind of dating someone. I don't want to say social class, it's just beneath somehow. It may be a very big age gap or just different to say me, not really exclusively to social class. So when you date down, it's not like you have the power to flirt with me. I don't want to date anyone as before. Oh my gosh, what if she leaves me? Oh my god, I have to stay. Nini, is that your intention with the guy? No, if it's a mutual relationship, that's not my intention. I say ma, let's go out. You just want to treat you, heave or two. But, I have a say in this. Like, I don't control this relationship, I don't want to date you. You're the man, you know your place here, but I have a say in this thing. If it's mutual, it can't be intimidating. But men would like being the head. So at a certain point, you must just allow them to do their things. But again, as a lady, you should not suppose to look like you are desperate. Because the guy would like doing other things, that they will start feeling like you are desperate. You should not suppose to worship this guy. Sometimes you must have a bit of control of the relationship. You must have your stand. How do you advise? As a cheerleader of that relationship. When you are doing the relationship, come on. I cheerleader. How would you advise the cheerleaders? The cheerleaders, they must have their stand. Because if this is out, I want to have time with you today until this and this. So if you want to go watch Man United and what what, today please spare me. I want to be with you. So he sacrificed himself. When he watched and jumped, he said, I don't want to be with you. I want you to watch the game. If you want to go watch the match, you can say that if you are going to end the game, that means you must have your stand. If you want to end the game, you must have your stand. You must have your stand. You may be the first one but you must still have your place in a relationship. It's like you don't have your place. There is wisdom in our rules, to make believe character saviour is jubilating. Facebook at 2-5-4, turn on Twitter, hashtag is white in the morning. Okay, another question. Queen, would you be upset if you ask him out? He says yes, then you end up doing all the work. Would you be upset if you ask him out? He says yes, and then you end up doing all the work. As in, you have to go to work and come. Okay, you stay. All right, you have to go to work. Okay, if you go to work, maybe you have to go to work, so we don't have to do that again. But if you ask him out, he says yes, then you end up doing all the work. He says yes, then you end up doing all the work. Let's just say all the psychological kind of emotional situation, when do we take control? Is that something you want? Would you get upset if that happened? I think also, at some particular point, it shows that this guy is disinterested. He is pushing him to the wall. So before you push him harder, maybe think twice. What would you say? Yeah, I would be upset if you... I've already made the first move and you're not pursuing me. As in, there's nothing left. Can you want to say something? What about if this is a guy who is not able to do anything? If this guy is good, he might be more qualified. There's nothing like not able, there's little effort. There's a lot of pressure on how you're doing, what you're planning for the day. As in, let's go out, let's go out. The little effort, at least in Tajuwa, you're making an effort. Me to enter Gikaz on the other side to make this thing work. I don't want to sleep over happy. You said that you are saying that you can... No. to me, a rungo. Yeah, yes please. Just let me have that, thank you. So, it's like you are saying, like your comment, because you are saying you can date a man with a little effort. Like you can appreciate that little effort. Yeah, then dating a big guy who is not making effort. So, if you can appreciate the little that I'm doing, that's fine. That's all be okay, because maybe I'm not able to... to knee your standards, but I can know these little... I have a 300... Yeah, you have a 300, you have 5,000, to make it more just to cool you. All right, there is a video, a very short video of a guy advising the girl children on this matter at hand. I don't know if we have it ready, but I really am excited for you to watch it again. You can still get us at White Fire Phone Facebook at White244Channel Twitter. Hashtag is white in the morning or Queens Wednesday. Check out the video. If he doesn't call you, don't call him. It is the responsibility of a man to chess you. It is not your responsibility as a woman. You are a queen. You deserve to be at home. You deserve to relax. You deserve to spend time fixing your crown, not chasing after a man. Real kings will chase after you because they knew you don't text him. If he doesn't call you, don't call him. It is the responsibility of a man to chess you. It is not your responsibility as a woman. You are a queen. You deserve to be at home. You deserve to relax. You deserve to spend time fixing your crown, not chasing after a man. Real kings will chase after you because they text you, don't text him. If he doesn't call you, don't call him. It is the responsibility of a man to chess you. It is not your responsibility as a woman. You are a queen. You deserve to be at home. You deserve to relax. You deserve to spend time fixing your crown, not chasing after a man. Real kings will chase after you because they know and can text you, don't text him. If he doesn't call you, don't call him. It is the responsibility of a man to chess you. It is not your responsibility as a woman. You are a queen. You deserve to be at home. You deserve to relax. You deserve to spend time fixing your crown, not chasing after a man. Real kings will chase after you because they know the... Fix my crown. Not to be texting, texting. Okay, but I like texting. That White Fight for Office, look at White Fight for China, under the hashtag is White in the Morning of Queens. So I say, we are about to conclude this very juicy and saucy debate. And you want to tell me something about that guy, isn't it? Yeah. Tell me. But you must know the direction of men to lead this. And then from there... I mean, I'm not sure. At some point, you are in Samantha. Oh, you are still in Kiringa. Where is your Samantha now? From there, it's when you can take the advice. Yeah, but to kid you are your ratio. It's not reflecting. You just sit with her. She is your mother, she is your mother. Now, what I like to do is share knowledge. Because once you know something, no one can take it from you, except the good Lord, your creator. So, yes, there's a ratio. There's an imbalance in seven, I think, is two-one. That's being seven women to one man. But somewhere in India, there is a culture where women marry two men at a time. Because not the men. No. Who is less? Kami, Kadem, no, one of me. Like your men. They don't do a less. Either way, they are... Now you are here feeling, feeling nice because you can marry more than one wife because you are African. And your melanin says it all. But in India, I can go and decide also to marry many men and it will be okay. Go to India, but what I like about the context of the guy, what's the guy trying to bring out? Do it to be desperate, yeah? Even if you are fighting for your place, don't do it as if you are feeling you are desperate. You should have time for yourself. You should mold yourself, yeah? You should feel appreciated. Don't just be when the two go two, jumping anyhow, begging for attention. You should not suppose to be attention seeker. As much as you are fighting for your place. We can do what's done, we all like attention. No, but it's equal extreme lenient. Feel like, what's happening? What's up? Yeah, you deserve to be somewhere there. That's what the guy is trying to bring out. Yeah, so I fully agree with him. You're not supposed to sound desperate when you're in a relationship. Like there's this famous quote, which is, I think it's your mast. Come on, there's nothing going on. Just, yeah, to go by the quote, which is, I think it's your mast and everything will be fine, yeah? My favorite thing about your line of argument is, yes, you're willing to do the whole approach thing first, but I've already, I've told you, I'm not going to be in a relationship with anyone else, just like you. What I like about your conversation today is, you have advised the girl child accordingly. Come on, I'm not going to be in a relationship with her and say, oh, killer times, she has a credit, she's not going to be in a relationship. I'm not going to be in a relationship. Ten days, huh? Ten days, huh? Yeah, I'm not going to be in a relationship with her. In a relationship. And what I like about your conversation is you're very firm with your belief system. Now, but you can also relate to her, so that's quite wonderful. What would you like to say in conclusion? Okay, finally, I want to say that. Love is for both of us. This is that time when you used to have a headache. I have to go ahead, don't restrict yourself with a lady, a man or whatever. It's for both of us, yeah? Unlike that, okay? You want to say something? Yeah. But again, I can encourage ladies, if you know what you want, go for it. It will cost you nothing if you go for what you want. If you feel that that thing can build you, you can go to the next level where that guy fights for it. But don't fight for it in a way that you are kind of showing that you are desperate or what. But just go for it. You deserve the best, so just go for the best. So, in short, it's okay. It's okay. Like shoot you're short, but it's okay. But shoot you're short. Now he's dumb. Shoot you're short anyhow. Okay, great. Yeah, in conclusion, ladies, don't be afraid to make the first move. As in it won't cost you anything, but also know your worth, fix your crown, and don't sound desperate to the guy. Yeah. Okay, classy. We have come to the end of this session, but I'd like to read for you a couple of messages that are on our social media pages, that is Y254 Facebook, Y254 channel on Twitter, hashtag one in the morning, or Queens Wednesday. Yes, remember to relax to fix our crown. I keep too many bomb by your way, way, way, way, way. All right, it has disappeared a little bit. Tell you what, watch us sit with Elizabeth, I love when you're with my other hosts, and then we'll do the Facebook thing together. For, all right, don't touch that time.