 narcissism and law of attraction the law of attraction is the belief that positive or negative thoughts bring positive or negative experiences into your life it is always in effect just like gravity you are creating your reality with your thoughts and beliefs we manifest narcissists into our lives because of what we think and believe our thoughts and beliefs create our reality we grew up believing that love was meant to be painful because that is what we experienced in our childhood maybe we didn't feel like we were loved and that then created low self-esteem we lived our lives looking for our worth outside of ourselves and we could never find it in anyone or anything as years went by this way of thinking became ingrained in our subconscious minds it made us feel like we could never be enough and this then became the energy that we carried within us the energy that we carry within us it's also the energy we send out vibrationally you cannot send out an energy that you don't already possess and when we send up the energy of not feeling enough that's what we then attract people like narcissists who act arrogant or grandiose people who feel the need to manipulate and exploit you or cheat lying steel from you because they feel like they lack the capabilities and potential to succeed these are the kinds of people you will attract into your life when you send up the energy of not feeling enough like attracts like and when you are constantly around narcissists it prevents you from forming a relationship with the most important person in your life yourself which then continues a cycle of you attracting the same people and things again and again which is why it is so important to take some time to yourself to take some time away from people and just go within yourself learn to love and accept yourself because if you don't learn to do that you will continue looking outside of yourself for your worth which means that you will continue to attract narcissists into your life when you send out vibrations of feeling unworthy and unloved that's exactly what you will attract you need to develop your worth from within you need to learn to love and accept yourself which will then raise your vibration and when you raise your vibration you will attract better things you don't attract what you want you attract what you are so if you want to attract someone who's full of peace love and joy you have to be that first because like attracts like whatever you focus on whatever you give your energy and attention to will then become a part of you it will affect your vibrational frequency and it will then determine where you attracted to your life so instead of focusing on what you don't want focus on what you do want and watch how your life changes watch how you begin to attract healthier people and things into your life because now you're vibrating at a higher level and narcissists can't get to you up here only people of like kind can reach you at this level only people who have done the work and learn to love and accept themselves only people who carry peace love and joy within them people who believe that they are enough so they don't need to take anything from you they don't need to manipulate to exploit you because they've got their own and that is why giving is such a high vibrational act because it means that you have more than enough and whatever you give out is what you will then get back but you must first have something to give you must ensure that your cup is full you must feel like you are enough and that is why it is so important to put the work in it is so important to learn to love and accept yourself because like attracts like and if you want to attract love you must love yourself first whatever you feel is what you will then attract it to your life thank you for watching I hope this video raised it with you please like comment share and subscribe click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future video future videos if you like it then a my paypal link is in the video description coaching inquiries can email me at Natoa coaching at gmail.com thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon