 One of my One of my one of my assistant coaches she coined the term It's much better to be interested than to be interesting Because that's really your two big goals in a conversation Not to try to impress her without how funny or how whatever you are. It doesn't work Consistency will always falter What are your two jobs in a conversation woman one get her talking as much as possible? To Make her feel good about it when she does That's it. That's all you have to do the most common line I use to open up a conversation or I have my guys just to open up a conversation. Hey, how's it going? It's not your job to try to be funny or interesting and win them over. It's not your job to say the right thing It's just your job to start the conversation. It's your job to just get it going and then see what she has to offer We'll talk a little bit more about how you make that happen specifically. Don't worry But I want to emphasize first and foremost That if you go in there, it's trying to impress her. It's always gonna fall flat So the goal is of course to get her talking. How do you do that? How do you get a woman talking? several ways first