 because friends allow you to be you around them because they bring out you. But if you are dining yourself down to be around them, they are not friends. They're acquaintances, which is fine once you settle that. Once you settle this person is an acquaintance, you put them into the acquaintance space on the algorithm. If you keep acquaintances in the friendship part in the algorithm, every time you reach to that relationship, you are going to realize, I am not me around those people, but we keep hanging out and doing things together and developing our courts friendship. And the more you do it, the more you are separating you from you to keep them.