 Hello everyone, another live video. In this one I'm going to be talking about the reason why you don't hear from the narcissist. Now there could be a number of reasons. It may be that they have found new supply. They have found someone else that loved bombing this new person and in that stage they're very excited, they're preoccupied, they don't have any time for you. So yeah it's true in that phase you will not hear from them and then when they begin to devalue their new supply that's when they will come back, that's when they will re-idealize you and love bomb you again. Yes there is some truth to that but that's not what I want to talk about in this video. I have talked about that many times already. There is another reason. It's not always about new supply. The reason why you don't hear from them it's not always because they found someone else although that may be what they want you to believe. With narcissists it's all smoke and mirrors, it's all deception, illusions, a lot of what they do is fake and many of you should know that already. When you look back at your relationship with them did any of it seem real? I mean if it was real how could they just pack up and leave like you never existed? And it's the same thing even when they move on to someone else or as though it seems like they've moved on to someone else. It doesn't mean that it's real. It's just as fake as it was with you but that being said it doesn't mean that they have found new supply. It doesn't mean that they have moved on to someone else. The reason why you don't hear from them it could just be that they've taken a fall. They failed at whatever they were trying to accomplish. They failed at trying to outdo you, at trying to compete with you in the arena where you play. They can't surpass you in those aspects so all they can really do is stay ghost. They have to just stay away. They don't want you to see that they have taken a fall and they're not going to come back. They're not going to put themselves in a position where they may be humiliated where you get the chance to reject them. They're not going to allow you to do that. Most often the reason why they leave is because you have already caused an injury. You have already rejected them. So they're already hurt. They're already trying to make it seem like they're doing better without you and if they're not in a position where they're able to portray that to you the only thing they can do is just to stay away. So yeah it's not always about that. Just know that it is an illusion. It is a facade. When they disappear on you, when they ghost you, it doesn't always mean they have someone else and a lot of people won't come and tell you that but I want to be that voice for you tonight is that it doesn't mean that they've just gone and moved on to something better as they want you to believe. They want you to think that something was wrong with you that they could do better than you. It ain't always like that and I want you to know that. I want to provide some comfort to you tonight. I know many of you. You're feeling down. You're feeling rejected. You're feeling like they've just made a fool out of you and they've just left you out in the cold like you're nothing like you never existed. I know I get that. I've been there myself. I know what that feels and I just want you to know that it ain't always like that. Many times it has nothing to do with that. It's not so easy for them to just move on or replace you. They want you to think that it is. They want you to validate their false narrative. Yeah, they love you to do that because that gives them supply. That makes them feel better about themselves. But no, it ain't always like that. They will tell you whatever they think, whatever's going to make them feel better about themselves. Yeah, they're going to lead you down that path. They're going to make you think that so that they can feel high and mighty at the end of it. They're not going to tell you the truth. So yeah, I definitely want you to keep that in mind when you don't hear from them because they know you're an empath. They know that when all is said and done, you're going to question yourself. You're going to think that something was wrong with you. They know you're going to think that and they play on it. They feed that narrative back to you. However you're thinking about yourself and your mind. When you're questioning yourself, you're questioning if something is wrong with you. You're feeling like you weren't good enough. And especially when you're bringing that to them, they're going to tell you that all day. They're not going to tell you anything else. They're not going to tell you that you were good for them. You did everything you could to make them happy. Even though that may have been the truth, they're not going to tell you that. They're never going to let you feel like you've done enough because nothing was ever enough for them. They always wanted more. They want you to think that they've gone on and they found more. They found what they were looking for, which is never you because you were never good enough for them. There was always something wrong with you. Or at least that's what they want you to think. But trust and believe, you know, when I say this to you, you were all right. There was nothing wrong with you. You did everything you could to make them happy and that wasn't good enough for them. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. That just means that they can never be happy. But yeah, they go and they ghost you. Doesn't mean that they've moved on. Doesn't mean that they found better. Yeah, they will tell you that. Of course, their narcissist, what else are they going to say? They're not going to tell you the truth. They're not going to tell you that they're miserable without you know. They're not going to say that. But many times when you don't hear from them, they have taken a fall. They've failed and the miserable, they're depressed. They just don't want you to know about it. So yeah, they they will stay far away from you. They will because they're afraid of being exposed for the frauds that they are. They're afraid of being humiliated. They're afraid of being rejected by you. They're never going to put themselves in a position where you have a power where you are now aware you have the knowledge and you can crush them. No, they're not going to put themselves in a position where you are able to do that. Never. But just know that you do have the power. I'm giving you the power. I'm empowering you tonight with my message by giving you this truth, this wisdom and I want you to use it to protect yourself from these types of people, people who tell you they love you, they want to feature with you and then they just ghost you like you're nothing, like you never existed. I want this message to empower you. So yeah, that's all I've got to say for tonight. I hope that my passion comes through in this video. How I feel for you, everyone who is going through this. Just know that I am with you. I'm always there for you whenever you need me. You can talk, you can contact me anytime. You can book a session with me for my website, Narcsefiver.co.uk. You can save me a message on an Instagram. I'm always here. I'm always here. So I just want to give that message to you tonight. I love you all and I wish you all of the peace and love in the world. I really do. I hope that things get better for you. 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