 Karibusana. Welcome back. This is Stay Why in the Morning and you're hanging out with me, Brian Sanko. Now, to go to Makuliza Swali, Katika Social Media. Let me get it, let me get it. In men's conference, Mona Resolutions, a men's conference, Huwa Hazidumo. I will sample your feedback. And joining us live in the studio. Of course, Keshwani Valentens. Whether we have amazing surprises for you, I swear to God you will like it. You will like it tomorrow. I swear to God, you will love it, Keshwani. So, stay tuned to I2 for 4 Channel. I'm joined by Yama The Point, Karibusana Brother. Thank you very much. And then there's Edwin Sanino. Yes. All right, welcome. So, let me start with you, Edwin. When it comes to Valentens Day, kuna kwa nga nile fasaad, amo kuna kwa nga nile narati, we are like, it's always men wama sao lika. Nima bbigas tuwa na taka treatment. Oh my goodness, I'm losing my voice. Nima bbigas tuwa na taka treatment, but then mama bbigas lazima. Lazima upe lekem tuwa out. Ati kama ita midu kope. Now, when it comes to men's conference, I remember those at the time, nili oganazi oka sama old men watenda o hangout maali and then watarudi after Valentens Day, imaisha. But then bone jai happen. Amani kitu tuwa ina sema. Nasi ukuleli. In my opinion, naza sema clearly tumekwa tukizumusho about the men's conference thing. Because of the aspect of Valentens Day, you know, Valentens Day, aijai sema specifically like it's a girl to take out day. Send her. It's something mochoni. The couple, the two of them, wanna go to somewhere, they have dinner and whatever. But how to mefani kakua, we have made it about girls, like the female aspects, such as how they are the one who is supposed to receive the treatment. The boys are the one who... to give the treatment. But anyway, generally na fahakuaiva. But do you feel like as kwaizitu na jikwa, what do you mean men can also be taken out by women? Clearly. Would you feel guilty kwa taken out by a woman on a date? A kweleka ku treat, a kulepia bla bla bla and the rest of the whole date she bang. Will you feel guilty mo takwa tu saa? You'll be like, hey, I'm getting it right. Honestly na kwa saa, lakini piyanda angalia, as a man na pela kwa, denadjutu konaio mentality, as a man wendu na fahaku, ku pela kana out na kuku treat the lady. But mi ni kezulzu opinion mi moneere as a say ma, it's a good thing it's okay. See, I don't mind ku pela kwa out na the girl. Okay. Let me come to my poetry guide. Yes. Adi u kwa, I'm sure kuna ma poetry, ma poem sushi aitungia madem aka mambehii nta kwing besuki a Valentine's Day. Ome panga ketu? Ya ku bebeika, sika valentine's day, ketuiko. Okay, na, it's fantastic. Now when it comes to men's conference, siduka mo shia attend moja, shia attend moja, a mo naisikianga to sisha media. For the last year, on 14 February 2020, when I was to attend, but I was broken down. What happened? By a lady, you know, valentine is all about love. Okay. So I was, by that time I was in university and my girlfriend by that, by then I was still at home. So I traveled from university back home. I did my shopping, I did my car and my flowers, whatever lady needs by then. I traveled with it back home so that I can maybe surprise her, show that I love her. But my surprise, when I reached home, we were supposed to meet at a certain restaurant so that we can interact, talk more and discuss maybe our love issues and plan for the future. But when we met by then, we were this, I was very much disappointed to meet her with another man. Wow. Like it was just like, what has happened to me? Like you are loving someone who is loving another person in a different way. So I was really broken until I don't really attend them in case they are taking place, but men's conference, according to me, they have very good occasions that should be, that should talk about how men should treat their wives or their girlfriends or their lovers and we should discuss as men things that we should do so that we bring our marriages to the correct way and so that we can plan for the future relations. I like that last part, things that we need to discuss as men to ensure that we bring relationships zikwa fiti. Now, kwa zi men's conference, what do you think kwa nivitugani wa siu wongela? Abu uzi wa kimi tikwa zi conferences? Yes, in case maybe it will happen. I mean, kwa zi maona, this one that has been advertised, this one is real, it's professional though. What do you think some of the things kwa wana wongela kwa kwa kaka kwa men's conference? Maybe we should have a different approach and we should have a different approach and we should learn and change our mindset here. You know, it depends with the person organizing and the people who are attending. Some just organize, maybe women like football, they think that we discuss men, so some of us discuss that we can talk about futipos that we can track, we can do networking. But so it depends with the person who is organizing. So if the person organizing is talking about maybe relationship, basically we shall talk about how we can restore our relationships into a correct way. So that in this maybe conference we can talk about things that we can do back home with our wives or things that we can do in our lives or that to maintain that contact with our wives so that we may not have things such as a divorce or maybe fights in our relationship. So whatever we should do is that in men's conference they discuss an idea, for example, we can discuss an idea that when a man tells you that he'll be home by maybe 7 pm and maybe arrives 2 hours late as a woman what you are supposed to do or as a man what does it mean to your relationship. So we discuss resolutions or the ideas or the things that we should do in our relationship so that we should maintain the contact or maintain the good relationship with our wives or with our lovers. All right, Mr. Yamada poet I love that. Now let me come back to you Edu. What should we expect tomorrow from the baby boys some boy childs? I know kutako bada ekeshu kuna national prayer day ikopale yaya stadium minta kuna represent why to perform minta and apu kwaomba station kwaomba kila mtu imuakama kwaomba kumbuke but na jupinesu kia valentine's day so kama uta ndana mimi ebun tume email but Edu what should we expect tomorrow tomorrow is here finally the day we have been waiting for is finally here what you expect Nini? First of all we have seen the hype has been building up around tomorrow and sasani keshu it's tomorrow and the hype we all hope that we will live up to the hype right? So now on at the theme of tomorrow like people will be so jovial people will be doing the most you know we are seeing people going to like they are just trying to do their best to treat their spouse as well and their wives, their girlfriends in the best the way they can because in valentine's is usually different for the couple you may find some for some couple maybe tomorrow they are marking maybe something they are for the anniversary of something anniversary they are celebrating it and coincidentally is on valentine's day you see it adds some extra spice to the to the day so i'm seeing that every couple or every couple out there they are celebrating valentines in a different way and that's what makes it different from maybe last day because I feel like this year the hype is really there it make one hype mingisana it make one hype mingisana it's okay and speaking of hype as well as kupelekamtu out what are some what are some of the ways that the baby girls should be treated amam tuakitaka kutritiwa especially boy chadakitaka kutritiwa baby girl what are some of the things are fanya kesho like it's for fanya kesho but they how to kumetritiwa fitidia valentine's from you from my perspective kituakunza nim only serve a surprise kwanakitu enyome iemunye hajuwi she knows the basic thing which is nikesho maybe they are heading up somewhere you need to hide all the details to how you are going to spend you know your the curiosity is what makes it more interesting so you need to hide the details of how you are going to spend the day where you are going aki kukuliza na koso insistent even lay about the location just say ni hapa adikauna seyama me addi senapasa mingi hopu kuku okay to kenda hapa adi anaka it's okay lakini kumbe umeku ki plan something big for her na unajuha how important it is for her because to me notice madem bedesku izi wana seyama it's not about what when you come by it's the truth of it that matters it always matters the thought that will will likauka seyama utampe laka hapa it was really matters yaa sasando na naniki seyama you need to hide the details of where you are going to iku eleka surprise you need to have a surprise for her another thing unafa kum kuhu na zama kupaches something kumpea something and ita mark today like the valentine's day itself maybe we may spend the day in a restaurant na siku kisha na you reveal something lika just lika say maybe una toa something lika a really pretty necklace so just something special unique is onwe na piya kitutabae lika ana ata kwa poa now lika you do ni girlfriend yaa ko or your wife so kini nuwa nuwa kituita ita mbama piwa so you know something as a kwa disappointed but piya the girl herself she will not act like a T-Membo because it's a good day everything is going well so ata she'll hide it so i think those are the things that are as a man keshu na fako umiji umiji ami na pukamizu okay i like that yes what are some of the things boicha dana fako fanya keshu na jua keshu nile ona se ma we are going to celebrate love you know boicha alpiya sila zima wenge kwa expender zenya wezema negi like just my brother said here okay so whatever you should do make sure it's in your capabilities like I was reading some tweets back days I read whereby a boy took a lady into a certain restaurant and the lady ordered some expensive things that the lady could not afford the man yaa the man could not afford yaa so inge bidi umu umus chana akatoka so bidi kwa baki kumu anum ika bidi sa mefanya tukazu palindio ame chon gaviyazi gaya bidi kwa recovered but in the meantime we should know we should ask men ame asa boicha or asa person in a relationship make sure when you are doing something do something that make sure you can afford to do it kamabili ame sem usifanya kitu ame aiko aiko kwa wezo aiko or maybe you can just surprise surprise her by visiting her randomly without telling her or maybe taking her place you can take her to a museum take her to a seaport maybe you can swim or just enjoy it's not all about spending time chatting about the love for the past year and it's also good for this time for valentine to plan for whatever you are expecting this all year 2023 planning for whatever you should do or your aspirations as your love make sure maybe you are planning to open a business maybe you are planning for a wedding maybe you are planning for more so this is the best time for you as two couples to make sure you plan whatever you should do for the next 12 months or the next few months ahead all right i remember this theory ya kevit boy lendo kusab surprise what if you surprise me too and say I don't know if you are dead if you have plans I will surprise you and tell you wow I will surprise you and make you pet so I am like babe here is a you know surprise me I will give you a concert like this you know when you surprise me I will give you a gari and tell you what you should do first of all it really hurts when I don't surprise you I will tell you about the relationship in the form of my experience I really passed I passed through it so that when I find a shop I will give you a plan about that day the schedule will be full but I will tell you you will be very surprised just to me when you will be surprised when you will be surprised you will be very surprised so that you will be surprised when you will be surprised it really hurts by the way okay heartbreak I am sure after after Valentine's Day I am sure towards end of Feb as well because Feb actually next week but one March happened in Otengyotajua I was in a fake relationship all this was just a game all this was not a serious thing it was just they call it uh what is the what is the name what is the name of that thing that people just hook up once it was just a fling you know they call it a fling so uh do you feel like kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa I am heartbreak smingi you know you want to say Manga it will end up in premium tiers it was all Lavi Dabi and then it finally ends up in premium tiers it has been there previously una pata before una just kuna some other ladies una to me for advantage una pata maybe ini valentine's yengu ya kwanza tade mnonga nae anambio to ingines uko e anepelika valentine's but after apo I am not seeing anything between us but achan enene valentine's nisi how it is me and then after apo up to me ya nene say uni valentine's yengu ya kwanza you really want to go all out so you are genuine ye ye ye you are genuine you are seeing something happening after what is not just one day event and then it all goes to normal so as advice those people out there in ya kwa kwanza and una feel uko na that pressure nasa samatu just relax just do you just the way you planned to do it don't start or start referring to how people other people are doing it just do the way you wanted to do it if you are thinking maybe you could just go to a park and just walk you know valentine's there's no rule that said valentine's you should go to a hotel you should go to a cinem or something valentine's is all about spending time with your loved one right is it always a romantic partner am I a relationship partner am I I'd like to hear your insights on that lazime tukwa tum tum na pendana romantically am I paying as a core like something else see lazime kwae by a loved one because personally Adi last year when I went I didn't go because I didn't go I was not dating so we just went with our friends it doesn't mean like you have to buy your partner it's not your partner you can just go to even you see Adi kuna hotu group of friends right I don't know what to amenda like kwae mi sema eh see kesho 22 we just do something eh tuji bambi eh tuji bambi too it's not aiku sema payati ni a love lazime kuna wife lover eh eh watu ampata na tukuna sema tunda pa we just enjoy ourselves to say ma today it was a day well spent right yes it's first of all talking of heart breaks you know fact from not even next man from just tomorrow evening or tomorrow morning there are many Kenyans who will be really heart broken like we couldn't expect for example ni kupi gesim ni kwa ambi na kupelika outbatch no call nangale kwa status ni me post mtumgini tofa uti amma opost cha cha cha amma si post na wukumtega na wukumtega so from tomorrow watu atakwa na liya ongini atakwa na furaia so we are going to have a confused emotions right to depend to the person ni ni memfikia ame filaji a cocktail of emotions yeah so several people will be heart broken because maybe me kwa mtumgini na guna zokuna fukiria mitu flanim na deitina kumbe anakuchuku yakama besti besti besti chubu kumbe na zafkira una deitina mitu kumbe ame it was just along con you have just been playing a game playing a game moneza fukiria you are in a very serious relationship kufikas kuya keshu na pata me post mitu tena on ee on main na tena ku interact you are on your on now so then we are going to have several heart breaks because we in fact the relationship we are by university relationships when you talk about campus relationship we are going to receive to receive many many heart breaks in anaku hapeniji is it because the ladies in campus are dating people outside campus who are working ama what is happening yeah the thing is you talk about now your pocket if you cannot afford me then let me look for someone oh maybe I need my needs my values you know how much I am worth life style young oh okay then kuna wale mabu ispia wako 2 outdated they don't care about valentine na on a pata na date mischa na mone ako jo anataka valentine na peliuke mahalia kuya surprise tafraye so inna bidi kwa relationship kama yo mischa na menda kutafuta another man outside to surprise him and to make him feel good whatever we are talking about case just love and what and the one has love moni kwa so expensive vivo I'm not saying that I'm not saying anything but moni kwa so expensive vivo and then isheyo siku the next day na tukiano na blok ata postim tumgin moni hape nivo I thought it should be like that na ikuwa like forever happily ever after you know it's just temporary like it's only Tuesday after apokilamitua meru di bak you know you know I'm a poet and in poet we say love nobody understand loves nobody can understand love love is just a feeling that we feel it you can feel it now love can be can be created then it grows then love dies for example if you meet your friend for the first time maybe you're a lady she'll be your crush there you'll start creating a relationship now you're creating love if you fall in love maybe you are the relationship is strong now love starts growing right then you reach a point where but you don't care for each other maybe you are now married everybody's looking for money they are students who are school now in that house everybody is just busy now love starts dying in Anzaku fed in Anzaku fed then spark dies he took my valentine he took me to school he took my valentine to a job when he took me to a job I kept him in a job then love dies but I feel like that's a mature union I believe on it to like 35 feet because I believe on it to mature like they've gone through all the stages of life on Ajua this was infatuation this was just an excitement and now this is real life with real life crisis and responsibilities all right Edu there's a meme iliko viral on twitter napi iliko a shared social media in general there's this chat iliko am12 kwa na chat na dem and then all of a sudden ana taftatuma kosa kum kaserike bona una taipa raka leo bona me delay in two seconds bona so that case chanenae na niu dema na semaivo are there people maybe one after two reason maybe avuidimitukeshondu asimpe leke outama avuido kust and then finally what after a way of making up me neze sema for other people in nezakotu genuine ana ona there's no need me kugu out of my way and I'm going to be the honu ends up suffering and then at the same time you don't want to disappoint her so that's where the excuses come in excuses zina it's excuses that they are being made in that situation then you just go petty like why are you breathing fast today why are you typing I'm used for you to reply after 10 minutes mon alone I reply in two seconds so don't wanna you excuse in a come in that moment in order to buy time ya weku jugutandok fokusu yourself useme e kesho ni kisema na meleka and then I have nothing else left ni kisema ni kesho e kesho sema e kijitu ma kesho ni nifanyihi na hi I'm looking at the future what will I have in the end and maybe betukotu na sema alia maybe ums chana atakwatuana anatumia kesho and then it's all done ajipe lazimo put that into consideration ya so I think that for other people atakwa ay kesho achatumi ni ni niji fichu kuanda and then after hours I came and said jana tukuanda but do you no naji tukenda tukupe sayfo maybe that's a week because something happened so that pates kuseni utaku jana whichever it is utaku juseme sasa kami go somewhere and just redo all this ya ya na kwa do you feel like anyone ma nyanada kuhu have valentine's kesho they're going to spend for inanchelin definitely before end of feb otakwa broke kwa leha ona budget like to say me to kesho kama ona budget then you're in trouble like forget an amazing valentine's in short kesho you must spend money that you've not been spending in january and even in the beginning of feb ya miku sumukweli that's inevitable weo kus if you think you're going to spend as little as possible you're very wrong because adu una jua atakama una seme atakama seme this kitu nasemanga ni atakama seme ume budget plan ume plan budget ya kesho asema e kesho na jua seze exit maybe something like ya 6.12 ee but then if you're spending 6k, 10k, 20k it means you're also on a salary on a salary or you have savings or you have a business or you've been saving for these since last year or maybe in january ee right ya right okay continue so doona fiel kama unseme ume plan budget me can tell you right now things tomorrow may not go as planned okay so because una fika puna seme mani hee and then we kutu nasema to umstana maybe ane teacher something uko ee I didn't expect at a teacher kitu kai you see yaa maona usimu ane be atu hee manzea we'll not have sushi we're not going to eat Japanese wherever or Japanese blah blah blah see rice let's just eat ugali mayai and we go maona usimu ane be evo mi nuna wezi kwa sababu wantaka kumu impress nuna nukita kumu impress you can't start out of your way ee because at she had expectations that she's going to be surprised it's about her yaa so iku about her and then you start say unanzaku rodini umo nasema ee situ itisha hee ee ukianda saku ume fika apu de mataza kwa I knew maybe I could have count on this one I go to the other person but I think now alone is a kubali like instead of eating sushi less it's pizza yaa but that's a one in a million chance utapata nstana na kubali kitu kama you have to understand him ee okay in short they are demanding very much okay so come on a pizza forget now talking about we talked about first of all the impression the impression that we are going to give these ladies first of all Keshu the president has announced that we are going to have prayers national prayers yaa national prayer means I represent so kia ngalia sayi kuna waname wanasema godfast meaning yaa godfast wanasema Keshu washa schedule sikutu nanda kuhomba manina valenta nwa kondani but do you feel like kuna onlata tumayo siku kwa escape history of valenta yaa kuna wengi kuna wanasema we are going to pray for this nation we have been having drought we have been having bandits so we must pray for this nation relationship with utapata badae yaa after tumayo onlata another thing they are going to use excuse yampira they are going to say we are going to watch footy ball during this time keshu kuna epl kwen champion's league champion's league yaa so they are going to use that time to maybe say we are they are going to create lame excuses I don't understand mania kia ngalia nasa we are going to we are going to then talking about expenditure we are first of all we started by talking about make sure whatever you are going to we are going to we are going to we are going to kuna kuna kuna sema ebu kila kama nga kuma restaurants na irobi kuma beshite nama oitasu wote kuna nga kuitisha pombi they are going to they are going to expensive we are going to wait for the change and let them chip you know that's a fault and they will be built out kuna wengi nama they are going to pay a heart kuna wengi nama and they are going to pre-visit leo exact and they are going to say keshu na kuhiya nama rey mbo this is what will present at my table to let it be to let it be that's a good one na usiyo ngezi ngini because we can't let it be because we can't let it be to let it be amo aseme a kuitisha yuma be haiko haiko haiko ame meishiyama ame nendo usiko ame leta which is a good ha boychart it's a good idea so people are going to create excuses zeni anendo kutumia njezote ili kumekuswa that kama ni kuspendaspend sana but the thing is we are trying to impress this lady to show that we love them and the things that kuna wali na fanya kwa kwanza kashoni katikachia muizu anendo kumba advance so that they are spending their maximum salary kumekuswa that this lady is impressed this lady is smart meishwa that umstana inelia kumpenda but later on zapatawana na regren na sema oh it was just along con umrema kumba nipendi so make sure but it's great sa yeah whatever whatever you are going to do tomorrow make sure it's you kumkono ya kumikuswa wana fanya kitu ambatio na weze shewa kus fanya kitu ambatio ay bills na kudya bills nge ne mingi keshu na isha 20k wana ingiha kumadeni na mingiko na kula onli pizza muntana na chikua lon na sema keshu na chikua lonia 10k na sema to go on a date and on that note let me sample your feedback first to the first because you are out of time kalia clinton na sema we can't live without this Jezebel daughters hey but then the question is men's conference and bono resolutions the men's conference who has idumo kalia clinton ebu anasahatu road derrick kuna na sema kwanikuna shida ojiwa kasa na sema kutua point in a make sense wana pewa remis moja hey bro and then jerry kimani na sema so babu it doesn't exist in the first place andru nyangia na sema in every successful idea there's a woman do you see any woman in that conference kichua bila shingo I see you I see you I see you and then there's kibeki turu na sema kama gani hio okay and then we had asked your question also it's about world radio day who's your favorite radio presenter in kenya and why we're gonna na sema shut up dishebelu na sema lockdown of Kirinyaga massive lewis desu na sema zizahashim beki kamilo na sema lockdown from rye hey na sema tuwong it's wild no no no but thank you thank you for your feedback thank you so much you were out of time yama the poet people can follow you on on YouTube yama the poet Instagram yama the poet and Facebook yama the poet exactly mahandle Instagram ni Hermes Junior Facebook I'm not on Facebook so what's the other Twitter ya Twitter ni Hermes Nation yes all right thank you and that marks the end of the conversation by the way Kisha we have crazy hilarious surprises for you you are not ready you have no idea it's going to be amazing so so stick around so we we are done by the way have an amazing Monday my name is Brian Sakua see you tomorrow