 A nicer version of the person that hurts you cannot heal you. When someone hurts us, a parent or a teacher, a leader, a pastor, a friend, a partner, when someone hurts us, we cannot then move the responsibility for our healing to someone that we think is a nicer, better version of them. Because when you keep substituting, the person that hurts you with someone you think is a nicer version that won't, I promise you that stuff gets old and runs out because only you can heal you. And I want you to break the pattern of looking for substitute healers that are gonna fix you. Dig deep and do the work once and for all that makes you stop looking for substitute healers and moving around in your life trying to get someone else to fix you. They can't only you can.