 I've got to decide, is this somebody I'm willing to invest a significant amount of time to get to know them? Because the reality is, folks, it takes a fair amount of time to really get to know someone whose partnership material, remember we talked about 90 to 120 days, that's the kind of period of time where you go, is this really life partner material or not? And so begin the process of going deeper by this, you know, by this third, you know, by this first or second date, remember I said the meeting, there's the predate, the meet and greet, and then the first date, but first, second date, this is the time to start going a little bit deeper to see if you share the same values, if your lifestyles are blendable with one another, and to determine their emotional maturity outside of the physical sexual component of a relationship.