 The real win is realizing that you won by losing someone who was toxic to your mental health. You know, you can never lose a toxic person. You can only win everything that comes with their absence. When I go to the restroom, you know, I don't lose anything. I flush and I win a clean toilet. You know, I mean, that's just what it is. And as far as winning goes, I always found that no matter who you are, no matter what you're struggling with, absolutely no one wants to feel as though they were nothing but a launching pad for someone else's greatness. The linchpin of the ideology for the book is to get a detailed, like think of everything your partner did. Think of how that made you feel and use the recognition of their toxicity to skyrocket you out of your own. That is winning. That's what I call winning. And it takes two to tango, right, from that exact point of view that you did something to attract a toxic person. And if you don't take care of that, if you don't improve from those signals you were sending out or the lack of boundaries that you brought to the relationship that allowed this person to treat you that way, we're going to fall into that same exact pattern of chasing that same childhood trauma, attracting that same partner. And of course, continue to lose in the quality of the relationships that you're attracting in your life. 1,000%. That's why I have such focus on the self-esteem, on confidence, on rebuilding yourself, on understanding that you may be broken right now, but you're never going to break like this again. And you need to know that because you've got to take responsibility too for your actions and what you did to attract this and why you were attracted to this. I think that's very, very important. It is not about vilifying your ex just so you can feel really great for a few seconds and continue on with your own dysfunction. Yeah, there's personal responsibility that it takes to win in losing that toxicity from your life. If you don't take that personal responsibility, you haven't won anything. You've stayed exactly the same.