 I think for the longest time, I've been trying too hard. I've been trying too hard to meet someone. I'm trying too hard to have a life partner. And there's a real delicate balance between making efforts and trying too hard. And I'm guilty. I am genuinely guilty of trying too hard. I think there's been a part of me that I am guilty of what I accuse many of you. And that is, I need you to love me so I can feel good about myself. I need you to love me so I can feel good about myself. I need you to love me so I can feel good about myself. Folks, I wrote a book called What the Heck is Self Love Anyway, we teach what we need to learn.