 like help me yeah they help you if um if uh i need help though okay hi everyone this is dr. Wallace today i'm gonna ask you how would you describe ideal parents how would you describe ideal parents really ideal parents um are people who like accept you no matter what and i don't know love and care about you and are not too strict well first there's basic necessities and they need to be able to cover that and they need to have time for you for any like extracurricular activities you're doing outside of school and like you need to support you in any decision you're making with like career education wise anything you need supportive you're free to say anything you want supportive and um kind understanding okay um like they're not like overprotective yeah um fun fun yeah that's a good one i guess ideal parents are parents that will love you no matter what and will support you during your hard times uh a good parent is someone that's always there the ideal parent um always willing to help always willing to uh just be there for their kids and take care of them with all they can i think that ideal parents would be parents that would support your endeavors in life and will help you reach your goals in the future but they'll also be accepting of what success means to you ideal parents encourage the development of their kids so their kids have their own uh world and their parents encourage that world i mean like if i get into trouble or like i have a problem they'll be able to like help me and support me no matter what yeah and like if if you like mess up or do something bad you should feel like comfortable enough to like tell them and i'll have to hide it from them yeah yeah i would say um my parents and um i have seen like some ideal parts of a russian parent versus a non russian parent is that they give kids a lot of freedom and independence so they give them a lot of trust and kind of um you know with responsibility they give them a lot of leeway so for example you can take the metro when you're kind of young like middle school and uh you're expected to kind of feed yourself and coke very early on and so it can be like yes they're chores and duties but also you just get to like really uh be treated like an adult with respect i would say like a company the children for for the whole um growth time like from at least from one to 18 um company them every day every time i want to have any problem any complaint to talk to the parents and they'll listen to them carefully patiently and try to solve the problem i would say my parents are perfect ideal parents wow that's a uh i would well at my age i would say people that teach you accountability and boundaries um when we were younger he said let me go and do whatever i want but now i would say accountability and boundaries because that's important in life as you get older you you need to understand that there's some things that are okay and some things are not okay that there are rules that you have to abide by to make society fair and if you abide by them things go better they give you love they follow your life they give you support and they really want to take care of you yeah like very supportive and open perhaps like willing to be able to help with anything whenever ideal parents are i think they um they spend time with their children and they do um research on best practices for um raising children because trends change over time and um i think they're always putting their children before their own uh lives involve parents so uh as much involved with uh every aspect of family life your kids life uh wife vice versa you know so everybody's just involved fully involved so and supportive and supportive listen to your kids give them some boundaries and yeah love them no matter what i guess yeah great are you parents no no not yet okay kyle kyle do you love your mom