 The narcissist will lose everything, they will lose everything, because they're very superficial. This is why they're always on social media, or on dating apps. They're only concerned with physical appearance or money. They don't consider anything that's beneath the surface. When what you see above the surface is only the tip of the iceberg. It's only what people want you to see. They're not seeing the bigger picture, but narcissists need supply. They get involved with people based on surface-level qualities, because they need approval. And they think that it will improve their image and make them look good. Narcissists are more concerned with acceptance, rather than working towards their own accomplishments. But they judge people based on what they wear, or how much money they have. Things that don't even matter when it comes to building a fulfilling relationship. Which is why a quality person will always look within. They will look beneath the surface. They will want to know about your morals and values. They will take an interest in your goals and accomplishments. They will want to know what you're passionate about. That's what a quality person will be looking for. Because they will want to support you in that. Narcissists are only looking for superficial things. Things that don't even matter long-term. And then they wonder why their relationships don't last. Narcissists are constantly looking for approval. They get involved with people just to feed their egos. Just so they can be told they're good enough. Not because they're really interested in that person. They're just looking for validation. They don't know anything about them. But they base their value off of whether or not people are attractive or wealthy want to be with them. It gives them the approval they're looking for. It validates their false self. And it's more important to them than setting their own goals in life. They focus on superficial things. And the people they find are often superficial people. People who are also only focused on physical appearance or money. And it's just a disaster waiting to happen. Because that's not enough to build a healthy relationship. It's destined to fail. It's destined to fall apart. But as soon as the Narcissists sees an attractive or wealthy person. They're all in. Many of them will quit studying. Or leave their jobs to be with this person. They will think that they've met their soulmate. And they're just basing it off surfer level qualities. Things that don't even matter. They're not looking at any deeper qualities or traits. That this person might possess. So this person might be a Narcissist themselves. They might have no consideration for the Narcissist. This is what often happens. Because superficial people often end up together. But neither of them have the qualities to build a healthy relationship. So it's a disaster waiting to happen. But as soon as the Narcissists meet someone like this. They're all in. They're willing to invest everything they have. And this is when they will lose everything. Narcissists often downgrade. But if they meet someone who is attractive or wealthy. After they leave you. They will think that they've hit the jackpot. They will think that they've struck gold. But it may actually be the biggest mistake they've made in their lives. Because this person may be a Narcissist too. And they're just going to destroy them. But this is what often happens. Because Narcissists are very superficial. They will target someone based on what they wear or what car they drive. So they could end up with anyone. And not even know it. Because they're not concerned with what's beneath the surface. They don't take the time to get to know people. Because they're only focused on physical appearance and money. Don't let the Narcissists get to you. If they discarded you. And now they're fronting someone who they think is more attractive. Or wealthier than you are. Narcissists will target people. Based on things that don't mean anything. Things that don't even matter when it comes to building a healthy relationship. And they often end up with other Narcissists. Other people who are only focused on superficial things. Other people who are also very meditative. And they're just being sold a dream. Which is the same dream that the Narcissists is trying to sell to you. But it's only a matter of time until they wake up and smell the coffee. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate. My paypal link is in the video description. Coach the enquiries. You can email me at coach.narcsurviver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.