 One word to win any argument with a narcissist. I know many of you You get stuck in an endless argument with a narcissist And you go back and forth with them You try to defend yourself Try to prove your point you try to make them understand what you're coming from and It's why you do what you do But it seems like there is no getting through It's like they just don't want to understand they can only see their perspective they can only see their side of things and The more that you try to prove a point to them the worst that it gets Because they're never going to understand where you're coming from They don't want to understand even though you may be right and There may be nothing wrong with what you do But they just don't want to see it your way Because if they were to do that then they would be letting you win and That's It's the last thing that they want to do The last thing they want is to let you win But there is a way that you can win an argument with a narcissist And you can do that just by saying this one word There's only one word that you need to say and That one word is Whatever when you are arguing with them You don't need to go on and on You don't need to go back and forth You don't need to do any of that All you have to do is say whatever And whatever they say after that You can just ignore it It doesn't matter When you say that You are showing them that you don't care You don't care about what they think About what you do You do what you do because it feels right to you And that's all that needs to be said. You don't have to prove a point You don't have to back it up with evidence. You don't have to do any of that because You are an adult You can make your own decisions You can come to your own rational conclusions and If that's what you want to do then go ahead and do it But you have to show them that you don't care Because as long as they think that they can get a rise out of you About maybe there's a chance that they can sway you And get you onto their side their perspective of things Then they're going to keep trying But listen they're never going to understand your perspective They don't want to understand that They only want to see their side whatever benefits them whatever they can use to control you Because that's all it is is control By withholding the things that you need The validation because they already know what you want And they are never going to give that to you Because then they would see it as though they're letting you win Whatever it is that you want trust and believe that they will withhold that from you They're not going to let you have that and most often what you want is You want the validation From the argument Whatever you believe in Whatever your values are Your principles you want them to reflect that back to you So that you know that it is okay, you know that they accept it But they're never going to give you that And it doesn't matter how much you argue with them They're never going to see your side of things. They're never going to understand your perspective So don't even waste your time instead You can use this one word that I have given you Anytime you feel like you are stuck in an argument where they not assist All you have to do is say Whatever and once you said that you can walk away You don't have to listen to anything else that they have to say. It doesn't matter You need to show them that you don't care You're going to continue doing what you like to do and You're not going to change your beliefs just to suit them because you're confident in what you believe in what you believe in and You you know what is right so That's that You're not going to let them sway you But you're not going to feed into the argument instead You're just going to say whatever and then you're going to move on Because you know it's a waste of time trying to get them to see your side of things You know, you know, it's never going to work out like that No matter how much you may want it to all you want is For them to understand your perspective To see things your way But I can promise you they are never going to do that That is never going to happen You don't have to prove a point to them They don't have to see your side of things As long as you see it and you believe it That should be enough for you Validate yourself You don't need to depend on anyone else's validation If you think it's right Then that's okay So yeah, that's it. That's all you need to know. That's all you need to do Let's say this word whenever you're In an argument with an artist to say this one word, whatever But when you say it you have to really feel it and mean it That's when you do that then Maybe they will understand and That is how you win an argument with a narcissist Someone who refuses to understand you. All right, that's it Just looking out at this view of the city The sun is setting Now I'm gonna go and get something to eat. If this video was helpful for you Please give it a thumbs up down below Share your thoughts in the comment section Share the video Hit that subscribe button To receive the notifications my future videos And if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me, you can do that for my website it is narksafiver.co.uk and Check out my Instagram as well. I've got new pictures and videos of my travels on there It is Narksafiver YouTube on Instagram. 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