 The narcissist worst nightmare after they leave you. The narcissist will come in to your life and they will use up all of your resources. They will occupy all of your time, energy, and attention. They will weigh you down and they will use up everything that you have to offer, ac then, when you get to the point where you just can't do it anymore or you start to figure them out, then... they will become so arrogant and entitled where they think that they can just move on and find someone better than you. This is how they are thinking. Is that now that they've used up Mae'r gallu'r amser. Orr, mae'r amser yn amser y gallai gwrth accommodation. Dyna, mae'r amser. Mae'r amser yn ymdill Mary Lee. Mae'r amser yn ailident yn ei roi ddiogel ond peddw i fod yn ymdill. Mae hefyd yn ymdill. Ac mae'r amser ein bod ni'r mynd i roi dda yn ei roi. Mae'r amser yn ymdill ..yna'r olygu a'r Majestyau. Felly mae hynny'n ddweud. Mae hynny'n ddweud a'r bof yn yw... ..yna'n ddwy'r hyn. Mae'n ddwy'n mynd... ..yna'n ddwy'n mynd. Ond mae nid yn ymddangos o'i ddweud... ..yna'r ymddangos o'r hyn sy'n mynd yn ei ddweud. Fy enw yw'r ddyn nhw'n ymddangos sydd... ..yna'n ddweud yma'n ddwy'n ddwy... ac yn swyddfa'r styliadau ond yw hynny'n ni fawr, a'r swyddfa'r styliadau a fawr. Felly, rwy'n meddwl hwnnw i fi'n gwneud i rai'n wneud gyda'r byffa wireless a ddim yn ffodol i'r gael i'r thwyth oedd ynoterenu a gweithio myfydlwyr, mae'r stryd hefyd yn fwy gyrfa. A nhw'n meddwl hwnnw i'n meddwl hwnnw, ac wrth i fod eich bod ar y cyfnodd iawn, sy'n holl gweithio'r eyesight ar gyfer y gwstio'r mwyllt. Mae'n gynnwys i gyd yn ymweld yn fwy o'r holl. Mae'n gynnwys i gyd yn gilydd i gyd yn ymweld i gyd yn ymweld i gyd, i ddweud i gyd yn gyd, i ddweud i gyd yn gyd, i ddweud i gyd yn ôl yn gynnwys, ond rwy'n ei fod yn dweud yn gyd yn ymwyng ymweld. Mae'n mewn gwirionedd o'r holl. Mae'n mynd i'n mynd i'n gyd yn gwybod ymweld i gyd. ac mae'r ddysgu fod yn cael ei gydig o'n meddwl eich bod nhw'n gondol yr ydych chi'n meddwl i chi, oedd, dwi'n meddwl ychydig o'r ddweud. Rwy'n meddwl y dyma'r ddoch chi eich ddweud. Pryddoi'n ddweud o'r ffordd cyflau yn ymddir i chi o'r gwahodd ar gyfer wrth. Felly, mae'n meddwl eich gydig o'ch gyrdd ar gyfer, ac mae'n meddwl ei fod yn gondol i chi i eich gyrdd ar gyfer a gydig o'n meddwl ei chysylltu. But they didn't expect you to be happier without them. They were counting on you struggling and suffering without them. But when you do move on and things get better for you, it just sends a message to everyone that you were not the problem in that relationship. Because if they were so great, why couldn't you do that while you were with them. Why is it that it's only when you move on that things begin to get better for you? Why? Obviously, the common denominator is them. If you look back at any of their relationships when things go wrong, mae'r ffordd, ynw'r ffordd, mae'r ffordd a'r ddweud, mae'r ddweud yn fawr maen nhw. Mae'r ddweud yn fawr. Mae'r ddweud yn ei ddweud. Ond mynd i ddweud ar ymddangos, mae'r ddweud o'i ddweud ar ymddangos. Ond e'n ari o'r ddweud, mae'r ddweud yn ystod yn bwyf yn gymryd. Ond rwy'n iawn am ddweud The most difficult thing is just to let go. Let go of something that is no longer serving you. It can be hard to do that, but as soon as you let go, things will start to improve. As Buddha has said, attachment is the root of all suffering. When you attach, you suffer, even if they're no longer in your life. They may have left you already, but you're still attached to them. You still have hope. You're expecting a certain desired outcome or result. Let go of that desire. Stop holding on because it isn't serving you. And instead, move up to the vibrations of peace, love and joy. And you can do that by being grateful for what you have in your life. No matter how big or small, appreciate what you have. It doesn't matter what it is when you've been around a narcissist for a long time. It can cause you to become less grateful with what you have because they teach you to hate yourself, to hate your life, to hate everything that you have, everything that you're doing. They're training you to be that way, they're conditioning you into thinking that the only thing of value in this universe is them or something that you don't possess. So start retraining your mind. You have value. The things in your life have value. The things that you're doing have value. And stop placing so much significance on someone who never brought anything of value to your life anyway. This is why it makes no sense because you were the one who was bringing all of this stuff to them. You gave all of the value. And yet they were teaching you to ignore the value that you were bringing to them. And then they taught you to overestimate what they were doing if they were doing anything at all, but even if they were, it was just the bare minimum. They were just giving you breadcrums and they were fully aware of that. They just expect you to see it as a privilege to even be around them. So they can just get away with doing nothing for you. And yet you can give them the world and it still isn't enough. They're still going to want more. They're still going to want something better. The bigger better deal, the shiny new toy. Because they're narcissists and that's what narcissists do. They can never be grateful for anything. And if you're around them long enough, you will become the same. You will become toxic to some degree. So you need to re-evaluate yourself and see that you do have a lot to be grateful for. You need to pick your head up and look around and see that, recognise it because it's the truth. And an important thing to remember is that things don't have to be so impressive and grandiose for them to have value. Sometimes the things that have the most value are small. Things that are free, such as just going for a walk on the beach, going to a lake, it might not cost you anything. And yet it's the most valuable thing in the world. But the narcissist teaches you that material things won't matter. Things like cars, houses, expensive watches. But you need to look at the narcissist's mind to really examine why these things are so valuable to them. They see these things as something that gets them narcissistic supply. Now that should tell you everything you need to know. Because narcissistic supply is everything to a narcissist. All that matters to them is attention and admiration. They want to be seen as the best. So of course superficial materialistic things are going to have more value to someone who is a narcissist. That's just how it is, but you don't have to see it that way. If attention and admiration isn't that important to you you will find joy in the little things in life and you will see the value in that and you will experience happiness that the narcissist will never experience. Especially when you get that happiness from within. Thank you for the donation, Cat Gray. I appreciate it. But yeah, I hate to say it. But it is the truth. The narcissist's worst nightmare isn't so much you getting your happiness from within. They can't really evaluate something like that anyway. It's more about you achieving superficial things. That's what they're really going to envy. That's what they're really going to be jealous of. Because that's what they want. I mean they may also envy your inner peace and contentment. Even if it is with things that are small, things that are free. They may envy that too. But it's more superficial things. That's what narcissists value. That's what matters to them. So if you do move on and become happier, healthier and more successful without them, that is their worst nightmare. Anyway, I'd just like to thank you all for joining me on another Narc Survivor Live video. There will be more lives very soon. Thank you.