 Fixing people requires three basic assumptions, doesn't it? If I'm trying to fix you, I have to, number one, assume something's wrong with you. Number two, I have to assume that I know how to fix you. And number three, I have to assume that my idea of how to fix you should also be your idea too. Trying to fix others is a long, frustrating, and ultimately losing battle. I hope you found that out by now. Because the problem often isn't that people are broken. It's that our idea of who we think they should be is broken. I think people just want to be loved, not fixed.