 Hi everybody. This is Lisa Larson, Animal Communicator, and I'm with Alicia Alatrice Day. Hi, Alicia. How are you doing? Hi, Lisa. How are you? Thank you so much. Yes, I'm fine. Thank you. Good. Good. Well, today is going to be our last day of our Youth in Asia series. We had five set out to do five of these, was a little bit of a struggle along the way, but we finally got to the last one. And what we're going to be talking about is once you've gone all through that, and you've had to make those decisions, and you've gone through the process, and you've gone through those first days, now we're talking about some of the things that you have trouble with feeling your animal after maybe a long time. So I think that we have some questions from our viewers. Is that correct, Alicia? Well, you know, the first question here from, it comes from at Alexandra Patricio 2727. Her question is, when we lose our adorable animals, do they stay around for a long period of time, or do they re-incarnate right away? Re-incarnate. Re-incarnate. Re-incarnate. Re-incarnate. It's okay. When we introduced you, we said we were going to have a problem every once in a while, and that's okay. And she also said, I have heard from my family that they incarnate almost the moment that they leave their bodies. What is your opinion as far as the experience and concern about this? Okay, yeah, that's a great question. I think a lot of people have preconceived notions about some of these things, maybe based on their religious beliefs, but I do not think that they immediately come back. In my experience, it can be years and years. Now, it doesn't mean they can't come back right away. I've seen isolated incidents of that, but for the most part, it can be quite a length of time in our frame of mind of what a time frame is. I do feel like, yes, they can. They don't always in this while we're still in our body, but they can. The one thing that I always find is that they say, we will be together again. We'll be together again in spirit for sure. It may be, maybe I'll come back in this lifetime, but even if that doesn't happen, we will definitely be together in other lifetimes when we both have other bodies. But I also find that one of the things that they do is if they decide that they're not going to come back in a short amount of time, again, that's our frame of reference, is that they may send you another animal as well, which I find, I always call it they had a paw in sending you that animal. So I think this is telling us that we're going to have to do a whole podcast on reincarnation. So let's move on from this question and move on to the next, but let's put that on our list to talk about reincarnation in one of the podcasts. So let's figure that we will do a podcast on reincarnation. I agree with you. Then the second question comes from Spellingwater321. Okay. And I think it's a him. I lost my cat five years ago, and I can't let go of him. I would like to know, please, how I can feel him around me. Thank you. Okay. Yes. And I know that this one is close to your heart because you lost Chiki six years ago and you feel very much the same way. It's not that we all don't, you know, have never stopped loving our animals. It's just some people have a harder time getting past it than others. That's all. You know, it may be harder sometimes feeling them around after that long might be harder than right at the beginning, but it's not impossible. And I think that, you know, one of the things that I, other people that asked this question, I think one of the first things that I say is, you know, trying too hard sometimes blocks that energy. You know, when you're focused, focused, focused on, you know, what can I see? Well, I'm not seeing it. The problem is you get so focused and what you end up being focused on is I'm not feeling her. I'm not feeling him. I'm not seeing him. I'm not, you know what I mean? It's like you end up being focused on what you are not feeling or seeing, which ends up blocking the energy and making it harder for that animal to come through. You know, so I mean, I think it's important for people to know that, you know, moving on doesn't mean letting go. You know, it's okay sometimes to feel happiness and feel things for other animals and all of that stuff because, you know, it doesn't mean that you've let go of that animal, but I think sometimes people feel such traumatic guilt and such traumatic grief that they feel guilty for even thinking about another animal or, you know, thinking about life without that animal or something like that, you know? So it's important for both of those things. I think you can continue to feel them. I think a lot of times one of the things that you can do is, like I say, in addition to trying to let go a little bit so you're not trying so hard, you're not focused on, you know, end up being focused on what you're not feeling. And that's part of letting that go. And then the more you let it go, the more they're able to come in. But I also think that you can write in a journal and write to them and ask them, you know, ask them to visit you. Ask them to tell you how they'll visit you. Learn automatic writing and write that way. See if they'll come through that way. That's one option. You can have a communicator communicate with them. You know, sometimes I have had people who have had those problems, you know, like, I had one lady that she called me and when I talked to her, I could have sworn she lost her dog the night before, but it had been four years. But she was that emotional about it when I was talking to her, but it had been four years. And after that reading, it gave her a sense of peace. So I think it doesn't mean that we don't miss them still. It just allowed her to get past where she was stuck. So yeah, you can write in a journal. You can, you know, sometimes it's even about having the faith of knowing how all of this works, knowing, having the faith of knowing that they are around you. You know, I've said in other videos about how spirit is still here. You know, a lot of people they think when somebody goes, when somebody dies, I don't like that word dies, but when somebody transitions, they go off into some far away place in the sky. But that, to me, in my experience, isn't necessarily true. It's just they're right here. We they're just vibrating at such a high rate, we can't see them anymore. So it's it's like everything in the world has a vibration. The chair I'm sitting on has a vibration. It's a very low dense vibration. But it's a vibration. We as humans and animals are higher and spirit is even higher. And it's like a helicopter blade. So that, you know, when you, you know how like when you watch a helicopter blade, if it's going slow, you can see it. But if it's going really fast, you can see it. Yeah. So it's like that. And spirit is like that helicopter blade that's going really, really fast. It's not that they've gone anywhere. They haven't gone anywhere. They're right here. They're just not wearing their physical clothing anymore. So when you when you start to think of it in that way and start to understand on the spiritual level how that works, sometimes it becomes easier to feel them because we feel them through faith. You know, and I'm not a religious person. So I'm always a little worried about using that word. But you know, but it is that's what it is. It's it's an understanding that they are here and it doesn't have to mean that we have to feel them every moment. It's an understanding that they are here with us all the time. In fact, going around places that you know, with us where they never used to be able to go, which is something that I tell animals when I'm preparing them to transition that, you know, when you get on the other side, you can go with your mom to the store and on vacation and all of these places, you know. So a lot of it is this this having this understanding of how things work in and I hesitate to get too preachy here because I don't want people to think that I'm advocating that this is the only belief system. This is my belief system through the work that I do. You know, the this all of this that I'm that I'm describing to you, but I believe that it helps if you if you do understand it in that way, then you don't feel like you have to feel them around all the time, all the time, all the time, you know, and when you do want to feel them, then you write in the journal or you talk to them or you, you know, and stop trying so hard to the point where you have a relationship with them in spirit. You know, you had a relationship when they were in body and now you have a relationship with them in spirit. Yes, but very important because I I create a relationship with Chiki in spirit. She's yeah, she's just she's there and you know she's there. But I don't want to forget there there's an exercise that I just heard recently that I think sounds really good. And it's for people who have this traumatic grief that that's stand stays around for a long, long, long, long time. And this was a therapist talking about it in and she says, think about that traumatic moment, like when that animal passed or something traumatic that happened to that animal. And close your eyes, do whatever, you know, if you want to meditate, first find, do some breathing just to center yourself, whatever, but connect with that animal. And in the grief of feeling that trauma and that traumatic moment, send out love and light like a white light or a golden light to him in spirit so that you feel that you are part of healing that traumatic moment on his end. And in in some ways, what that will do is it'll make you connect with him more or her as the case may be make you connect with your animal more. And in that way, it opens this up to feeling them around more. Does that make sense? I liked it. I can't say that I've ever done it, but I liked it. I liked hearing it and I think it would work. Yes, I agree with you completely. As a matter of fact, I want to try it too. Very good. Very good. All right. And also, I don't know if you can just also go more into the things that people can see. So the more obvious signs. The most obvious. Yes. Yeah, there's a lot of things that are the more obvious signs. And one is actually feeling them like brush against your body. I know when Makana passed, I would lie in bed and I would feel him pressed against my legs like he did when he would go to sleep at night. And it was like, no, the other animals aren't around. I know it's not them. So you can physically feel them. You can, things like hearing songs that maybe remind you of them. And this works with humans as well. Again, once we get over to the other side, there is no species, there is no age, there is no gender, we're just souls and energy. But we, they, when I talk to them, they present themselves as they were in the body that the person that I'm reading knew. So songs, you know, some of the very obvious ones are things like birds and butterflies and dragonflies and feathers and pennies. Those are very, very common. So, you know, with you see these things and the minute you see them, you think of your animal. That's probably them showing you, giving you a hello, you know. And in fact, it's interesting because I have a client. I, my gosh, I've been working with her for probably 10, at least 10 years. And that's how long it's been since her dog passed. And one of the signs, one of the big signs that he gives to her is sending her dragonflies. And she calls me every single year on around the time that he passed. And we talk to him like clockwork every single year. So I have, I have a relationship with this dog in spirit, you know. And he has started sending me dragonflies. There was one time I was sitting in, I was, we were cleaning out the garage and this dragonfly came and, and he just hovered in front of me. And like at first I was a little like, whoa, I'm not sure what's going on here. And then it's almost like he could read me flew back a little way and then he came and he hovered and he did it three times. And then in the third time I realized, oh my God, that's King. That's King sending me a message. And then I emailed her just, and that was several years ago and I emailed her just the other day because we don't get a lot of dragonflies around here. And we were, we were out looking at cars the other day and there was a dragonfly that came around and I, the minute I saw him, I knew it was King. I was like, so even, even they're sending like that dog sends, he always sends dragonflies to her, but he even sends them to me once in a while, you know? So they find the ones that they like, you know? I mean, McCona likes to send butterflies, Cuba likes to send hummingbirds, you know? I know I have a, a client who's, who's cat always sends her pennies, but then there can be other things as well. There will just be things that I'll say out of the blue that do I really have to say this to this person, this, you know, sounds really weird, you know? And, and, you know, the animals will find the things that they like, but yeah, and, and you can smell them, you know, there's lots of different ways, but the key is the minute you think of them, if you see something, hear something, feel something, smell something, the minute, and the minute you do it, you think of them, then that's more, more, more likely than not it's them sending you a message, sending you a big hello. In experience, I started, when I was walking dogs, I started seeing all these butterflies, and I was like, why I'm seeing all these butterflies in San Diego, a bush full of butterflies. And then like three or four days later, you emailed me and told me those butterflies resonate with you. I'm like, why? Cheeky saying hi. I'm like, I cry and I cry. So now, since that day to now, I see a butterfly, I'm like, hi, Cheeky. Very good. Very good. Very good. All right. Well, I hope this answers some of your questions, some of the out there, you viewers, listeners, you know, because I know that this is a really important topic for a lot of you. And I don't want to upsell myself, well, I kind of do. I mean, that's what I'm doing in the podcast, I guess. But there's lots of animal communicators. I always want the people that call me. I want them to feel like I'm the one for them. I mean, there's lots of different personalities. And more often than not, I tend to feel that the people that call me, they're supposed to be with me, the people that call somebody else, they're supposed to be with them. So whoever it is that you call, do understand that you also have that option of calling an animal communicator. And you can speak to this, Alicia, about the piece that it gives you. But I do find that when I do spirit readings, which I will be honest, I love doing spirit readings more with animals more than anything else I do. I mean, I'm really good at doing the behavioral stuff. And I'm special, I specialize that and all of the other things that I do, you know, it's all part of my job. But there's just something, something really special about being able to connect an animal and spirit with their person and give them that kind of peace and comfort that they are looking for. Like my advice to everybody is like, if they talk to an animal communicator, you, for example, they gave me so much peace. The pain went a little down because I knew that she was fine, that she was with me. And it's very important to be having communication with your animal and spirit. And, and I really, you know, tell people to call you because, you know, you're one of the best animal communicators that I know. Thank you. And, and, and yeah, it's the thing, the best thing that somebody can do for, for grieving and healing. Talking with animal communicator. Oh, well, thank you for that compliment. And yes, I agree. You know, I mean, that's how I got started in this, you know, I mean, that was my very first animal communication was when, when my baby Cairo was, we were having to put lift Cairo up, you know, and, and the peace that, that's that woman gave us. I just thought, my God, if I could do that for other people. Yes, I just, I just thought that'd be the greatest thing in the world. So yeah, so I decide to, to look for you. Can you tell us how? Yeah, pause talk dot net P a W S T a L K dot net. And all of my information is there. You can, you know, if you want, want to ask questions, you can email me or, or, or call me or all of the information is there on how to order and, and takes you all through the process and everything. So yes, I think your book is in your website too, right? Yeah, my book is on my website. I also have a book website pause talking the book dot com. And yeah, and, and, and I, I do appreciate the feedback that I've gotten about the book in that it's not only people who want to talk to animals, want to learn to talk to animals. I've gotten the feedback that even, even those who are just interested in how it works, they've read it. And they've told me that they learned so much about animals just through the stories and, and through my explaining why I do things the way that I do. And, and that makes me feel really happy because I feel like one of the most important parts of my job is helping people understand their animals and animals in general. And I, when I read your book, it was so clear that it took me like a movie. I went through the whole thing and just watching everything that you were saying. It was, you know, amazing. And you're an excellent writer. Oh, thank you. And so I guess people will have a lot of benefits reading your book. At least for me, it was really, really good. Okay, thank you so much for that. Perfect. Well, thank you guys. If I really appreciate you all being here. If you are enjoying these podcasts, video casts, vlogs, whatever they're called, you know, I never know what to call them. I do have, I am putting these on a podcast as well. But if you're enjoying it, please go ahead and hit that like button and the subscribe. And if you want to be notified, hit the bell and we'd really appreciate that support. And we will be back. I believe the next one we're going to be talking about and Alicia doesn't even know about this yet. Yes, I know that insurance insurance animal insurance, which I is near and dear to my heart. And I think it's really, really important to do. So we'll we'll talk about that. So thank you all very much. Thank you, Alicia. Thank you. And we'll see you again next time.