 Hey guys welcome back to the 21 convention. I'm here with Adam Lyons, Adam awesome speech. Thank you loved it I always love your energy some great stuff Can you give the viewers a quick synopsis of what you covered? Yeah I mean so basically the the entire speech is about most people struggle with understanding how to make dating work Because they can't see when someone's actually attracted to them and you can shave off a lot of the effort that you put Into your dating life by rather than running around hoping you get somebody who likes you and then trying to make it work By seeing when you first go into a venue if there's somebody who's naturally attracted to you already that you're attracted to and then you Can bypass you know most of the crap and just go straight up to me like hey, it's obviously like me You know I quite like you Let's have a drink together or whatever and just bypass all of that horrible stuff, right? I love how you talked about you know not just going in and shotgun approaching everyone just having a plan Yeah, it's so nice to just be that aware of body language that you can really just walk into a venue and know Whether someone's attracted to or not and if you like them then you might as well just go and approach that person and just really speed Everything up. I got a student that once I taught in this technique He actually he got incredibly lazy, but it works for him He goes into a bar walks around at once and he sees if anybody he likes is showing him any signs that they like him If they don't he goes out and goes to a bar next door and of course in Austin or a sixth street It's very easy to just go in and out of bars and he reckons by the time he's gone to four bars He's met a girl that he would class as being a nine or a ten who is attracted to him And he can just go straight up to her and bypass all of the you know the usual rigmarole of trying to get to know somebody Yeah, just bounce her out of the venue perfect first approach. That's all you need. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, that's great This is what you're seven times speaking I think yeah something like that so obviously, you know, you're a big fan of the convention What is it that draws you here? The main thing for me the main reason I like this anyone convention is because there are so many different speakers here It's not just all about you know, how do I get chicks? It's about how do I become a better person and I think so many people miss that You know, I love it when I've got obviously all my advice I give out and every so often I'll be like, oh, hey guys I'm working on a film or oh, hey guys, you know, I'm doing my yoga exam or whatever it is and everyone's like dude Why are you doing that? I don't want to hear about that. I want to learn about dating stuff. I'm like man You literally can't see the wood for the trees, you know, like Building up my life making myself that much more interested by doing these different things is what makes it easier to meet people Makes it easier to date and the 21 convention really embodies that yeah Awesome to have you cool. Thanks so much for being here. Pleasure. Thank you so much. Yeah, Adam Lyons guys