 The court didn't give a flying flip about what I was already doing because it wasn't under a court order and it's not making any fees off of money that I was already paying. I would go from my unlimited parenting time to one day a week and once every other weekend. How's that a deal for someone who wants to be an active parent? Then I said I want my parenting time entered in the order and eventually a temporary order was issued and it raised my support payment to 40% of my net take home pay. Now I'm trying to paint a picture here that this didn't do well for a guy who was doing the right thing other than picking the wrong woman. When I got that order, it also reduced my ability to see the child down to once every other week. And I was like, well by design, you know that was done to set the support payment to a maximum and not really leave me with any resources to do anything with the child whenever I had the child. Then the mother started interfering with me seeing the child on the court ordered days.