 You know, listen, Marie and I aren't perfect, but we, we both come to the table with something that I think is hugely, hugely, hugely important for a relationship. And that is an agreeable personality. We both have agreeable personalities. We, we are very, like we're very, you know, it's not, she just sits back in her feminine energy and I do all the leading. No, we take turns, you know, leading what, you know, where we need to lead in this relationship. And the other person is very agreeable to one another. Agreeableness, being a giver, being, having kindness, having empathy, having good character, your actions, matching words, being playful and fun, being intentional. These are all the key ingredients to a healthy, happy relationship. So if you have those ingredients, you can build on the non-commonality.