 Hey y'all, how are y'all doing my makeup? I did a little bit of makeup look I was in a meeting earlier today with my team and The first 30 minutes of the meeting. I'm like, you know what I had to meet him back here I was like, you know, let me go ahead and put some makeup on so this is from earlier today Let me write something down real quick So y'all came back to give y'all another chitchat video because my last chitchat video was not that long at all And I'm gonna retweet some parts of my hair. I didn't lose too string twist recently But I did them. I think a little too fast and so they're already getting frizzy My hair is really really growing so they're getting frizzy in some sections So I'm just gonna redo some and that way y'all can see how I set my twist But we also have the cocktail girl. It is Friday It has been one hell of a week for me It's been a hell of a month and so today I had a doctor's appointment girl I had my yearly go up there and get checked out and she's like, oh, we need to do a couple of other She looked at my history and my family history and because of my family history. She's like, oh You need to get a mammogram on ultrasound or MRI like seriously a Colonoscopy thing you need to get all this done because there are so many people in my family that have cancer y'all it is Anyway, y'all know how we do this chitchat. We start off. What's going on my personal life I don't watch no YouTube. I want to watch no TV. So girl, I got real heavy on eyebrows for hell It is what it is. So this right here is a Cosmopolitan is my favorite drink So let's go. Here's a pomegranate Cosmopolitan too. So there's gonna be some slip-ups and everything in this cuz This is strong two shots. Yeah Mm-hmm So y'all let me get something to help retwist my hair Drink it because it's my my Co-worker and friend Christine's birthday. So happy birthday Christine. Um, I know she don't want me to Y'all so let me redo. Let me find one. It's kind of frizzy to redo Let me see. I don't like the way this one looks. So let's redo this one Okay. All right, girl. So hey y'all. How y'all doing? I get ready for Thanksgiving girl. I am not I am not cooking much of anything because it's just uh, but look why did my neighbor come over I was in the shower and I heard a knock at the door and I was like, whatever So this was last week, right Why did my my husband's like, oh Lori's husband came by and they're gonna put their turkey in our freezer I said, do what? He said, yeah, they don't have enough room And so he asked if they could put it in our freezer and I said, yeah I'm gonna let people borrow our freezer without talking I'm okay. I'm okay with for y'all. I'm just kidding. But I'm like, how the hell you're gonna ask to borrow somebody's freezer Sean, they need to get a extra freezer. Um Having a deep freezer is very common in the south. I don't see too many people out here since I've been living out here in phoenix I don't see too many people that have Deep freezers, but it's very common in the south to have deep freezers or an extra refrigerator. Hell um My family grown up. We always had a deep freezer. Just We just did, you know All right, y'all. So that's how we do that retwist, you know, and let me get a clip jerry was playing with my clips. Hold on y'all Yeah, I'm sorry So, yeah, I am cook. I'm not cooking a lot. Um Uh cornish hand green beans, um mashed potatoes dressing chicken and dressing Um pecan caramel cakes and rolls not a lot, you know a little bit. Look, I've read all that off. Not a lot though. Yeah So, all right y'all. Yeah, nothing else much going on Thanksgiving is coming up today. It's friday. Hey, look these kids Are y'all kids eating? Hey camera here. You know saying can I get some more cereal? This boy eats eat eat eat. So anyway, y'all let me show y'all how I do this. I do this tight And then hold on let me get this hair out the way I do it tight and then I do it loose okay loose loose loose And then when I get to the bottom or almost to the bottom, I start to do it tight again I like the way these look after like a week or so. They look really good. They look like, um locks after a while So anyway, y'all nothing else is going on We are taking a break from homeschooling for next week But we're gonna be doing crafts because I'm a crafty helper and I'm just like that y'all like One of the other moms I know who's homeschooling her child. She's like, oh, we do we have a program a curriculum We stick to it. I don't do anything else. I said, really? She's like, yeah, we don't I said, oh we do Um science experiments. We look at youtube videos. We read together. I print out worksheets. We do crafts I am that stereo stereotypical Pinterest mom like I went on um teachers pay teachers I found a couple of different crafts to do a couple of worksheets and every day until Thanksgiving We're gonna look I'm smiling because I enjoy it. Enjoy it every day until Thanksgiving We're gonna have something to do um because I like that y'all I like My husband is home today. So we will be having a fish fry because it's Friday Friday and y'all will be seeing it in the vlog. Yeah, this was messed up And so girl, they only had two pieces of catfish left. I'm like, um Okay, so I went and got some party wings So we're gonna have some fish party wings Some fried potatoes some green beans some sugar cookies some drinks We're just gonna have a good time because it's been a rough week. My husband has been Quiet, which means there must be something going on with him More quiet than normal. He he typically is a quiet man. Um, so I need to see what's up with him Make sure he's okay Because he won't tell me my husband's a type of man. He won't tell me if something is wrong He'll keep it in. Um That's just how he is So anyway, y'all enough of that So because we're gonna talk a lot about what I've been watching because I want to really, you know Getting to detail and the stuff I've been watching so um This smells good y'all. I'm using Kinky tress's hair butter her coconut mango butter I know y'all really can't see that because of the brightness My shedding has gotten better. I still feel like yeah, but it has gotten better. Let me take this part of my hair down So, um YouTube I'm still watching. I know that this is silly, but I'm still watching the young lady d. Sims played her single father Sims game y'all I just think it's funny and she's a character I think she's either she lives in texas or she's from texas I've been looking at cooking videos I'm looking at divas can cook some of her old videos because I am going to be making what am I doing this I don't need to do this one I'm going to be combining her brown sugar Her brown sugar pound cake and cooking with curling has a pecan caramel pound cake And I'm basically combining those recipes together to make this pound cake. I'm going to be making for Thanksgiving And that whole better turn out good. Yeah, I'm sorry. I shouldn't Call the dang pound cake a hoe. So, um I'm just trying to see which one I need to redo this one needs to be redone. Good lord girl So, yeah, what else I'm watching on youtube. So I have been checking um I don't know what it was. It was some type of show was it couples therapy I feel like it was like couples therapy or something on Oprah on the on own network that I was watching on youtube and it had, you know, of course these Celebrity couples that are having marital issues And so the therapist has bought on people that have been married for 50 Plus years One couple had been married for like 50 53 years another couple I'm getting choked up just thinking about this Another couple having married for 80 plus years y'all 80 years they were like, I think they were like 103 and uh, why am I talking a lot low 103 and like 100 years old this couple and They were basically Getting marital advice from these people that have been married that long and it was one thing that struck me odd is The one woman has had either one of you cheated and The guy said no And then she's like wow And I'm like, is that really that rare? Is that really something that's out of the ordinary to find a married couple Where neither has cheated that's really this that's that's really sad to think that um So some of the advice that these people had the elderly couples had for these celebrity couples were You know, and I I do like one of them and I I mentioned this in a video I'm going to be sharing in a couple more weeks here 40 things I've learned by 40 is the one person said I think it was an interracial couple They said keep your friends and family out of your marriage That is so true. Even when you're in a relationship boyfriend girlfriend Keep your friends and family out of your relationship. I mean seriously y'all I mean, I understand that people like to go to, you know, certain family members for advice But you got to be careful, you know, you got to be careful when you do that. Okay. Um, so I think another one was and I've heard this before Apologize when you've done something wrong and mean it and it's so funny like a Old co-worker who have been married her and her husband been married for 30 plus years That was the one advice she gave me. She said apologize when you've done something wrong Make sure you say you're sorry and mean it I said, well, um No, I was so young then y'all I think I had to be about Not really young. I was old enough to know but I was around 27 26 27 when I asked her that advice I have no shame in asking people who've been married that long for advice because they know People who've been married 30 40 50 years. They know they've been through it. It's not easy. Um Girl, what the hell is that? So Okay, y'all we're gonna We're gonna talk about what I've been watching But before we get into that is again sticking to relationships So I have a question for y'all. Y'all let me know in the comments. Okay, so hold on What would be a deal breaker for you? And a relationship in a marriage Like what would be it would it be them cheating? money issues lying I only thought about this only because he he know i'm crazy My thing is is that I've never really thought about that until I watch one of these shows I'm gonna tell y'all out here in a minute. So what would be a deal breaker for you in a relationship marriage, whatever Like what would be it to say? Okay, that's it. I'm done by so for me It would not be lying It would not be cheating to a certain extent it will be Having a child outside of the marriage That would be it for me like I know it would because am I at that point It shows that you have not only are you cheating but you're very careless and you are now Putting my Body and my health in danger because you're using you're not using protection You got somebody else knocked up and now we have you have a child outside of our covenant Oh, yeah, that would be a deal breaker for me. Yeah, no, no, no, no, no And let me back up. I will have to say multiple times cheating Um One time I may be able to let it slide like honestly a lot of therapy a lot of prayer Multiple times means that you're not changing. I can't do it. Well, no, we won't be able to do it That that's it for me. And definitely if you bring a child into this. No, okay So now what I'm watching on tv. I've started to watch and let me not kind of do any spoilers Uh on the fourth episode of the undoing undoing, excuse me With nicole kitman, which y'all I think nicole kitman is absolutely stunning. Mama is over 50 Of course, she's had a nip tuck here, but I think she has said country girl Perry She she's never in my opinion been been like this sexy person. She's just a Beautiful woman. She's a very beautiful woman in my opinion has nicole kitman and Hugh Hugh something english god So surrounding this couple they have an incident that has occurred with someone that they know And It goes from there very very good. It isn't on hbo. I believe it's on hbo. I really am liking it Okay, I'm on the fourth episode like I said What I binge watched in two days like that, baby Was the queen's gambit when I tell you this show was right up It's on netflix and it's about a orphan who becomes his child prodigy And she learns how to play chess and she wins all these awards and y'all I'm like I need to buy me a chess um A chess game and learn how to play chess, but chess is difficult I used to try to uh learn how to play when I was in high school. It's very difficult to play Um, love the movie. I'm sorry. Love the series. Absolutely. Love is the only thing I did not like And the series she has a friend that she met at the orphanage a sister named Jolyne and there was a episode where Jolyne is driving her new car and um, I forgot the main character's name the redhead. She's like, well, how did you get this car? She said went through my or a boss or a partner or someone at the law firm She's law firm. She's working at it's a paralegal And Jolyne the sister's like, yes, he's married, but eventually y'all and I'm like I don't like that I didn't like that. You got one of the only leading women of color in this series And she's working her way up by sleeping around with a married man. No, I loved it Then they got me thinking about bobby fish today. Do y'all remember that movie from the 90s called The search for bobby bobby fisher. He was also a child prodigy bobby fisher Um was but then there was a movie I believe that came out either in the late 80s or the early 90s um, so anyway y'all watching that watching the intruder Almost done with a girl like 10 minutes into it with um, michael ealy Let me tell you something. I really don't care. I just shouldn't say I don't care life-skinned men really I need to be careful because my husband's life-skinned Well, he's red and that's a little different, but he fair skin it But anyway life-skinned men really ain't but michael ealy is he he does it for me So michael ealy making good and some um, older white gentleman. He's a well-known actor I forgot his name and the um, the white guy from power And this movie it's good. I like it. I love that house that they bought in the countryside. I'm like, yes Um, like 10 minutes away from ending the movie and I'm enjoyed. I'm enjoying the movie I can already tell what's gonna happen though You can already tell what's gonna happen. So but it is what it is. I told y'all in the last chitchat I got my playlist ready for all of my christmas movies So I added this christmas. I've seen it a thousand times, but whatever Um, so yeah y'all that's what i'm watching on tv I think i'm gonna go back and watch season two or forego because I watched season one I really liked it. It was a little It's dark comedy which I did y'all look at my nails my nails or mess dark comedy Which I did like I said, I kind of want to watch His dark materials, which is on netflix, but I don't know I don't know. I don't know. There's something about it. That's I don't know. All right y'all that is it Thank you so much for watching. Take care. Bye