 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel my name is Lloyd today We're going to be talking about a subject that a lot of you guys have requested that I talk about and that's Conversation topics to talk about with a girl that you like now in on this channel I talk very frequently that it's not so much what you say. It's how you say it However, I understand that a lot of you guys when you're talking to a girl that you really like you start drawing a blank You're worried about the topics that aren't going to be interesting to her So don't worry in this video I'm going to be giving you the conversation topics that I like to use that typically lead to a very engaging Conversation not just the average conversation. She's going to have with some random dude at a bar This is going to be something that she's going to remember and as a result. She's going to remember you Okay, so before I get into this I am super excited To share with you guys that I'm going to be finally releasing a product soon on how to approach women And so if you want to get notified about this product It's going to have a tons of stuff that I can't share on YouTube like infield footage So if you want to be notified about that there is a link in the description below click that link and you'll be notified about it Okay, so let's get into the video I'm going to be covering the conversation topics that I use and how to use these so you're not just having that average You know a friend-to-friend conversation. You're having a man-to-woman conversation first topic is an observation Observational stuff is usually what I lead with when I'm starting the conversation Okay, so if I notice something about her, maybe she's wearing like a college sweatshirt Okay, maybe I'll bring that up if she has like a USC sweatshirt or something like that I'll maybe she has a certain style about herself. Maybe she has a very positive energy I don't know you can talk about this in terms of an observation You can it can lead into a compliment, but also I like to do it very frequently while I'm talking to the girl Like after we've already started talking I'll say hey, you know You seem to have a really like bubbly energy about you You seem like a natural extrovert and then we can talk about like Extroversion versus introversion, you know neither one is good or bad There's positives and negatives to both but people enjoy talking about them And I think everybody has a little bit of that in them You know it let everybody's a little bit of extroversion a little bit of introversion So it makes for a very interesting conversation And I find that that's something that you can really lead with so observation is really great If you can't think of an observation I would turn to one of the five questions that I ask every girl when I'm out So if you haven't seen that video I would highly recommend that you check that out because not only am I giving you five questions that you can ask at any point in Time if you can't think of anything to ask I actually give you nine questions in there that are really good to turn to which actually segues nicely into the second Conversation topic which is kind of one of the five questions, and that's location I talk about location a lot when I'm talking to a girl because typically Everyone who's grown up somewhere is in maybe some place different or maybe in the same area Location is a huge part of our lives, and it's not a judgmental place either So if they've traveled to different areas you can ask them about that you can ask them where they're from You can ask them where they'd like to go all of those things are really great conversation topics to have with somebody You know I travel a lot in my life So I love hearing about where people have traveled they've lived Or if they're a younger person and they haven't traveled to a whole lot of places Maybe where they'd like to go in the future Okay, so that's a great conversation topic that I like to turn to now if you're a person who hasn't really traveled all that much That's fine I think one of these next conversation topics are gonna be really great for you though and the third one is Hobbies hobbies are really great now typically the way I ask that question as I ask so tell me what do you like to do for fun? And this is kind of getting a little bit below the surface of what typically people talk about when they first meet Maybe she likes to go climbing. Maybe she's like she likes to do improv Maybe she likes to play a sport or something like that Or maybe she's really into certain kinds of art or music or whatever it is This is really how you get to know a person and the stuff that they like to do and I like to talk about my hobbies, too I have a lot of things that I enjoy doing in my spare time What spare time I have and I like to talk about them as well, too Now typically if you're having trouble Talking about this with a person they're having trouble coming up with ideas Either this can mean a couple things either they're just not that into you and they don't want to talk Which is fine Just move on to someone who will want to talk to you about this stuff or maybe they need a little bit of help coming up With stuff so if they need a little bit of help Maybe you start with the stuff that you like to do and even if they really don't have that many hobbies They'll usually make something up if they really like you. Okay, if they really enjoy the conversation Okay, so we've just dipped a little bit below the surface So even deeper below the surface for the final conversation topic that I like to use which is dreams and aspirations Typically if someone is talking about their dreams and aspirations with me, this is not your average conversation This is something that we're getting deep here Like we're talking about cool shit that they like to do or they would like to do in the future I'm a really aspirational kind of guy. I have dreams I have stuff that they all that I want to do and I enjoy sharing them with people because it shows them that I'm Motivated person. I'm a person with goals women like this kind of guy over a guy who doesn't have goals or aspirations And I'm looking for like-minded people like myself to who are into that stuff as well So not only do I got to learn a lot about this person But they get to learn a lot about me something that the typical person probably wouldn't realize now again If they're having trouble coming up with ideas that they might not be that into you But I would lead with stuff that you like to do first And if they really like you even if they don't have any big dreams or aspirations like usually make something up Okay, so those are the conversation topics However, I'm not done yet because typically the way people talk about this sometimes they can get it wrong And the way that you want to talk about it is you want to talk about it in a really playful fun manner Like be more curious as opposed to judge mental now if you if you judge their dreams and aspirations or their hobbies They're probably not gonna like you very much. So yeah, come at it from a curious standpoint Have a smile on your face if you have the opportunity to playfully tease them not about what they want to do But something that's you know, they're not gonna get offended about I would highly recommend that you do that Because that's how you get the fun playful vibes going if it feels like an interview or for it feels like You know, you're giving career advice or something like that Sometimes maybe career advice could I can see how that could turn into flirting a little bit But typically you want to be more playful and fun If especially if you're in a social environment So I've done this plenty of times with girls that I've dated It's a really a way that I get to know them when I first start talking to them I typically think that you should spend more time paying attention to people's actions But this is probably the best that you can get when you're doing a conversation with somebody The way you can learn the most about them and really have fun with them And if you do this right dude like when I do this right I actually did this a few months ago with a girl that I was seeing for a little bit And when we first started talking it was basically that you know I talked about where she's from where she'd like to go to I observed that she seemed like a very Kind of talkative person. So she was very extroverted. We talked about that We talked about what she'd like to do in her spare time She really enjoys doing yoga and she's really into mindfulness and meditation So we talked about that stuff and then we talked about her dreams and aspirations and things like that And that's where we really connected and pretty soon We picked our heads up and it already like 45 minutes had passed and like all of her friends had left and all of this Stuff so I would love for that to happen to you guys if you really get into the conversation She kind of like lose track of everything and really enjoy the interaction with the person that you're having Okay, cool. So that's it you guys if you made today consider subscribing and come out with videos like this every single week I have a couple spots opening up with my mentorship program. 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