 So Kavita says, how to tell my guy friend who's tries to pass those cross my boundaries in which I have, I hate flings for sure. Well, you just have to be really, you have to be really stern with them, you know, and just let him know from like with your boundary that, you know, hey, I really like you as a friend, I really value our friendship, but I'm not interested in anything more. And if you, you know, continue to try to cross my boundaries, I'm going to cut off our friendship altogether. Even though I really like you, I just, I'm not, I don't want to have to deal with that all the time. And so if he's, you know, if he keeps doing that, you have to consider whether it's, it's worth it to stay friends with him or not. I've had gay friends in the past who have been very, very, like usually with women, if they try to do that kind of stuff, and you tell them no, they like get embarrassed and freak out and disappear and stop talking to you. But with guys, they tend to be a lot more persistent with it. And I've had that in my case with gay guys before who are friends of mine who were like hitting on me and I had to be like really upfront with them and be like, look dude, if you try to touch me again or try to, you know, tell me this or try to hit on me or whatever, like it's going to be the end of our friendship. Like don't, don't ever do that again, right? And if you're really, really stern with them, they'll usually get it. So that's, that's my suggestion on that one.